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 May 3 2007, 10:39 PM
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sooo theres probably another topic like this already...but still..
me and my ex broke up recently (in the past month). we were rocky since march. we were going on our 10th month. i can`t get over him. i seriously can`t. there was just someting about him; that i`m not willing to let go of. and theres absolutely no chance of us ever getting back. yes i know...10 months..thats nothing. but i seriously do think i fell in love. everything about him both good and bad; i miss. i`ve never trusted any guy like i trusted him. i`ve never let anyone get that close to me. he was my bestfriend. my everything. he knew/knows me better than any of my girl best friends. i`m not willing to start all that over with another person. i need help...shud i try to talk to him? or just let it go....? |
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| *Podomaht* |
May 3 2007, 10:43 PM
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Let it go and give me fellatio.
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May 3 2007, 10:45 PM
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whats a "fellatio"?
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| *Podomaht* |
May 3 2007, 10:46 PM
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dictionary.com baby.
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May 3 2007, 10:47 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,123 |
uhm. gross. how bout no?
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May 3 2007, 10:48 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,080 |
girl try talking to him but only if he'll listen
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May 3 2007, 10:51 PM
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m`kayy...i`ll see..
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| *Podomaht* |
May 3 2007, 10:51 PM
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QUOTE(`chinitalish0us @ May 3 2007, 11:47 PM)  uhm. gross. how bout no? My offer still stands. |
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May 3 2007, 10:53 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,080 |
QUOTE(Podomaht @ May 3 2007, 8:51 PM) My offer still stands. i'll take it. haha NOTTTT. u wish plAyyya. |
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May 3 2007, 11:39 PM
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te quiero Group: Banned Posts: 472 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,840 |
If you don't mind my asking... why did you two break up?
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May 4 2007, 12:53 AM
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bcus hes one of those popular boys..where everything your friends say goes.
his friends didnt like me cus he spent time with me more than he did with them. they got jealous; told him that they didn`t like me. plus his mom despises me & hes a momma`s boy. and it probably doesn`t help that i`m over protective of him... we were on the rocks cus he started smoking, and he wouldn`t stop. plus theres this one specific girl at school i despise, and you think he`d stop talking to her..but noo..... |
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May 4 2007, 04:52 AM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
Seems like your madly in love with him. Try talking it out with him and rebuilding if you can and if possible.
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May 4 2007, 05:48 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
Honey, I think you should let it go.  If your relationship clearly ended because of a change of feelings... it's no use trying to re-build it. Letting go is easier and less painful in the long run, trust me. On the other hand... if it ended because of a misunderstanding or because of a stupid fight, you should probably consider talking to him about it privately sometime. There's no use in giving up on something if it still has potential to work out. 10 months isn't a short, silly deal; real feelings get formed and people get really involved. Just don't force anything that can't be. Good luck... |
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May 4 2007, 09:59 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,123 |
thanks you guys.
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May 4 2007, 02:55 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(&/degradanca. @ May 4 2007, 6:48 AM) [size=1] Honey, I think you should let it go. If your relationship clearly ended because of a change of feelings... it's no use trying to re-build it. Letting go is easier and less painful in the long run, trust me. On the other hand... if it ended because of a misunderstanding or because of a stupid fight, you should probably consider talking to him about it privately sometime. There's no use in giving up on something if it still has potential to work out. 10 months isn't a short, silly deal; real feelings get formed and people get really involved. i agree |
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May 5 2007, 03:01 PM
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people with no emotions just "let things go." i'd stay on good terms with this guy while leaving yourself open for others. hope this helps.
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May 5 2007, 03:58 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
how do you know there's really no chance of getting back together with him? if you really know there's no chance of getting back together, then the best thing for you to do is take that reality. i mean, you can try to fill your day up with activities or hobbies or something to get your mind off of things, or if you still want to remain friends with him then there's nothing wrong with doing that either. sometimes that can backfire on you though and not really help you move on at all because he's constantly there and you know there's nothing that will ever happen. does that make sense? it's just whatever you decide to do i think. i would just move on and try other activities and when the time is right i would look for other guys. he's not the only one out there. =] although right now it may feel like he is the only one out there he's really not. you make him bigger than he really is. does that make sense? ehh that's just me. :) good luck with whatever you decide to do though.
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May 5 2007, 11:49 PM
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 maybe a great thing will happen. Group: Member Posts: 73 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 513,161 |
wow that's about the same thing that happened
to me and my boy. i tried not to love him, and tried to experience other guys, but like... no one ever weighs up to him and stuff. :/ tell him how you feel. xxx |
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May 6 2007, 08:49 AM
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thanks you guys for all the help...things..didnt work out. my friend had threewayed us yesterday..she asked him if he loved me; he said i used to but not anymore. how does a person fall out of love so quick? if it was soo quick; was he even in love? i asked him if we were gonna be friends at all; he said no, bcus his "friends" dont want anything to do wit me
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May 6 2007, 03:54 PM
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The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
QUOTE(`chinitalish0us @ May 6 2007, 2:49 PM) thanks you guys for all the help...things..didnt work out. my friend had threewayed us yesterday..she asked him if he loved me; he said i used to but not anymore. how does a person fall out of love so quick? if it was soo quick; was he even in love? i asked him if we were gonna be friends at all; he said no, bcus his "friends" dont want anything to do wit me Maybe he really didn't love you. It's rare for someone to fall out of love so quickly and also this guy seems to love his friends more than you. Sorry it didn't work out. You'll be stronger for it though. |
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May 6 2007, 11:28 PM
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yea..thats what i keep thinking; if he really did love me; his friends wouldnt even matter; & no one can fall out of love soo quickly; so i figure i was just another girl to him...
