Why did it end like this? |
 Apr 19 2007, 07:46 AM
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I knew B.B since 9th grade i never really talked to him though because he went out with my bestfriend. Then in the middle of 9th grade i moved away. Two years later i ran into him at my friends house and we clicked, we talked about our past and about his ex ( my former bff) For the next few days he called and asked me out to dinner and i said yes. A week later he asked me out. Everything was going great until my friend looked on his myspace and found that he's been commenting his ex talling her how sexy she was and how her new guy is lucky to have her. That night i was supposed to see him so i asked him about it. He said he didnt know why he said that to her and that he doesnt remember it. I told him if he still loves her maybe he should think about what he wants. He told me to give him another chance and i said ok. Then the next day he calls me and says that he thinks its best if we just ''talk'' and not have the label of bf gf. He said hes moving to NY soon for college and doesnt want anything seriouse and doesnt want to hurt me anymore. It really hurt because this guy was supposed to be different. I dont know what to think. HELP
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Apr 19 2007, 09:42 AM
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I think its time for you to drop this fool.Dont let him make you wait for him,Thats a no no.
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Apr 19 2007, 03:39 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 218 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,112 |
If you ask me, i think you should give him credit for being honest with you. It tells me that he actually cares about you and your feelings.
I dont think hes asking her to wait for him..its more of one of those things where its like whatever happens, happens. It is worse to try and force a long distance relationship where you're always wondering what the other is doing and how faithful they are being. |
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Apr 19 2007, 09:40 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
well maybe he never liked you that much.
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Apr 19 2007, 11:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 62 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 504,907 |
dump him..
and maybe he never liked you that much.. find some1 new.. |
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Apr 20 2007, 03:44 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
If he's going to college in the fall and moving away.... I don't think this relationship had much room to grow anyways... Ditch him, girl. |
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Apr 20 2007, 06:17 AM
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 whaaaaaaat? Group: Member Posts: 2,293 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,660 |
sounds like you were being used.
however...he did end it before it went sour. i'll give him that. 1. he's going away to college. 2. he still has feelings for another girl, possibly. 3. his feelings for you aren't that strong. not looking too great...find another guy. |
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Apr 21 2007, 07:11 PM
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 formerly danielle_x3 Group: Member Posts: 204 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 515,823 |
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Apr 22 2007, 07:22 AM
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 The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
QUOTE(Brilliance @ Apr 19 2007, 9:39 PM)  If you ask me, i think you should give him credit for being honest with you. It tells me that he actually cares about you and your feelings. I dont think hes asking her to wait for him..its more of one of those things where its like whatever happens, happens. It is worse to try and force a long distance relationship where you're always wondering what the other is doing and how faithful they are being. I agree completely. At least he was honest which most people haven't picked up on. Anyways the honesty in itself shows that he does care to some point. The point is that if you two want a relationship to work then those involved must have the desire and want to succeed. Otherwise it's not worth it. Talk to him some more and get a better idea of what he wants and explain to him what you want. Hope things work out for you. |
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Apr 22 2007, 11:00 PM
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 Mr. Bad Guy Group: Member Posts: 38 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,021 |
You can't hope a guy is going to be different than the others. But clearly the guy isn't that into you. Let it go.
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Apr 23 2007, 10:07 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 2 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 519,104 |
First off, i think that guy was messed up from the get go. I am one of your besties and i know these things. I'm good like that.
 Lol just kidding. But yeah. 'That guy' did like you and no you can't expect guys to change. HOWEVER, people on these things can be so rude. But yeah. I love you and thats all that matters! Eff guys.
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Apr 23 2007, 02:34 PM
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The kooks Group: Member Posts: 499 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 516,563 |
What the f*ck? If you guys honestly believe the whole "You can't expect a guy to ever change" and "you can't hope a guy is going to be different bull sh*t then you really must be retarded. It's a simple as this, everyone is different so you can't make generalizations since one guy is different to the other. Heh, simple as.
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Apr 24 2007, 07:18 AM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 12 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 517,792 |
Thanks for helping out guys, it really helped me see things clearly. Right now its like what ever happens happens and im not gonna stress over it. Its his loss
 lol
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Apr 24 2007, 08:14 AM
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 Onyi eff. babii Group: Member Posts: 529 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 204,660 |
he ended like that because he thought that he mite be urged to hurt u again and since he doesnt wanna hurt u anymore then he broke off the relationship.
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Apr 24 2007, 03:15 PM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
QUOTE(dahding @ Apr 20 2007, 7:17 AM) sounds like you were being used. however...he did end it before it went sour. i'll give him that. 1. he's going away to college. 2. he still has feelings for another girl, possibly. 3. his feelings for you aren't that strong. not looking too great...find another guy. agree^ |
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