Should I go for it or get over it?, SO I just got a crush on this guy.... |
 May 6 2007, 07:54 PM
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 Nepenthe  Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 347,414  |
And we've been sort of flirting. Every time I look over my shoulder he's looking at me....but is that enough to say if he really likes me or just thinks I look interesting today? We've actually dated once before...but it's been a year and we've both REALLY changed. He always makes me laugh and sometimes seems nervous around me.
Now, is it just a crush? I could easily let it go.....or do I want to explore it? If I want to explore it, I think I have to make the first move. Eeek! Any advice? |
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May 6 2007, 07:57 PM
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If he's always looking at you, he probably thinks you're attractive. You should try talking to him more to see if he's still the kind of person you'd want to date. If he flirts with you online too, then he's most likely interested. Keep it up for a while and then bring up the topic of dating again or just ask him out yourself.
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May 6 2007, 08:01 PM
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Nepenthe Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 347,414 |
Eep! Scary. I'm not exacly outgoing. T.T I'm not sure what I'm afraid of, I don't care if I get rejected. Nothing to lose, right?
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May 6 2007, 11:06 PM
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QUOTE(achimongus @ May 6 2007, 8:01 PM)  Eep! Scary. I'm not exacly outgoing. T.T I'm not sure what I'm afraid of, I don't care if I get rejected. Nothing to lose, right? exactly. do ittttt! 
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May 7 2007, 03:59 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
You don't have to rush into anything... you could always just start hanging out / talking to him more gradually; on the phone, on msn, in person, go see a movie with a bunch of friends + him, etc. When you feel like you're sure if you want to go out with him... just ask.  Or wait for him to ask, if you're scared.
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May 7 2007, 06:28 AM
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 Don't touch me you drink! Group: Member Posts: 310 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 518,707 |
pretty much what they said
I used to be soooooooooo afraid of rejection....all the time.  It's just something that you either embrace and get over it, or you let it eat at you, and you stay away from relationships. Don't let it get to you! Fight! Fight the power!
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May 7 2007, 02:52 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(Wo0yaPo0ya @ May 6 2007, 8:57 PM) If he's always looking at you, he probably thinks you're attractive. You should try talking to him more to see if he's still the kind of person you'd want to date. If he flirts with you online too, then he's most likely interested. Keep it up for a while and then agreed |
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May 7 2007, 09:29 PM
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Nepenthe Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 347,414 |
Thanks everyone. C= Sounds like wonderful device.
And THEN he wasn't in school today.  I'll try something tomorrow.
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