is it really all about looks?, is there personality in there somewhere? |
 Jun 10 2004, 08:53 PM
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 Im bouncin off the walls again  Group: Member Posts: 60 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,995  |
hey im a girl and i was jus wondering if itz really all about looks? cuz everybody alwayz says to me that i got a great personality but that im hella ugly...idk...heres my pic:
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Jun 10 2004, 10:29 PM
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 I'm your Sweet catastrophe <3 Group: Member Posts: 118 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,813 |
I am a chick too. I am not good looking either.. I think guys should like girls for their personality. You know that they Say "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." I think your pretty though.
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Jun 10 2004, 10:38 PM
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 Miss Alice Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 |
hey yur not ugly!! who said yu were ugly???
 they were prolly jealous. but nywaiz, im not a guy, but ive seen the UGLIEST girls who out with the hottest guys, not becuz of their loooks, but becuz they were rilli nice. hmm this topic reminds meeh of the movie shallow hal.....
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Jun 10 2004, 11:01 PM
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 Powered By Love Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,514 |
well to tell you the truth its 50/50
my gf is really pretty and that is why i hit on her.. her personality comes next.. thats why i LIKE HER and fell inlove with her  but if you think you are ugly dont worry.. beauty is in the eyes of beholder.. scientist say that you are most attracted to someone who has similiar facial feautre, personality, and friends =P i think thats why today .. there is such a thing called "he/she is out of my league, i cant get with her/him" |
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Jun 10 2004, 11:31 PM
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 Feeel X Group: Member Posts: 2,814 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,498 |
hell no, looks are nothing, it's all the heart, thats why you love with your heart. and people that meet online are most likely loving with their heart.
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Jun 10 2004, 11:34 PM
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 Just sum kid... Group: Member Posts: 130 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,338 |
QUOTE(noobrice @ Jun 10 2004, 11:01 PM) well to tell you the truth its 50/50 my gf is really pretty and that is why i hit on her.. her personality comes next.. thats why i LIKE HER and fell inlove with her but if you think you are ugly dont worry.. beauty is in the eyes of beholder.. scientist say that you are most attracted to someone who has similiar facial feautre, personality, and friends =P i think thats why today .. there is such a thing called "he/she is out of my league, i cant get with her/him" i gotta go with him, it is sorta like a 50/50 |
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Jun 11 2004, 12:38 AM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
looks first... then the personality..
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Jun 11 2004, 12:42 AM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
QUOTE(177emories @ Jun 11 2004, 12:38 AM) looks first... then the personality.. yup, thats what i think. |
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Jun 11 2004, 02:06 AM
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Powered By Love Group: Member Posts: 117 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,514 |
QUOTE(177emories @ Jun 10 2004, 11:38 PM) looks first... then the personality.. yeh you just kinda put it into small words lol |
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Jun 11 2004, 03:01 AM
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 t a c o s Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
yea it helps to not look like shrek or fat bastard.
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Jun 11 2004, 03:05 AM
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 Sharie. Group: Member Posts: 2,429 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 103 |
It's not ALL about the looks...nobody's UGLY naturally man. Everyone's shallow, just lol...as hairproducts said, don't look like shrek. Um...but shrek's cute because he's green =)
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Jun 11 2004, 03:07 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,750 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,581 |
QUOTE(177emories @ Jun 11 2004, 2:38 PM) looks first... then the personality.. Yeah, I agree with the above statement. But in some cases, rare, I might rather have the personality go first. But I don't know. I still agree 100% with the above statement. 
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Jun 11 2004, 10:23 AM
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 SeŃor Member Group: Member Posts: 311 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,709 |
yeah i think it is looks before personality... but after looks... personality is the main thing...
err... i think on the net it may be personality over looks though?? haha... that's what i think... rite?
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Jun 11 2004, 10:31 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,628 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,359 |
Yeah its 50/50... personality does play some part...
Seriously Jessica Simpson is hot, but she is to dumb, I'd never date her if I had the chance |
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Jun 11 2004, 10:41 AM
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SeŃor Member Group: Member Posts: 311 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,709 |
haha... i think Jessica Simpson is ugleh... but that's just me... and i think she is pretty dumb too... speakin of which... she is gonna be in town in about a month or so too for her tour...
