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 Jun 10 2004, 11:54 PM
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 advanced newbie... S2  Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752  |
ACKKKK so much to explain...
i like this guy... erm... but like, i dont want to be in a relationship since last time, i proved to myself that relationships are a pain in the @$$...  anyways. he tells me that he likes me, and i can tell he is sincere about it, and it sometimes makes me really happy, that is, until his little problem peeps out. See, he has this problem of flirting insanely nonchalantly. I mean, he'll touch one of my ex-best friends on the arms, do all this sh!t with her over the fone, etc. Heck, he even flirts with one of my good friends right now, and it disgusts me to know that she touches him all over during like 5th period... He tho, somehow takes my jealousy as me hating him. I mean, arent i entitled to be angry? Like in NY, he had my ex best friend and one of his old crushes in his room for like 2 hours everyday. and i swear, they're just watching TV together, yet they have so much "fun" and its sick because i mean, he... "rubs" down my ex best friend. I mean, he doesnt even know that it gets me pissed off either. What is more ironic is the fact that he gets all pissed if i even TALK to a guy, let alone TOUCH one. i mean, like today, he was all pissed cause i was talking to this guy from my friend's school. I mean, he always tells me that he gets jealous, blahblahblah, restricting me from being free to talk to my friends that happen to be guys. WHy should i ahve to give up my friends for his convienience when he, himself cant even do so for me? i mean, what imbalanced friendship is this? and right now, he's telling me online that i ahte him. what can i say, "beeleev whatever you want?" I hold in all this anger from all his complaints, "You ahte me" "you dislike me" "you flrit with ***" "no, i dont flirt with her, you flirt more than me" blahblah blah etc. how annoying does this get. i try to like him, but i guess i've grown distant from him. i cant talk to him, he makes me mad when i do. I dont know. ROAR!!  help??
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Jun 11 2004, 12:05 AM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
okay he obviously one of those, possessive....flirting...creeps, i know them
 well...first off you shouldnt let past relationships hold you down. not every guy is alike and each guy handles relationships differently. secondly, if you really like this guy, and want 2 go out with him, then go for it. but tell him that you dont like it when he flirts with other girls, and if he doesnt realize it, tell him WHEN he starts to flirt with other girls....flirting can be a habit  well good luck!!! hope things work out for da best 
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Jun 11 2004, 01:27 AM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
help on what? anyways opinions... he's kinda OVER protecive, when your NOT even dating... think about when ur dating, he probably don't wnat you to ever have any guy freinds... anyways seems like your jealous because u like him, if you dont' like him then you would NOT be jealous of him flirting or touching other ppl... only someone that cares about someone owuld be jealous... i'm sure theres feelings there..hmmm as about dating him... i'd day don't! cause he's over protective AND toooo flirty.. anyways there are MANY other guys out there... someone rigth in fornt of u that u haven't realized or more that just haven't met yet, but will later on... take cares hun.
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Jun 11 2004, 09:02 AM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
wow .. hold up .. first of all .. if he thinks he can tell you what to do yet not even follow hiw own guidelines then he's still immature and has to grow up .. if he expects you to respect his wishes on talking to other guys, etc. he should do the same .. it seems to me that he's way too flirty to be trusted .. flirting is one thing .. but "rubbing down" and being all touch .. ESPECIALLY with your friends is NOT GOOD AT ALL!! he should respect your feelings and know that it makes you uncomfortable .. it doesn't seem he cares too much for how you feel but rather how he feels at the moment .. he doesn't seem very trustworthy so be very careful .. he's not really worthwhile to like in my eyes .. and it would be a shame to see you get hurt from a guy like that .. don't waste time being angry with him .. just see what else is out there .. i'm sure there are plenty of guys that will be ready to meet you and won't be flirty with every damn girl possible!! .. and if he asks you if you're mad at him .. tell him exactly that .. he does all the wrong things and doesn't respect how you feel so you won't put up with it!!
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Jun 11 2004, 03:49 PM
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advanced newbie... S2 Group: Member Posts: 3,504 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 752 |
aww thanks guys. i guess i was a bit confused cause i didnt know what was going on i guess...
you guys are awesome. Thanks again!! I'll try to listen to your advices. 
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Jun 11 2004, 03:55 PM
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he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
QUOTE(xjjajeengx @ Jun 11 2004, 3:49 PM) aww thanks guys. i guess i was a bit confused cause i didnt know what was going on i guess... you guys are awesome. Thanks again!! I'll try to listen to your advices. anytime!! that's what we're here for! .. i understand what you mean though. i've been there and done that plenty of times hehe .. so0 many issues that come along with growing up and having certain experiences .. =]
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Jun 12 2004, 01:34 PM
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 =P Group: Member Posts: 207 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,290 |
maybe you should try to forget about this guy. if he acts like this now, how is he gonna act if you guys hook up? Most guys tend to act nice to girls before they hook up.
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Jun 12 2004, 02:46 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
He's those overprotective types .. bleckk .. just talk to him about how you feel .. just say, "HOW COME YOU CAN FLIRT AND I CANT?!!?!?!?"
Guys ....
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Jun 12 2004, 05:43 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 143 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,918 |
just say u are going to dump him if he does not stop flirting
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Jun 12 2004, 06:22 PM
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 i'm susan Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 |
awww grace you should forget about him and just move on with someone...hes a dumbass...so dont let that dumbass get to ur life... wow touches girls? psh the fck... thats a not a good thing during a relationship...man thats wat i call flirting with girls in a bad way... gez... it seems like u like him a lot... but it's best to keep ur heart in a safe condition... u cant always make ur heart get ruined... ur heart is crying u know lols... well my bf says "you can know when a heart cries, when your heart hurts, it cries with you"
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Jun 12 2004, 07:23 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
wow, he's a total @ss. You shouldn't like him. and if you go out with him, its possible that he'll hurt you. He's only probably trying to make you jealous or some thing. Forget about him, he's a loser.
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