My best friend, likes my other best friend |
 Apr 29 2007, 10:19 PM
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Senior Member  Group: Validating Posts: 60 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 134,567  |
So my best guy friend likes my best girl friend.
The girl sees the guy as being a brother (I talked to her once and we both said how gross/awkward if would be to date him). I typically tell them both everything and they do the same. Should I tell him that she sees him as a brother only? Should I tell her that he likes her? I don't want to not tell them, but I don't want to make him feel bad or her feel awkward. Advice? |
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Apr 30 2007, 03:19 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
Wow. That sounds awkward. The right decision would probably be to not tell either one about it, I guess... but I might tip my best guy friend that the best girl friend doesn't feel the same for him... just so I could avoid him asking her out and getting hurt. |
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Apr 30 2007, 03:35 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
Very tough decision. I would probably have to say to not tell eather one becuase you dont want him to get hurt and you dont want her to feel awkward.
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Apr 30 2007, 06:00 PM
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 we go a-drowning Group: Member Posts: 964 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,725 |
if i was stuck in that situation i would probably let her tell him. i know shes your bestfriend, but its still best NoT to get yourself mixed up in this. one of them may become resentful. just tell her that he should talk to him...
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Apr 30 2007, 07:40 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
just leave the two alone. let them solve their problems out. it's between them, so don't get in the middle of it.
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May 1 2007, 09:38 PM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
I agree that you shouldn't get in the middle of anything. If he or she asks you, don't lie.
Make sure neither gets hurt, but don't just but in. |
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