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Jun 11 2004, 12:26 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,443 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 18,050 |
Hey well i think when you first see somebody you always see if the peron is good looking or not if they then you want to talk to them and if their personality is good then you might want to date them so yeah i think looks comes first then personality well thats what i think
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Jun 11 2004, 12:36 PM
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" Beauty is in the eye of the beholder "
It's really about the preferrences of each person. To some, you may be unattractive, and to others, you may be the most beautiful woman in the world. But really now, you shouldn't put yourself down like that. I like girls who have great personalities better than girls who have a great ass. - Chinkieeyedpnoi |
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Jun 11 2004, 12:38 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
my firend is not exactly beautiful...but she is popular and guyslike her because she has a fun personality and they like to hang out with her. plus she a huge flirt.
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Jun 11 2004, 12:40 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,564 |
QUOTE(chinkieeyedpnoi @ Jun 11 2004, 12:36 PM) " Beauty is in the eye of the beholder " It's really about the preferrences of each person. To some, you may be unattractive, and to others, you may be the most beautiful woman in the world. But really now, you shouldn't put yourself down like that. I like girls who have great personalities better than girls who have a great ass. - Chinkieeyedpnoi YES SIR! CEP is the deepest person I've ever known. His unparalleled skills with the ladies shall never be matched. NEVER. Thank you, my liege, for allowing me to have such a privilege. |
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Jun 11 2004, 08:31 PM
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t a c o s Group: Member Posts: 1,187 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,122 |
QUOTE(crazeegirl411 @ Jun 11 2004, 3:05 AM) It's not ALL about the looks...nobody's UGLY naturally man. Everyone's shallow, just lol...as hairproducts said, don't look like shrek. Um...but shrek's cute because he's green =) okay girl.. go date a green guy. tell me how cute it is. btw.. can you change your signature please? jesus that lady with the red eyes is a lil on the freaky side |
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Jun 11 2004, 08:38 PM
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 Look its... Group: Official Member Posts: 5,817 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 4,767 |
just remember mostly people apporch others if they have e.g nice eyes, hair so apperance does affect who you go talk to at first.
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Jun 11 2004, 09:00 PM
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 |<*LiL_ViEtStEr*>| Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,511 |
QUOTE(noobrice @ Jun 10 2004, 11:01 PM) well to tell you the truth its 50/50 my gf is really pretty and that is why i hit on her.. her personality comes next.. thats why i LIKE HER and fell inlove with her but if you think you are ugly dont worry.. beauty is in the eyes of beholder.. scientist say that you are most attracted to someone who has similiar facial feautre, personality, and friends =P i think thats why today .. there is such a thing called "he/she is out of my league, i cant get with her/him" AwWw...  sweet!!!
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Jun 12 2004, 12:26 AM
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 <3~Tara~<3 Group: Member Posts: 345 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,491 |
QUOTE(hair products @ Jun 11 2004, 3:01 AM) yea it helps to not look like shrek or fat bastard. ROFL!! well looks first and then personality makes sense.... |
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Jun 12 2004, 03:49 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
QUOTE(faithin_felix @ Jun 10 2004, 11:31 PM) hell no, looks are nothing, it's all the heart, thats why you love with your heart. and people that meet online are most likely loving with their heart. yep.
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Jun 12 2004, 03:53 PM
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 tag! you're it! ;D Group: Member Posts: 555 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,572 |
QUOTE(177emories @ Jun 11 2004, 12:38 AM) looks first... then the personality.. yeah i agree, because you wouldn`t want to know about their personality unless if they are cute .. they just have to have something at least worth looking at though right ? |
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Jun 13 2004, 02:27 AM
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 dripping destruction Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,282 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,929 |
they're about the same for me i guess. i'm not going to like a really ugly girl with the best personality any more than the hottest girl with a personality like a poison.
the looks attract me to look closer at the personality. |
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Jun 13 2004, 02:31 AM
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 ThePinkPanda Group: Member Posts: 760 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,168 |
I find that I like people with a look of familiar facial features.
