What to do if your Mom's hooking up with your friends? Options

[cupcakex]

My Mom's like, going through some sort of mid-life crisis.
And, she's chosing to start hooking up with all these young guys.
I have two sisters, and shes hooked up with a few of our friends.
It's really creepy, especially hearing them say she's hot.
She's good looking, for a woman her age, but it's still uncomfortable.
What should I do?

[shortnsweet88]

Hmmm, well I'm not going to say that isnt strange...because it is. Also, it depends on what your definition of "hooking-up" is...

Eh...either way its still weird. I suggest you talk to her. Let her know that she is invading your space and making you very uncomfortable. Not to mention, in my opinion, she isnt setting a very good example.

[cupcakex]

Hooking up as in having sex.
I told her I think it's really weird, but I didn't want to hurt her feelings, and say something really mean.
All she told me, was that she can't get pregnant, and that they're using protection.
That just kind of creeped me out more, though.

[MrStrife]

I hooked up with a milf before. *sigh* memories. 'nuff said.

[shortnsweet88]

I think its wrong. Just my opinion. I would just let her know how horrible of a position she is putting me in and that she is compromising my respect for her.

[iDecay]

Everyone in your position would think it's wrong, dear. If it's really disturbing, you might as well be mean. Be mean with love! .. If that makes any sense..

Moved to Relationships.

[*Kathleen*]

Have you told her how much it concerns you?

[cupcakex]

I just found out she was doing it, a few days ago.
She said she's only hooked up with a few guys.
I'm not sure how many that really means.
&I don't know many guys she's just made out with.

I told her I don't think it's right, and that she should at least get with guys her own age.
Oh, and she has a boyfriend.

I guess, the next time I see her, I'll tell her how much it's really bothering me.

[priyas]

^^How old are your friends? 20s?

[cupcakex]

The youngest one was 18.
Most of my friends are 17-19.
My sisters are around the same, &up to 25.

My Mom's like, 42.

[expoised]

Wow this reminds me of this poem I read on Fictionpress... "My Mommy's Got a Body and my Boyfriend Thinks So" or something like this.

It would bother me. I can see the whole guy&MILF&omgsofuckinghot thing, and normally, I'd be like "eh, whatever" but if the guys my mom hooked up with were my FRIENDS, I'd have a problem.

Tell her to stop.

And if she doesnt, tell her boyfriend.

[*Uronacid*]

Man, that is f**ked up... but nothings going to change if you don't speak up.

[cupcakex]

poised' date='Mar 27 2007, 11:48 PM' post='2509076']
And if she doesnt, tell her boyfriend.

Hahaha.
How funny.
"Mom, I'm going to tell on you, if you don't stop".
Maybe I will.
=p

[y0urelectrikk]

ew wtf.. she sounds like an irresponsible teenager. no offense.
idk what you could do other than talk with her about it.
if she really cares about you..more than her hook ups, she'll stop.

[cupcakex]

^You didn't offend me, I feel the same way.

I'm just worried about her getting all emotional, &taking it too hard.
I hate it when she does that.
I guess I'll just have to deal with it, so she'll stop.
o.o

[alysaphobia]

wow... that sucks. :/
i don't think you're taking it too emotional at all.
definitely tell her it makes you feel really uncomfortable when she does that kind of stuff with your friends.
... good luck

[gr00vyswordsman]

she's your mom isn't she? Isn't that one role of a parent anyways to listen to their kids? You're not being to emotional like degradanca had said above. Whatever the decision I wish you the best!

and my Lama does to0!

[tokyo-rose]

It's creepy for her to be doing this, and I was going to say it's illegal but the youngest guy is 18, so never mind that.

Like Jane (My Cinderella.) said, use tough love. There's no other way to get her to realize this is wrong.

[AimeeLynn]

The youngest one was 18.
Most of my friends are 17-19.
My sisters are around the same, &up to 25.

My Mom's like, 42.

Woah that's weird/creepy.

[cathylawlzz]

she sounds like a slag, tbh.
how old are these people?
xxx

[Imlearning]

omg.

thats odd..

[RAWRstephishere]

Id be glad.

Then my fking dad will be long gone.

[cupcakex]

how old are these people?

The youngest was 18.

[Mr. Slowjamz]

Grayson "Party Mom" Pleads Guilty
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Anna Walker, the Grayson woman accused of having sex with two teenage boys and supplying alcohol to teens at a party at her house pleaded guilty to criminal charges Thursday morning in Modesto.

Despite pleading guilty to three felony counts, Walker will likely serve little or no jail time and will not be required to register as a sex offender.

The Stanislaus County district attorney's office agreed to consolidate the 12 counts of child endangerment Walker faced into one count, saying it did not affect her potential sentence. Walker also pleaded guilty to two counts of sex with a minor.

The felony plea carries a potential state prison term of up to seven years, eight months. Deputy district attorney Nate Baker said, however, his office will likely recommend no more than one year in county jail, a sentence usually reserved for a misdemeanor charge. They also won't ask for her to register as a sex offender. Prosecutors said the fact that Walker admitted to the crimes early in the case was taken into consideration.

Parents of some of the victims told reporters after the hearing they were relieved their children would not have to go through a trial but said they hoped Walker would receive the upper end of the possible sentence.

One mother was also disappointed that Walker would not have to register as a sex offender. The prosecutor said Walker didn't qualify for that requirement because the two victims were over the age of 14.

Walker was arrested after reports of two different parties at her home involving teenagers. She was accused of having sex with two boys at a party in December. She was also accused of providing alcohol to about a dozen teens at a party in January, then sending them on their way in a car because she believed her husband was returning home.

That carload of teens crashed a few miles from Walker's home as the teenagers drove to their homes in the town of Patterson.

In addition to her sentence, Walker will also have to pay restitution to the victims. A dollar amount has not yet been figured, but it will include the costs of medical treatment.

watch out .....but i guess its pretty normal if you were a celebrity like ashton kutcher and Demi Moore

[lovescream]

wowwww..
awkwarrrrrrrrd..

[misanthropist]

Get a group of your guy friends and perform Bukkake on your mother.

[literemix24]

Why don't you talk to your mom and let her know how you feel?

[*Duchess of Dork*]

Wow. I mean, I've been with younger men before, but NOTHING like that and I can't even fathom being with someone who's friends with my son. (Well, of course not now, he's seven... but you know what I mean).

That's just too weird. I feel strange going out with someone 5 years younger, let alone 30 years younger.

Mid life crisis aside, tell her she needs to shape up.

[Pr0n_Man]

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[Trumpetman4eva]

The youngest one was 18.
Most of my friends are 17-19.
My sisters are around the same, &up to 25.

My Mom's like, 42.

okay..thats weird...but I was going to say...it's illegal depending on how old they are.

[Mr. Slowjamz]

nothing wrong if it was 18 and over . i mean .....im not saying anything .