The hopeless "in love", Guy - G.U.Y. |
 Apr 14 2007, 11:53 AM
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 Get at me  Group: Member Posts: 515 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,964  |
So lets say an average looking guy that goes to your school(which you have about 1 or 2 classes with) approaches you/makes the first move how does that make you feel?
You don't really like him in that sort of a way but you know he has the Biggest crush on you. You know his name and all but you don't really talk to him. Maybe you two just exchange a couple Hi and Byes. He stares at you during class but he just cant seem to tell you how he feels. What would you respond with if the guy happens to ask you out? |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 14 2007, 12:05 PM
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I guess I would just say straight up that I don't know him well enough to go out with him.
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Apr 14 2007, 02:21 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
I think if he seemed nice enough and if he didn't creep me out/annoy me at first, I'd give him a chance. Like one or two dates, to see what he's like.
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Apr 14 2007, 07:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
I would go out with him once to get to know him better and see if I could like him "in that sort of way" after all. If I didn't feel any chemistry after trying for a while, I would tell him that I was sorry but didn't like him.
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Apr 14 2007, 09:47 PM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
I would kind of hesitate into going on one or two dates with him, since he might be really let down to find out that you don't like him if you find out that's so. Hmm... I'd probably tell him I want to get to know him better first... and then see if after a few weeks, my feelings about him had changed? |
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Apr 15 2007, 05:26 AM
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 zen-nation Group: Member Posts: 186 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 488,292 |
Get to know him first before dating
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Apr 16 2007, 05:35 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 473,303 |
Honestly, I'd want to get to know him first. Talk to him and tell him we need to talk some before we date... see how he acts about that and how he acts during the *friends* stage. Then, if I like him, I'd date hin! |
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Apr 16 2007, 06:07 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
I can't date guys that I don't know well enough to a certain degree. I'd have to be friends with him first.
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Apr 16 2007, 07:40 PM
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 rorhinna Group: Member Posts: 331 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 432,214 |
hmm, well, I'd definately have to get to know him first.
maybe just hanging out with mutal friends of something to start. however, personally, and in a lot of cases, people like the chase. a girl or a guy isn't going to feel as accomplished unless they feel they won you (I'm not saying people are trophies to be won, but if its someone you really like and then you actually get to be with someone, its the greatest feeling, but its someone you're ok with or a semi interest with, then you don't appeciate them as much). especially if you know the guy has a big crush on you, then you know that you could be with him, and you don't feel as accomplished. so my advice......don't go full on forward. show interest, but don't overwhelm her. |
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Apr 16 2007, 08:58 PM
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 And in that moment.. I swear we were infinite Group: Member Posts: 31 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,367 |
Like everyone else said, I'd have to get to know him better first.
Maybe hang out with a group of friends first.. And then if you want to pursue things, hang out one on one. That's what I usually do. =] |
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Apr 17 2007, 05:51 PM
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 BABESTARR Group: Member Posts: 600 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 442,634 |
Tell him your not into a relationship now...er just tell him you dont like him that way...
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Apr 18 2007, 01:57 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,928 |
You should say yes - he may be one of the best, sappiest guys you'll ever love.
UNLESSSSS. He's a pervert. |
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Apr 19 2007, 04:04 PM
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 straight as a rainbow and twice as colorful Group: Member Posts: 523 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,415 |
I'd say "Hun, you obviously dont know me well enough to be asking that. How do I know? Cuz you asked."
actually was in that situation recently... silly boys... always going after the lesbians.... lol. |
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| *Monochrome.* |
Apr 19 2007, 04:30 PM
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I really feel this belongs in relationships.
A other mod can move this back if they feel that its more appropriate. Moved to relationships |
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Apr 19 2007, 07:01 PM
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 Why don't you make like a hockey player, and get the puck ou Group: Validating Posts: 167 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,037 |
lol this sounds like me in 7th grade.
 Just don't act like you like him if ya don't |
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Apr 19 2007, 08:23 PM
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 *dazzle Group: Member Posts: 357 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,071 |
uuhhh.. haha, i actually like it when a guy has the biggest crush on me. it makes me feel nice. did that sound a bit selfish?
 anyway, i'd have to turn him down cause i dont know him well enough BUT i'd try and get to know him just to see if theres anything there.
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Apr 19 2007, 09:31 PM
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i can hear your heart cryin Group: Banned Posts: 108 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 510,510 |
kid dont go through the trouble! LOL
This isn't going to go anywhere for you anyways and if you disagree with what i say check sig |
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Apr 19 2007, 10:17 PM
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 Yup thats my girlfriend. Group: Banned Posts: 665 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 513,693 |
Suzzette would probably do the heizman on him. Shoot I know I would.
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Apr 21 2007, 07:04 PM
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 formerly danielle_x3 Group: Member Posts: 204 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 515,823 |
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May 4 2007, 05:32 PM
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Get at me Group: Member Posts: 515 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 125,964 |
QUOTE(makin it rain @ Apr 19 2007, 9:31 PM)  kid dont go through the trouble! LOL This isn't going to go anywhere for you anyways and if you disagree with what i say check sig lol this isn't a real situation... i just got bored and posted this.. but it's nice to hear your thoughts... |
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May 5 2007, 11:24 AM
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 Hi, Im Brook. Group: Member Posts: 1,774 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 508,383 |
I would tell him that we need to talk more. After awhile i would get to know him and maybe, if i liked him and he liked me still we would go out.
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