what's the right age for a girl to have a bf? |
 Apr 23 2007, 12:42 AM
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 fo`shizzLe  Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 422,719  |
sometimes girls do have a choice of themselve but usually their parents decide.
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Apr 23 2007, 01:25 AM
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 rissa. Group: Member Posts: 621 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,690 |
it's mostly about maturity.
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| *stephinika* |
Apr 23 2007, 02:34 AM
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^^
Agreed. It's hard to say. Cause I've seen younger teens have 'boyfriends' and 'girlfriends' but it's not reaaaally a relationship... |
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Apr 23 2007, 02:47 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
There isn't one age that a girl should start dating at. Whenever she feels that she's ready to date and she finds a guy she likes, then she can date him.
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Apr 23 2007, 03:05 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
I think that the girl should be mature enough to handle a relationship and know what some consequences are at having one, like hugging/kissing/sex and if you arnt ready (or dont feel confertable) for that kind of stuff your not ready to be in a relationship. -I myself started dating at 13-
Hope this helps :) |
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Apr 23 2007, 03:20 PM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
QUOTE(Wo0yaPo0ya @ Apr 23 2007, 8:47 PM)  There isn't one age that a girl should start dating at. Whenever she feels that she's ready to date and she finds a guy she likes, then she can date him. Quoted for the truth. Relationships don't have to be serious anyways. It can be casual so in that case whenever you are ready. |
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Apr 24 2007, 10:15 AM
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 long time no CB. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,889 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 493,502 |
There's no right or wrong age, everybody's different.
It all depends. |
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Apr 24 2007, 04:23 PM
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 Lose yourself and fly away, hide away for the day Group: Member Posts: 242 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 446,527 |
I agree. Maturity makes the difference. My friends n I are young, like 12, and they have 'boyfriends'
 'Makes me sick! They don't even do anything like couples! They're too young! The most they do with their so called 'boyfriend' is ask him for favors, and act like they have the right to interrupt his basketball game to just say 'hi'. That's IT.    Too young to go on dates, too young to have boyfriends... I think 8th grade or freshman is the youngest I would consider getting a boyfriend. 
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Apr 24 2007, 06:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,020 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,785 |
Lots of people have "boyfriends" at young ages.
Some people in 4th grade... But most people dont have real boyfriends untill 15++ |
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Apr 24 2007, 07:22 PM
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 I LOVE RICHIE Group: Member Posts: 301 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 502,341 |
well yea girls can have bfz when theyre like 13 14 but idk ill say 15 cuz thats when ur consiterd a lady you can put make up now you can have boy friends you can be more trusted u knoe
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Apr 24 2007, 08:37 PM
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Well my first "boyfriend" was when I was four but he moved the next day and so yeah.
 but I'd say it depends on maturity. There can be 13 year olds (rare) who are ready for a boyfriend but then again there are thirty year olds who aren't.
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May 7 2007, 12:25 AM
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 So um yeah Group: Official Designer Posts: 745 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 459,873 |
It's all in the maturity level
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May 7 2007, 03:57 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
It depends. Not all relationships = sex / making out. The term dating is so liberally used, it applies to a LOT of types of relationships. Example: When I was 4, I had a "boyfriend". We sat on the school bus and played tag together, along with going over to each other's house for playdates. When I was in 6th grade, I had a "boyfriend" too; we declared we liked each other and let it be known to the whole world. We held hands. And hugged. Ooh that was daring... ;P When I was in 9th grade, I had an actual boyfriend. We spent more time together talking and enjoying each other's company. We went out on dates, like to the movie theatre or to each other's houses to hang out, and we got to know each other's friends, too. |
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May 7 2007, 02:26 PM
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muhfucka yo mama's a bitch Group: Banned Posts: 1,461 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 506,674 |
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May 7 2007, 09:29 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
I think girls START becoming mature enough to have a boyfriend at around 14, usually not younger than that. And even then, girls always tend to let their emotions get in the way of things, or the guys that they're with (usually the same age) aren't mature or something, which are disasters for relationships.
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| *My Cinderella.* |
May 7 2007, 09:40 PM
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There's no right age. It all depends on how mature and ready the girl is mentally. If she's ready to dedicate herself to a relationship and she should go for it, despite the age. Just as long as she knows what shes getting into.
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May 8 2007, 04:13 PM
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 Kimberly Group: Member Posts: 1,961 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,599 |
I think around 17 for a more serious relationship. I personally dont think anyone under 15 should date at all... that's a little too young. But I guess there's always exceptions to that, because some people are more mature for their age.
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May 8 2007, 05:46 PM
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fourteen(:
that's when most girls start noticing boys anywho. |
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May 8 2007, 10:34 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
i don't think it really matters..i mean anyone like 13+ i guess? whenever one feels they're ready. i just don't think that anything serious could happen at such a young age such as 13 or younger. eh, i don't know i guess it depends...that's something to think about i guess?
