"Look, it's not you, it's me...", Ha, right. |
 May 13 2007, 09:23 AM
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Have you ever had this line used on you when breaking up or discussing taking a break? If so, did they really mean it or were they just trying not to hurt you (even though this is the most overused breakup line in history)? Did you feel hurt or were you glad to hear it? Discuss.
I have not had this line used on me, and hopefully I never will. It's bound to happen eventually though. |
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| *suddenly she* |
May 13 2007, 12:15 PM
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I've had a similar thing like that.
Kind of like, "Shut the f**k up, it's not your fault, I care about you just as much as before, but I f**king hate your parents because they're doing this to us. I want to be with you but I never can be and I just can't be happy because of it." It just pisses me off when it's not my damn fault. At least if it was, I'd feel like this was fair. kwhatever. |
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May 13 2007, 05:01 PM
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Never had that used on me. Hope it never happens. It means many things really. Sometimes its genuine, sometimes it's like it's they use it to escape from the relationship, sometimes they say it because of outside factors like parents or friends interfering.
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| *Monochrome.* |
May 13 2007, 05:27 PM
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QUOTE(brownsugar @ May 13 2007, 10:16 PM)  No. I always do the "breaking up". But I have said, "It's not me, it's you". Although, I probably didn't say it in the tone you're imagining.  Thats a Pimpette right thurr. |
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May 13 2007, 07:10 PM
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Once, and I think he didn't mean it. He told me that it wasn't me, but after we broke up he IMMEDIATELY (literally) got a new gf.
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May 13 2007, 08:03 PM
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never ben used on me..
i've never even heard it before |
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May 15 2007, 11:33 AM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Never been used on me.
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May 15 2007, 12:46 PM
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I used it on probably two people.
 I really hate that line too.Never happened to me. |
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| *stephinika* |
May 19 2007, 01:39 PM
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Well, I didn't use that exact line, but I could've in the situation.
But hey, sometimes that line is true in a way...in one case for me, he didn't really do anything wrong, the relationship just faded and I just didn't feel the same anymore so yeah.
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May 19 2007, 07:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 524,320 |
Ehh I've never had someone do it to me. But i have done it before && i mean it. i never want to hurt someone just sometimes i need a break
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May 20 2007, 05:43 PM
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 you're my path to happiness Group: Member Posts: 40 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 523,503 |
that line is full of b.s.
it's never true. it always has something to do with "you". |
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May 20 2007, 10:50 PM
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 Training at the National Culinary Institute :D Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 518,628 |
my best friend tried to say that to her boyfriend, but she got tongue twisted and ended up saying "it's not me it's you."
It was hilarious! 
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May 21 2007, 05:43 PM
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HAHA when my boyfriend tried that on me when things were rocky
i was like ... are you seriously using that line and he was like uhh... I DONT KNOW OKAY. hahaha |
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May 21 2007, 06:47 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
i've never had this line used on me. i've never had anyone break up with me really and i hope i never will. :]
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May 21 2007, 07:01 PM
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i'd probably start laughing my ass off if anybody uses that line on me... lol i find it soo funny for some reason haha
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