Gf trouble |
 Apr 11 2007, 09:59 PM
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Yeah im not sure if i should be worried or im jealous or im just being a baby.
anyways my gf who ive been going out with for like 4.5 months, her bestfriend is this guy. im positive shes not cheating on me so i dont have to worry about that, but she talks to him alot, calls him alot and talks to him for hours on end, and they go to school together(i dont go to school with her)..so i dont know, i guess im just jealous and i feel ignored alot because she talks about him quite a bit, most of the time even more then me. so how should i deal with all of this? |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Apr 11 2007, 10:02 PM
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Well, first, you have to understand that he's her best friend. It's only normal for her to do all of those things. Just don't be so paranoid about it. If it really bothers you that much, you should just tell her how you feel. Tell her how you feel like you're ignored because she talks to him quite a bit. Communication is key.
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| *WHIMSICAL 0NE* |
Apr 11 2007, 10:04 PM
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^ I agree.
He's her best friend. I know plenty of people who are jealous of their boyfriend because their best friend is a girl, and vice versa. Maybe you should get to know him a bit better? That might help ease your mind if you are secure with his intentions. Let her know that you'd like to spend more time with her. You don't have to come out and bring her friend into it. |
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Apr 11 2007, 10:06 PM
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 AMORE <3 Group: Member Posts: 61 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 513,580 |
^ i agree with both ppl above...
if u r really that bothered about it talk to her...but if she had a girl best friend she would do the same exact thing that she is doing with her boy best friend.... |
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Apr 11 2007, 10:30 PM
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yeah, well ive hung out with him before, and both of them at the same time.shes kinda touchy-touchy with him sometimes too..also like even right now she said "hold on ill call you back *guys name* is calling me"..so maybe ill talk to her but i dont want things to get weird with her somehow.
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| *LaStiNg4EtErNiTy* |
Apr 11 2007, 10:44 PM
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i have the same problem. my bf has this girl as his best friend and they go out a lot. they ARE a bit touchy touchy too. but you know what? things like that happens and we gotta deal with it.
i reccommend that you talk to you gf about how you feel. like the others said, you dont have to bring her friend into it, just tell her you want to spend more time with her. or you could ask her if she has any feelings for her best friend. if she says no, then you should trust her. your relationship should be based on the trust you have for each other. hope that helps. =) |
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