Poor Decisions? |
 Mar 28 2007, 03:02 PM
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 I <3 my dog  Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 512,880  |
I think I'm in over my head. I'm the intern for this company, which will remain anonymous, and I love the people at my branch. Recently, like 2 months ago, some tension has been building up between my manager and I. We have both made it clear to each other that we have feelings for one another. Company policy strongly discourages an intimate relationship between managers and subordinates because it may lead to favoritism and conflict of interest. About a month ago, we all went to a branch dinner. Since my car was in the shop, he offered to drive me. The dinner went well but after, when he was driving me home, we made out. Since then, I have been seeing him regularly and we had sex about a week ago. In addition to being my boss, he is older than me and has a daughter. I have no problem with his daughter because I babysit her occasionally and she's adorable and well behaved. The part that is nagging my conscience is the fact that he is my boss and he might get fired if anyone were to find out. Advice?
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Mar 28 2007, 03:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
Your post reminds me a lot of this topic. I don't think you should continue seeing each other since you're not supposed to fraternize with the manager. However, if you really like him and want to keep seeing him, I suppose you could quit your job and find a new one. That'd be giving up a lot, though, and you really like the people you work with. =/
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Mar 28 2007, 03:14 PM
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I <3 my dog Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 512,880 |
But the thing is, he is transferring to a different branch in two months and I've been asked if I want to transfer as well. I'm not sure if I should just stay at this branch of transfer with him. He is also single so I'm not ruining any families or anything like that.
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Mar 28 2007, 03:20 PM
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Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
QUOTE(___TearDrops @ Mar 28 2007, 4:14 PM)  But the thing is, he is transferring to a different branch in two months and I've been asked if I want to transfer as well. I'm not sure if I should just stay at this branch of transfer with him. He is also single so I'm not ruining any families or anything like that. If you like it where you work right now, I think you should stay. How far away is the new branch? If it's relatively close by, let him go. That way he won't be your manager anymore and you'll be free to see him. 
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Apr 4 2007, 12:59 AM
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I <3 my dog Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 512,880 |
It still would not be exactly legal because of the age difference. We both think that we click but we are afraid that people will find out.
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Apr 4 2007, 01:26 AM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
so ur like 17??
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Apr 4 2007, 07:45 PM
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I <3 my dog Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 512,880 |
I'm 17 and he is 29 so yeah.
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Apr 5 2007, 12:46 AM
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we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
no get a new job and then bang him...
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Apr 9 2007, 02:04 PM
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I <3 my dog Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 512,880 |
Lol. No, he is not married, although he does have a daughter.
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Apr 9 2007, 02:17 PM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
QUOTE no get a new job and then bang him... haha i love it. do that one. =] no but, how would people find out if both of you kept it quiet? |
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