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losing it, howd you feel afterwards?
felicity*aka*fe
post Mar 27 2007, 01:02 PM
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I personally am kind of freaking out
 
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*Kathleen*
post Mar 27 2007, 01:17 PM
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Well, was it at least good?
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 01:25 PM
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I was indifferent. I lost mine in a VW Bug, so I was more worried about my leg cramps than anything else.
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 01:39 PM
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the circumstances were unfortunate. and i ache like crazy.
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 02:12 PM
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I felt..."This was the crap i spent 17 years of my life waiting for???"

I feel like an a-hole now for thinking that.Im still with him and it was really good so i guess i should just STFU.
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 02:19 PM
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o0o0o O.o i swear i am like 18, and i feel like a child pinch.gif

no experiences at ALL
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 02:21 PM
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i hardly knew the guy
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 02:26 PM
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QUOTE(felicity*aka*fe @ Mar 27 2007, 2:21 PM) *
i hardly knew the guy

Then why'd you have sex with him?
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 02:58 PM
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combo of not being myself and being really pissed off. bad idea.
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 05:12 PM
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I wasnt freaked out...kind of almost proud of myself..and happy...but I'm a really paranoid cautious person so I was more concerned about the possibility that there is even the slightest chance I could be pregnant lol.
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 06:36 PM
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i felt extremely happy and mature/grown up..and i still do.
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 07:02 PM
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Elated.
No regrets.
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 07:13 PM
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QUOTE(xcaitlinx @ Mar 27 2007, 6:36 PM) *
i felt extremely happy and mature/grown up..and i still do.



Yeah, thats exactly how I felt!
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 11:29 PM
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I feel bad because I always promised myself I wouldnt until marriage.
but it kinda just happened.. it was nice but I wish we could have waited.
I am glad that I lost it to him though. there's no one else I'd want to loose it to.
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 11:36 PM
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I haven't gone all the way yet, but I've gone pretty far.
At first, I was kind of in shock, then I realized I was happy I did it with him first.
I think we're getting close to going all the way, &I'd be perfectly ok with it.
Even if we broke up, I'd be happy to have lost it to him.
Heh.
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 11:36 PM
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well i never lost it..
but doing it with the one you love.. i would feel satisfied i guess..
 
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post Mar 27 2007, 11:58 PM
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tried... didnt really regret it or anything, but i would sort of think about what the heck happend just then = = hahaha, this is a weird after-thought.
 
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post Mar 28 2007, 09:47 PM
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_unsure.gif well its complicated, but when i chose to lose it i was really happy... now the answer to the question wouldnt be awkward... plus it was with the one i love.. and the only guy im comferable
 
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post Mar 29 2007, 09:12 AM
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"finally" it allows me to open up more so im glad i lost it
 
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post Mar 29 2007, 09:32 AM
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Losing what? My cell phone? My fave cup for coffee? Man, did I feel shitty losing them. It was awful.
 
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post Mar 29 2007, 10:25 AM
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Anyone ever felt ashamed like they made a mistake and just want to lie about it? Lie as in still telling people you're a virgin?
 
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post Mar 29 2007, 11:27 AM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Mar 29 2007, 10:32 AM) *
Losing what? My cell phone? My fave cup for coffee? Man, did I feel shitty losing them. It was awful.

cute.




Haven't lost it yet,
and not planning on it.
I just know personally I would regret it.


Dude, I had this dream last night that I lost it to a guy that I worked with.
I freaked out, it seemed so real. . . kinda weird.
I woke up and was like, "oh thank god, just a dream"
 
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post Mar 29 2007, 12:12 PM
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Anyone ever felt ashamed like they made a mistake and just want to lie about it? Lie as in still telling people you're a virgin?

Mrrm. Never thought about that; I figured it's usually the other way around for people.
 
