Friends vs. Boyfrined Options

[EmoEyelinerx]

Ok well i was dating this guy and we had a really good relationship we were were totally in love. Then one night we got in a fight and broke up. I tryed talking to him later that night and he told me to "f**k off" and "leave me alone you slut." Finally LATE that night he told me he just said those things because of his anger, so i forgave him. Then we got in another fight not long after our one-month-anniversury (about a few weeks after the first fight) and i dont remember why but we decided to break it off again. Right now we both have feelings for eachother becuase everyday we talk on the phone and text eachother for hours on end and we have both told eachother we liked one another. Hes sooo sweet and funny. The problem is that some of my bestfrineds dont really like him and im not sure why. I have no idea what to do. Any ideas?

[NgocQuyen]

lol ehh? you two weren't even going out for a month yet and you two were argueing already? :\ i'm sorry. >< i mean i know that within relationships there are arguements, but that soon in a relationship it should be so fresh that arguements are unecessary right? i don't know maybe i'm just a nub at relationships. lol:) anyways, if you really like him then the opinions of others do not matter correct? lol you have no idea how many times my friends have told me to break up with my boyfriend because they think he's a bad influence on me, but i'm still with him because it's not true and they don't know him like i know him and they don't know what he goes through like i do. does that make sense? so yeah...that's basically it....that's just me:)

[deplorable]

yeah, i agree with the above... youre fighting already? ive been going out with my bf for almost 7 months and we havent fought at all. ive never even gotten mad at him.

anyway, i have a friend in the same situation. and no one likes... wait, everyone HATES her boyfriend, because hes rude to her and she doesnt do anything about it. plus, all she ever does is talk about him and what theyre fighting about now. its so annoying. are you doing the same, cause if you are, theres your reason.

[Mystic Eyes]

lol ehh? you two weren't even going out for a month yet and you two were argueing already? :\ i'm sorry. >< i mean i know that within relationships there are arguements, but that soon in a relationship it should be so fresh that arguements are unecessary right? i don't know maybe i'm just a nub at relationships. lol:) anyways, if you really like him then the opinions of others do not matter correct? lol you have no idea how many times my friends have told me to break up with my boyfriend because they think he's a bad influence on me, but i'm still with him because it's not true and they don't know him like i know him and they don't know what he goes through like i do. does that make sense? so yeah...that's basically it....that's just me:)

Great advice given here. Honestly, you shouldn't care what others think. And also I know there your friend's BUT they don't know him they like you do and soo off course they will make stupid and unreasonable comments. Stick with your man if you really like him.

Even if my best friend told me they didn't like who I was with, I wouldn't take note of it, why? because they don't know them as I do. That's what matters.

[*suddenly she*]

If your friends don't like him and you don't know why, why don't you get an explanation out of your friends?

Your man sounds rather immature. What sort of boyfriend tells you to eff off and calls you a stupid slut even when he is angry? It shows a lack of respect. If he's so pissed he can't handle his words and he knows that's how he is, then he should know not to talk when he's mad.