Best friends don't mix well with boyfriends |
| *Kathleen* |
 Jun 12 2004, 10:08 PM
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Haha...wow this is so true. I'm sort of ranting once again, but...oh how I dislike being with friends and their boyfriends. I never have one, and feeling left out eats you away from the inside...quite slowly. Just tonight, we were at the movies. I'm in the middle of the two of them, and on the ends are their boyfriends (well, for the most part). On the right of me (when I'm trying to enjoy Johnny Depp's lovely acting), all I hear are slurping noises and to the left, I see cuddling. GRAR. Why is it always me? Eek wow did I type all of that?
 You don't need to respond if you do not wish to. 
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Jun 12 2004, 10:11 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK?  Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
aaww i know how you feel too!!! my friend always drags me along with her and her bf to go to movies and such... eerr in the beginning they wouldnt even keep their hands off each other!!! i thought it was gross!!! but lately they're not even touching!!! haha i find it quite wierd!!
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| *Kathleen* |
Jun 12 2004, 10:17 PM
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Wow...someone respoded.
Thank you for that, and yeah...wow. Now that I think of it, I've had a total of two boyfriends this whole year...and my best friends have had more than three...so yeah. 
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Jun 12 2004, 10:18 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 86 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,439 |
dats whut maii fren feels wen im with maii boi en her..but n0ww..i understand her..en i balances my time with both of them!!..
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Jun 12 2004, 11:12 PM
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 =P Group: Member Posts: 207 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,290 |
yeah i always feel like the third wheel when my friends bring their boyfriends/girlfriends. haha maybe you could hang out with your friends when their boyfriends arent around.
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Jun 13 2004, 08:45 AM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
hahah. and they say, the movies is a GREAT PLACE to show PDA. lol.
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Jun 13 2004, 06:16 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
hahaha i dunno about that... i'm kinda mean to my bf's best freind and he's kinda mena to me but we're joking... but its funny though...
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Jun 13 2004, 06:49 PM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
haha yea i get dat tooo! its better not to go out w/ couples...
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Jun 13 2004, 06:52 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
lol thats y i would drag another friend with me lol while they make out i can talk to a friend and share our thoughts on that lol
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| *Kathleen* |
Jun 13 2004, 07:13 PM
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See, I would normally bring another person or just not go, but I had no idea the one friend was bringing her boyfriend, and I didn't know the other boyfriend was coming.
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Jun 13 2004, 08:43 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
ew, i actually hate going wit people and their boyfriends, especially if it's one couple, or a really huge group and ur the only wun w/o a bf. i think that in general, bff's don't go well with bf's before, during and after relationships
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Jun 13 2004, 09:23 PM
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 this one time at band camp... Group: Member Posts: 64 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,926 |
eh, i dont usually mind. i mean, i want to bring my best friend and my boyfriend places but she doesnt want to be the 3rd wheel which i think is unfair because when she`s with her boyfriend and she wants me there i always go. and i once went on my friend`s first date because i set the two up and she wanted me there. i didnt feel weird, and when they made out i just sat there normally because i had no problem with it. *shrug*
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Jun 15 2004, 01:40 PM
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 What the fack. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,164 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,519 |
I've been there. I was at a movie with three of my gal friends and one guy friend. (He was one of the my friend's bfs.) We were all watching the movie, and then I looked to my right to see that they were making out and making all of these lame smooching noises. I tried to keep on watching the movie so I had to throw popcorn at them to make them stop. That was a waste of some good popcorn too.
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Jun 15 2004, 01:59 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Yeah .. my best friend's ex was so damn retarded, i hated him so much .. i mean he would hang out with her a lot at lunch and stuff, and i hang out with her ALL THE TIME .. and yet he still doesnt know what my name is .. or who i was ..
he was so damn lame and im glad my friend dumped him |
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Jun 15 2004, 09:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
Hah, I'm the only one of my friends who's even come close to having a boyfriend.
But none of my guy friends/crushes have gotten along with my other friends because they're so different. [boys="popular", girls="nerds"]
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Jun 17 2004, 02:24 AM
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 LunchboxXx Group: Member Posts: 1,789 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,810 |
QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jun 12 2004, 10:08 PM) Haha...wow this is so true. I'm sort of ranting once again, but...oh how I dislike being with friends and their boyfriends. I never have one, and feeling left out eats you away from the inside...quite slowly. Just tonight, we were at the movies. I'm in the middle of the two of them, and on the ends are their boyfriends (well, for the most part). On the right of me (when I'm trying to enjoy Johnny Depp's lovely acting), all I hear are slurping noises and to the left, I see cuddling. GRAR. Why is it always me? Eek wow did I type all of that? You don't need to respond if you do not wish to. ya wanna cuddle with me? i'm cuddley! i'm a good kisser, too. yea, i know what that is. andy (friend) + syd was always hell, especialy after they had sex. awful. just awful. |
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Jun 17 2004, 05:14 AM
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 :hammer: Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,849 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,700 |
Wow. Can you say Wow. That's exactly I feel. Except it's not because I can't find the right guy.. It's because I've known both of them for like.. 5 years and it's EXTREMELY uncomfortable seeing them make out and stuff.. because it's just.. soo.. nasty.. T_T And yeah. They finally got together this year but it's SICK!
Mainly because I know both of them.. very well. And yeahh.. erggg It's so nasty. >_< |
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Jul 9 2004, 08:26 PM
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 dizzy me up. Group: Member Posts: 3,191 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,139 |
yeahh.. i feel uncomfortable with dem. i mean if dey wanted to do kissi kissi dey didnt havta invite me.
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Jul 9 2004, 08:40 PM
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 fragile Group: Member Posts: 1,044 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,807 |
i absolutly can relate to anyone who has been in this situation because being an third wheel is no fun i mean unless it is like a double date then it is all cool and stuffy
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Jul 9 2004, 09:26 PM
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 Dark Lord of McCandless Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 |
QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jun 12 2004, 10:17 PM) Wow...someone respoded. Thank you for that, and yeah...wow. Now that I think of it, I've had a total of two boyfriends this whole year...and my best friends have had more than three...so yeah. Hehe Kathleen, you don't know what happened at my prom with the Julie Baker love triangle. |
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Jul 10 2004, 12:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 279 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 25,828 |
QUOTE(Kathleen @ Jun 12 2004, 10:08 PM) Haha...wow this is so true. I'm sort of ranting once again, but...oh how I dislike being with friends and their boyfriends. I never have one, and feeling left out eats you away from the inside...quite slowly. Just tonight, we were at the movies. I'm in the middle of the two of them, and on the ends are their boyfriends (well, for the most part). On the right of me (when I'm trying to enjoy Johnny Depp's lovely acting), all I hear are slurping noises and to the left, I see cuddling. GRAR. Why is it always me? Eek wow did I type all of that? You don't need to respond if you do not wish to. i have a bf but i would never makeout with my bf in the movies if i have friends that came along too...that's pretty inconsiderate in my opinion. |
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Jul 10 2004, 02:03 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 286 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,508 |
i totally agree. it's quite disturbing when you see your friends act all mushy and cuddly, while you're the odd one out. So while they're sucking face, you have to stand off to the side and walk by yourself, pretending not to notice them.
solution: hang out with your friend(s) when they're not with their significant other. or ask them to behave themselves and keep the PDA to a minimum. OR while hanging out with them, ask another friend (who's also single) to accompany you... it'd be much more fun when you have someone to talk to while the others are making out. 
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