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May 7 2007, 04:58 PM
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QUOTE bcus hes one of those popular boys..where everything your friends say goes. his friends didnt like me cus he spent time with me more than he did with them. they got jealous; told him that they didn`t like me. plus his mom despises me & hes a momma`s boy. My boyfriend was like that. Then I got mad at him, and told him that if he really cared about me, his friends wouldn't be an issue...then it's all good now. But anyway, this guy's a jerk for breaking up with you over what his friends think. I say forget it. He may seem perfect right now, but when you find someone else, you'll look back at this and laugh at yourself. |
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May 7 2007, 07:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,123 |
thanks :)
he kinda talked to me today; well..not really i wus waiting fo ma friends wit dis guy; he came en shaked da guys hand; then he held out his hand for me; i told him "i thot u werent gonna talk to me anymore"; he didnt say anything he just looked down at his hand; en i shook it; then he left...ppffttt it hurt like HELL to see him again |
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May 7 2007, 07:38 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
how old are you?
just ignore him. if you guys were going out for almost 10 months and he's still influenced by his friends to dump you, then he's obviously not worth it. |
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May 7 2007, 09:55 PM
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uhs..16..
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May 8 2007, 01:37 AM
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Why dont you try to just be good friend with him
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May 8 2007, 09:22 AM
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not gonna happen;; he said his friends want nothing to do with me;; so me en him arent gonna be friends
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May 8 2007, 09:25 AM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
You aren't going to be friends with him just because his friends don't like you? You don't actually need to be friends with his friends just to be friends with him...
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May 8 2007, 12:52 PM
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some people honestly love their friends more than their girl friends, maybe. it sounds to me that he's a little torn between you and his friends, but that doesn't excuse the way he decides to go back on his word and suddenly start talking to you after he pretty much told you that you weren't friends anymore. w/e happens i'd kill him in his sleep all the same.
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May 9 2007, 03:55 PM
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lol dangg;; why kill him? en to tic tac;; hes the one who doesnt wanna b friends...
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May 9 2007, 04:20 PM
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QUOTE(`chinitalish0us @ May 3 2007, 11:39 PM) sooo theres probably another topic like this already...but still.. me and my ex broke up recently (in the past month). we were rocky since march. we were going on our 10th month. i can`t get over him. i seriously can`t. there was just someting about him; that i`m not willing to let go of. and theres absolutely no chance of us ever getting back. yes i know...10 months..thats nothing. but i seriously do think i fell in love. everything about him both good and bad; i miss. i`ve never trusted any guy like i trusted him. i`ve never let anyone get that close to me. he was my bestfriend. my everything. he knew/knows me better than any of my girl best friends. i`m not willing to start all that over with another person. i need help...shud i try to talk to him? or just let it go....? OHH MAi WOW i KNOW HOW YOOH FEEL.. i WAS DATiN DiS BOii 4 LiKE EVA [[9 MONTHS]] AND i WAS SOO iN LUV DEN HE BROKE UP W/ MEEH 4 ANOTHER GURLL.. i WAS SOO HEART BROKEN -N- DiDNT EAT OR TALK OR ANYTHiNG.. iT SUX BUT iTS BEST TO LET GO.. EVEN THO YOU'LL ALWAYS LOVE HiM CUZ HES YOUR 1ST TRUE LUV.. DATS HOW i AM WiT DAT BOii -N- WEN i SEE HiM iTS LiKE WHOAH i STiLL LUV DAT BOii. |
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May 9 2007, 04:23 PM
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 hardxcore. Group: Member Posts: 1,223 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,494 |
QUOTE(i HATE REDNECKS.! @ May 9 2007, 5:20 PM) OHH MAi WOW i KNOW HOW YOOH FEEL.. i WAS DATiN DiS BOii 4 LiKE EVA [[9 MONTHS]] AND i WAS SOO iN LUV DEN HE BROKE UP W/ MEEH 4 ANOTHER GURLL.. i WAS SOO HEART BROKEN -N- DiDNT EAT OR TALK OR ANYTHiNG.. iT SUX BUT iTS BEST TO LET GO.. EVEN THO YOU'LL ALWAYS LOVE HiM CUZ HES YOUR 1ST TRUE LUV.. DATS HOW i AM WiT DAT BOii -N- WEN i SEE HiM iTS LiKE WHOAH i STiLL LUV DAT BOii. yeah... anyways, i just say get over him. it sounds like he's more interested in his friends. |
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May 9 2007, 09:13 PM
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 My silent cries. Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 522,694 |
Firstly, do cheer up.
If you think this guy is seriously worth you going all out to get him back, then go on. But before that, you have got to really weight the worth of all these that you're doing. If he really does whatever his friends say, then i'll say you have better not return to him. It happened once, & it might happen again. |
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