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 Apr 3 2007, 10:45 PM
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So ok I met this guy about this time last year and he was known for kinda getting around but really he had only been with about 3 girls from our town, I have no clue about anywhere else. Anyways we were friends for a while and last summer we began hooking up, and we kept till this year. A couple months ago we met up, and he was drunk. I told him i was tired of hooking up and wanted a relationship and he agreed and the next day he kept ignoring my calls. I finally called him off my friends phone and he answered. I asked him what was up and he said he didn't know what he wanted. So last week we talked and he asked me out. He swore he was serious and I only half way believed him because I'm not truley sure if I can believe him. So the next day we couldn't hang out cause he was busy. The next day he didn't even call me so I thought the same thing happened like beforre, he didn't mean it but I got ahold of him the next day and he apologized and said he was fishing all day with his grandfather. The nxt day we had planned to hang out but everytime I called him said he would be over in a minute, and after an hour and a half I told him to just forget it. He told me he was going camping later that night so we couldn't even hang out later. So today he was supposed to come back, he said he would call and still hasn't. I don't know wether to tust him, I'm not sure if he's serious. He soesn't seem to have much time for me and I'm not sure wether I should make an effort to be with him. I don't think he's going to call tonight so I'm not calling him till Friday unless he calls me. I just wanna know what i should do, I'm confused and maybe this is going to be more drama than it's worth. Ugh wow this is loong lol anyways yeah what do you guys think. I believe he has cheated before also. :[ I guess he isn't perfect bf material.
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Apr 3 2007, 10:59 PM
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I think you should forget about him and find someone who will make some time for you and appreciate you more.
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Apr 3 2007, 11:10 PM
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I have thought about that and I think it's what I ought to do but I just wanna give it a chance bc I'm one of those hopeless romantics lol. But I think I should do that.
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Apr 4 2007, 01:37 AM
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I think you need to just let him go.
if a guy doesnt really have time for you hes obviesly not worth it... and if he has cheated then hes definetly not worth it trust me...i just cought my b/f cheating and im not even speaking to him! 
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Apr 6 2007, 05:04 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
I don't think he's worth your time and efforts if he won't even reciprocate it back in the smallest ways.
My first boyfriend was like that...needless to say, I was stupid, believed his lies, got hurt. Go find someone who'll appreciate you for you =) |
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Apr 6 2007, 10:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Apr 2007 Member No: 515,065 |
he sounds like a good hook up buddy
like all he wants is to hook up it seems like some guys are like that relationships dont really work if you hooked up first so my honest opinion is find someone better and once a cheater is basically always a cheater |
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