Finally Got A Date With Her, Now What.... |
 May 4 2007, 09:45 AM
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 CheccMate Foo!  Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531  |
Not entirely sure where this topic goes but yeah people, I got a date with a girl I've been talking to for a few months now. We're gonna go catch the spidey flick and it's like making me a little nervous. I don't know what to wear, if I should get a haircut, what to say, etc. Blah. Any advice out there to help calm the nerves and help me be loose to enjoy the night with her?
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May 4 2007, 10:07 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
Well, firstly, congrats on your date!  I recommend NOT getting a hair-cut... as most guys I know have really awkward transitory stages between their haircut and until the time it grows back out again. This is gonna sound cheesy but just be yourself. Really, if you've gotten her to agree to go out with you, she's interested. So you can stop worrying like crazy. :) Dress casual if it's just a day-time, going out to catch the movie thing. Conversation will come naturally |
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| *Podomaht* |
May 4 2007, 10:40 AM
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Throw LOTS and LOTS of D's on that bitch.
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May 4 2007, 11:22 AM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
Thanks. That sure calmed me down but I'm still pretty excited. Oh yeah there was one other thing. I mean it's not a big deal but I'll admit it bothers me a little bit. See I don't have my own car yet and she does. I didn't ask her yet but I prolly have to ask her to pick me up. Yeah got me a little insecure. sigh
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May 4 2007, 12:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 218 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,112 |
if you ask her to pick you up, shell think you're a scrub...
haha just kidding, or am i? nah i am, you should know how to act by now, but sometimes it is good to go out of your way to prepare to show that you care. Just dont overdo it. First date usually sets the tone, for things to come. Based on her personality and how you know she is, dont be too aggressive, but still make a move if you see the opportunity. |
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May 4 2007, 12:25 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
Thanks a lot you guys. I'm getting ready right now. Peace.
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May 4 2007, 02:50 PM
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 unrequited love Group: Member Posts: 1,007 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,788 |
lmao holy crap im going to go see that movie and in the same situation. but im the girl... dont worry shes probably nervous too, i know i am but if you guys talked before hand just act it as one of those same conversations that you normally have. GOODLUCK
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| *Podomaht* |
May 4 2007, 02:55 PM
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LOL
Wow, looking back on this thread makes me wonder how much of a loser you have to be to be getting nervous about a date. Go outside much? |
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May 4 2007, 03:42 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
^I don't have a pic of her or anything like that yet, but if you saw her, you'd know why I'm like this. Damn I'm pretty lucky actually.
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| *Monochrome.* |
May 4 2007, 03:52 PM
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QUOTE(Podomaht @ May 4 2007, 7:55 PM)  LOL Wow, looking back on this thread makes me wonder how much of a loser you have to be to be getting nervous about a date. Go outside much? Dont tell me you never have felt that way before. You are quite the cocky bloke. |
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| *Podomaht* |
May 4 2007, 04:20 PM
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QUOTE(Monochrome. @ May 4 2007, 4:52 PM) Dont tell me you never have felt that way before. You are quite the cocky bloke. Birthday 26 December 1986 YEAHHHH, okay. |
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May 4 2007, 04:28 PM
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21 years old eh.
So I guess you drink alot before you go out on the date or I suppose you and her go drinking. Makes it a whole lot easier. if you think about it. Im kidding. |
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May 4 2007, 04:43 PM
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QUOTE(Monochrome. @ May 4 2007, 5:28 PM) 21 years old eh. So I guess you drink alot before you go out on the date or I suppose you and her go drinking. Makes it a whole lot easier. if you think about it. Im kidding. She's not kidding. Seriously, go to a bar and talk a while. Alcohol helps ease things up. Just don't get too drunk. She can get hammered, make sure you don't, though. |
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May 4 2007, 04:55 PM
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QUOTE(Podomaht @ May 4 2007, 9:43 PM) She's not kidding. Seriously, go to a bar and talk a while. Alcohol helps ease things up. Just don't get too drunk. She can get hammered, make sure you don't, though. Yes i do condone that method of easy dating. |
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May 4 2007, 05:39 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
No, I don't go out that much because I have 2 jobs but its all good. btw yall, I'm 20 and she's 18.
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May 4 2007, 10:32 PM
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 Seisuke Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523 |
yay, congrats dude!GOOD LUCK, let us kno how it goes..pppleeease!!!!!!we're cheering u on!!!!!!!
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May 15 2007, 09:51 AM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
*sigh* I got stood up. Not even all that mad, shoot my sister was more heated than me. Whatever. That's the end of that.
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May 15 2007, 11:29 AM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
Thats to bad. Well there's plent of other fish in the sea. You'll find one again.
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May 15 2007, 06:52 PM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
hahahah like 40 year old virgin ride your bike!!!
hey call her back and she what is going on, i stood up a girl but not on purpose but we went for a second/first date and it was fine. |
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May 15 2007, 07:45 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
^naww I'm riding my skateboard homie. lol.
Oh and hell no. I haven't talked to her for like a week and a half. If she wants to chill with me, she'd have to call me even if it was just to save the friendship which seems belly up at this point. |
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May 15 2007, 07:55 PM
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QUOTE(Chessboxxa 101 @ May 15 2007, 9:51 AM) *sigh* I got stood up. Not even all that mad, shoot my sister was more heated than me. Whatever. That's the end of that. sorry to hear that man..wtf happened?! |
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May 15 2007, 08:16 PM
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 that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
^ Yeah.. tell us what happened!
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May 15 2007, 08:18 PM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
QUOTE(Chessboxxa 101 @ May 15 2007, 5:45 PM) ^naww I'm riding my skateboard homie. lol. Oh and hell no. I haven't talked to her for like a week and a half. If she wants to chill with me, she'd have to call me even if it was just to save the friendship which seems belly up at this point. Go bang her sister. |
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May 15 2007, 08:22 PM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
aww sorry it didnt turn out.
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May 16 2007, 01:44 AM
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we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
i finnaly get your name chess BOXER haha i just realized that.
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May 18 2007, 01:26 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
Sorry to get back at you guys so late, but I've been kind of busy plus I didn't really want to talk about it yet. Well, like I said we were going to see the spiderman 3 flick and I even brought along my little homie because she was going to bring her friend and we'd double. So we went there early to buy the tickets in fear of all the shows being sold out and even though the original time we planned was for around 11 o'clock, we found tickets for 9:30. So I called her on her cell, then she started giving me some excuses like she can't go out unless her brother does and she can't get a hold of her friend. I'm like whatever whatever just work it all out. Then fast-track to when the movies about to start in 20 minutes, okay. I called her again and she said it was too short notice because originally it was suppose to be a couple hours later and can't make it, but does it really matter? I mean she has a car and what's so wrong making the date earlier? Then get this guys. She had the sack to hang up on me and turn off her phone. Stunned. I felt bad for my homeboy because he wanted a date too and damn even though I actually liked spiderman 3, it was totally a date movie. That's it you guys, I got screwed by the bitch (My little sister put her name under BITCH in the cellphone when she gave me the #) lolz
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May 18 2007, 04:13 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 235 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,772 |
haha congrats to you! hmm all i have to say its just to be confident and yourself! then you'll be okay
 
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May 18 2007, 10:35 PM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
^huh?
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