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post Apr 1 2007, 07:44 PM
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my first time wasnt exactly what i had expected

and stuff that happened afterwards wasnt great

but i was also very young

but i dont regret it at all

because it was with the right person
 
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post Apr 2 2007, 03:08 PM
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Its hard to exsplain how I felt.
Maybe more mature, and more exsperienced?
 
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post May 23 2007, 03:09 AM
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QUOTE(Chessboxxa 101 @ Mar 29 2007, 08:25 AM) *
Anyone ever felt ashamed like they made a mistake and just want to lie about it? Lie as in still telling people you're a virgin?


yep..
 
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post May 23 2007, 12:14 PM
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I felt older, and it made a lot of other kids my age sound more immature to me, especially when talking about sex. I kinda felt bad for her because she was a virgin as well so I know it hurt, but it really helped are relationship tremendously.
 
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post May 23 2007, 01:04 PM
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QUOTE(Monochrome. @ Mar 27 2007, 03:12 PM) *
I felt..."This was the crap i spent 17 years of my life waiting for???"

I feel like an a-hole now for thinking that.Im still with him and it was really good so i guess i should just STFU.


lolol that made me laugh so hardcore. haha :)
anyways, i felt strange at first, but i knew i loved him and i still do love him:) soo it's okay biggrin.gif
 
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post May 23 2007, 02:15 PM
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I felt closer than ever to her.
 
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post May 23 2007, 03:00 PM
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QUOTE(Angelina Taylor @ Mar 29 2007, 10:32 AM) *
Losing what? My cell phone? My fave cup for coffee? Man, did I feel shitty losing them. It was awful.


losing your virginity not your cell phone tongue.gif

I havent lost it..yet blink.gif ..im only fourteen.
 
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post May 23 2007, 03:35 PM
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i didn't feel any different. merrr.
 
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post May 23 2007, 06:23 PM
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okay i lost my virginity last year
to a guy i had only been going out with for a week
and it was a bad decision.
and first i was kind of happy i got it over with
and happy i had that experience,
but then all he wanted me for was for sex
so i regreted it after he left me.
 
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post May 23 2007, 06:44 PM
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why does everyone keeping saying "losing it?"... its so childish... just straight out say your virginity. it sounds like youre all 10 year olds giggling about some taboo word.

No. i havent lost my virginity and i don't plan to. i don't think its wrong to have sex before marriage, but i personally think its nice to give yourself to the guy youre pretty much 100% sure youre staying with for the rest of your life. unfortunately, though, most girls settle for less and lose their virginity to some guy who doesnt deserve it...
 
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post May 23 2007, 06:51 PM
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i lost it once i got to college with a guy i met in a local coffee shop. sucked. then he dissed me for a month, then tried to talk to me again. regret it, uhh, i don't know. i did, but it taught me that i'm worth something, and not a bang in the back seat of his car. i wish i was still a virgin.
 
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post May 23 2007, 06:53 PM
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I've almost lost mine, but I havent, i'm too scared it might hurt or the condom might break or u know the stuff we usually worry about, but i got many more yrs i'm only 15.
 
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@ Deplorable. OMG YOU SAID THAT WORD *giggle*
 
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post May 23 2007, 10:44 PM
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QUOTE(steve330 @ May 23 2007, 03:15 PM) *
I felt closer than ever to her.


how cute...*sniffsniff *teartear. lol ;)
 
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post May 23 2007, 10:54 PM
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if it feels good, who cares?
 
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post May 24 2007, 10:18 PM
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Dude, I had this dream last night that I lost it to a guy that I worked with.
I freaked out, it seemed so real. . . kinda weird.
I woke up and was like, "oh thank god, just a dream"
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It wasnt just a dream. He just left before you woke up.
 
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post May 24 2007, 11:55 PM
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QUOTE(RAWRstephishere @ May 24 2007, 08:18 PM) *
It wasnt just a dream. He just left before you woke up.

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I didn't regret it at all. It was with a person that I loved and he loved me. I felt relief actually, that we had finally gotten it over with and could look forward to a lot better, not to mention longer, sex.
 
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