What should I do next? |
 May 5 2007, 12:22 PM
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 hai, Im Philjay  Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964  |
So heres my story.
I like this girl named Julie and we've been talking more than usual. I admited that I like her and that I'd like take it further than a relationship. And she was fine with what I said.(Were not like dating) She also admited she liked me and she'd also like to take it further. But the thing is. Julie is... boy crazy, as in.... she has the lust for boys. For example. "Omg hes so frekkin cute, i like him" thats how she acts. So the next day after we admited we liked each other, I asked her how many boys does she like at the moment. And she said 6. But she said shes trying to get over the habbit of liking so many guys. And I really want to be with her cuz shes kool and fun to hang out with. But she likes 6 other guys and like.. wtf? I douno what to do though, should I step up and show Im better than the other guys she likes or stand down and just talk to her sum more till she makes a move. |
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May 5 2007, 01:19 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 48 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 501,805 |
if you really think that this girl is worth it. step out, make a move show her your better.
if not, dont waste your time.. your choice. |
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May 5 2007, 01:27 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
I agree^. She likes 6 other guys, so theirs no doubt that she might eather cheat on you or she might break up with you to be with one of them. If you want someone whos commited to you i suggest you find someone else, but if you really like this julie girl and dont care that she isnt commited to you 100% step up. Its your choice.
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May 5 2007, 01:39 PM
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hai, Im Philjay Group: Member Posts: 922 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 520,964 |
I dont even know if shes worth it or not. lol
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May 5 2007, 01:57 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
No, she's too indecisive/flighty.
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May 5 2007, 02:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 295 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,658 |
passive agressive is the way to go
step up if you value her particularly more than other women or forget about her if you don't feel like dealing with her lack of commitment |
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May 5 2007, 04:12 PM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
You already found someone?
I think her liking 6 others guys shows she's either unsure or rather flirt around. Get to know her better and if you really like her then step it up a few gears and show her your worth it. You should just weigh up the pros and cons of it. |
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