Ugh. I Don't Know Anymore. Help? |
 May 16 2007, 08:59 PM
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May 16 2007, 09:08 PM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
i think that nothing is seriously going to happen with your current dude. and robert seems so sweet. i think its time for a change of scenery if you know what i mean...
there is no point staying together if you feel nothing.... |
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May 16 2007, 09:37 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Well, first off. You don't like your boyfriend, so quit leading the poor boy on.
You apparently like Rob and you think he likes you. So why are you asking us, when you've already given yourself the answer. It's unfair to you, and to your boyfriend if you're in a relationship you know is going nowhere. |
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May 16 2007, 09:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 443,407 |
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May 16 2007, 09:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,388 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,129 |
You should breakup with your boyfriend. You can't force yourself to like him. As for Robert, just hang out with him more and see how guys mesh, haha. From there, just let it play out by itself for a week or two.
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May 16 2007, 11:15 PM
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There's not point in continuing the relationship if the "spark" isn't there anymore. You should just be straight up and tell him the truth about how you feel instead of holding it off. You may not feel the same but its good to let your boyfriend know that you don't so you don't end up hurting him more. Don't rush into Robert too quickly, though. If this new guy catches your attention, take some time to get to know him some more. Since you guys are old friends then it should be no problem, but you should still see if he's your "type". Good luck!
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May 17 2007, 04:42 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
Regardless of whether Robert likes you back or not, it's cruel to lead your current boyfriend on. It won't be fun, but I really think you should break up with him, since you don't really like him. |
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May 17 2007, 06:35 AM
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 Don't touch me you drink! Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 518,707 |
yeah.
I basically agree with others above me. Although it may not be fun...you gotta break up with your current boyfriend, if you have no feelings for him. Its just not right to lead him on. As for Robert, I think he likes you. But you don't want to rush things. 
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May 17 2007, 03:05 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Well first off you need to dump your boyfriend and no you shouldent wait any longer, I mean isnt a month and a half long enough to decide weather or not you have feelings for him? Plus, if you dont your just leading him on.
I think you should see if your friend likes you and see if it goes any further. |
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May 18 2007, 11:46 AM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
You know, in every great relationship not matter what, there's always that special spark, which never dies but only gets stronger and brighter. Yours has none of that, sounds like it never had. So save both you and your current boyfriend from pain and break up. It's for the best.
Also hang out some more and take some time to get to know Robert better. Hopefully things will be cool for you. |
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May 18 2007, 08:03 PM
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 hardxcore. Group: Member Posts: 1,223 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,494 |
see if robert actually like you first. either way, i'd stay with your current boyfriend a bit londer. he said that he was willing to change for you, which obviously means he cares about you. he probably doesn't mean to interupt you, he just does. i know alot of people like that. i'd just point it out to him rather than completely breaking up with him at first.
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