 Anyways, I def go for personality! Though it's sometimes hard because you're blinded by the looks. |
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Jun 13 2004, 10:17 AM
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 Moo.. Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,700 |
well.. we go for looks first, and while were goin out wit em if their personality good we stick, if it sucks we split.
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Jun 13 2004, 10:26 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 216 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,209 |
QUOTE(YourLostTragedy @ Jun 10 2004, 7:29 PM) I am a chick too. I am not good looking either.. I think guys should like girls for their personality. You know that they Say "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." I think your pretty though. i would love to agree with u but our society doesnt work that way. guys only wants sex from girls so we tend to go 4 hot girls. girls on the other hand want to be all pretty and sexy 4 the guys and to compete with other girls so they go 4 guy's money then looks. if u dont apply to those then ur in ur own little world. im not tryin to be offensive or nethin but thats just how things go. most girls or all girls when ask to describe an ideal guy they usually say has sense of humor, sensitive, and other bullcrap like that but not takin into account their subconcious minds. ya know what im sayin? |
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Jun 13 2004, 06:11 PM
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 and then he died... Group: Member Posts: 338 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,047 |
yeh usually u wnana get to know more about the person cuz he/shez good lookin of some sort. then you discover how their personality is like. then yeh...
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Jul 12 2004, 11:12 PM
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Yep it is 50/50 I never will go out with a girl if she doesnt have a great personality NO OFFENCE but I will never go out with a girl who is really ugly.
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Jul 12 2004, 11:19 PM
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 hi Group: Member Posts: 128 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,306 |
well, wen i hav a crush, is ususally she's bit cute- cute and kind...
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Jul 12 2004, 11:41 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 228 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,737 |
yup i'm thinking personality + looks. hah hMm shrek is pretty cute.. ;x bcuz of his personality i guess. heh for me, i've never liked someone from the second i see them, it's always i get to know them, then they seem attractive to me.
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Jul 15 2004, 03:25 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 7,048 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,696 |
i duno.... guys usually first look for the looks.... we cant deny it
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Jul 15 2004, 03:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,795 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,421 |
QUOTE would love to agree with u but our society doesnt work that way. guys only wants sex from girls so we tend to go 4 hot girls. girls on the other hand want to be all pretty and sexy 4 the guys and to compete with other girls so they go 4 guy's money then looks. if u dont apply to those then ur in ur own little world. im not tryin to be offensive or nethin but thats just how things go. most girls or all girls when ask to describe an ideal guy they usually say has sense of humor, sensitive, and other bullcrap like that but not takin into account their subconcious minds. ya know what im sayin? *sigh* People stereotype far too much.. Anyways for me, It depends.. Looks arent realli about what a girl's genetically born with.. but equally important is how her personality contributes to it.. ie. how she carries herself and feels about her body; that feeling is also conveyed to us guys Sure looks might play some part in it.. but isnt there a saying or something, that you dont love a girl because she's pretty, rather, she's pretty because you love her? Anyways, it realli does depend on the individual |
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Jul 15 2004, 03:58 PM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
lol...shouldnt this be in relationships ish? anywho...maybe if u got contacts u mite look sexier iono...
sometimes when im around a girl who isnt a smoking 10 i tend to not be attracted to them,but if she stays around long enough to show me she has a great personality, shes got me....or atleast have my attentino... So cheer up, personality does matter ALOT! |
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Jul 15 2004, 04:03 PM
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 smiling hurts Group: Member Posts: 480 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,630 |
your not ugly
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Jul 15 2004, 04:05 PM
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 Lyrical Genius: Watch 4 AND!!! Group: Member Posts: 574 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,616 |
I say it's technically all about the looks cuz you're not gonna go talk to someone unless they physically attract you because (even if they are sweet) you won't know it..... so I think it begins at physical attraction and then it becomes whether or not you can bare their personality
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Jul 15 2004, 04:07 PM
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F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
QUOTE(PENtheINSTRUMENT @ Jul 15 2004, 4:05 PM) I say it's technically all about the looks cuz you're not gonna go talk to someone unless they physically attract you because (even if they are sweet) you won't know it..... so I think it begins at physical attraction and then it becomes whether or not you can bare their personality i agree, great way of putting it ;] |
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