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| *Intercourse.* |
May 9 2007, 10:45 PM
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Personally I wanted to wait until I was 16 before ever having a boyfriend. But of course I later thought 14 was a pretty good age and i'm pretty happy with that decision since I'm still with the same guy
 I think it could kind of differ and as everyone can see that it does. Kids are maturing faster it seems or trying at least. |
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May 15 2007, 12:17 AM
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 Vampire Expert Group: Member Posts: 85 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 523,563 |
I would have to say the right age for a girl to have a bf is 18, cause she's freshly out of high school and just starting college. So she'll have time to date a guy and not have mommy and daddy on her case. Think bout if you're 14-17 your parents will constantly be on your case bout whether or not you and you're bf have had sex. So 18 is a good age to have a bf.
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Jun 17 2007, 12:21 PM
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Lose yourself and fly away, hide away for the day Group: Member Posts: 242 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 446,527 |
I already posted but NYEAH! LOL
I just found out a couple days ago I can't get a boyfriend till I hit 16. Soo... Basically at the end of my Sophpmore year, or my Junior year. ^_^ Sounds fair to me. ^_^ |
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Jun 17 2007, 12:32 PM
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 just another girl Group: Member Posts: 490 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 393,136 |
15 or 16 maybe...It doesnt really matter.
I was 14 when I first got a bf, but that wasnt anything really so yeah. When I got my first 'real' boyfriend, I was 15 |
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Jun 17 2007, 03:03 PM
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I started dating at 13, though my mom wanted me to wait until I was 16. But it wasn't serious relationships. I didn't even kiss my first boyfriend. My first serious relationship started towards the end of 8th grade. We're still together now.
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Jun 17 2007, 08:28 PM
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 BABESTARR Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,634 |
i was mature (common sense wise) since the age of 10, but -sdlgfsdjflsj!!!- parents said AFTER high school, and now...i have graduated...what now???
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Jun 25 2007, 11:56 AM
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 :) Group: Member Posts: 1,234 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 146,496 |
QUOTE(just_rissa @ Apr 23 2007, 02:25 AM) it's mostly about maturity. true that. it's hard to tell. whenever their ready. i'd probably lean more towards highschool.. junior year maybe. that's when it gets more "serious". |
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Jun 25 2007, 02:02 PM
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 formerly danielle_x3 Group: Member Posts: 204 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 515,823 |
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Jun 25 2007, 11:20 PM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
"when im done with my studies"
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Jun 26 2007, 12:52 PM
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Emily?? Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 528,286 |
QUOTE(RAWRstephishere @ Apr 24 2007, 04:45 PM) Lots of people have "boyfriends" at young ages. Some people in 4th grade... But most people dont have real boyfriends untill 15++ excactly |
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Jun 26 2007, 01:14 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 521,815 |
whenever the girl is mature and ready..
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Jun 28 2007, 07:48 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
i had my first bf when i was 15, but now that i'm older and more experienced it was such a puppy-love-nothing-happened "relationship". but hey when you find a guy you like just go with it. plus you'll never get dating experience unless you experience dating!
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Jun 28 2007, 07:49 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 515,065 |
no age is right go and live under a rock stay a way boys or girls they have cootiesss
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Jun 28 2007, 07:57 PM
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Jun 28 2007, 09:09 PM
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 Why don't you make like a hockey player, and get the puck ou Group: Validating Posts: 167 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,037 |
Well I would say Junior High relationships last about a month so... yeah. 14/freshman year. You have 4 years of high school to figure it out so yeah. 14
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Jul 8 2007, 02:21 PM
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 wants to be Haruhi...getting all the guys....pssh. Group: Member Posts: 66 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 532,446 |
yeah, i agree. mostly parents decide.
i had my first bf when i was 12 (the "relationship" didn't last very long) he broke up with me after 3 weeks. i think u should have a bf whenever you think you're ready to have one. for me, i thought i was, but i wasn't.
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Jul 8 2007, 05:20 PM
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 AttacKATTack! Group: Member Posts: 697 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 536,660 |
The definition of a boyfriend changes with your age. Having a 4th grade boyfriend (sandbox playmate) is different from a 12th grade boyfriend (almost engaged) and neither is more right than the other.
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Jul 10 2007, 12:01 AM
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I still think freshman year for high school
I mean. 12 - 13 Is in the fifth - sixth grade. can you say. EW.
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Jul 10 2007, 08:27 PM
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 Look Up. Group: Member Posts: 447 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 73,230 |
I'd have to say fifteen to sixteen, your usually mature enough and you can drive
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Jul 11 2007, 12:32 PM
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niko «3 Group: Member Posts: 125 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 542,278 |
I dont know really, i had my first boyfriend when
i was 16 so. I'll say 16 
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