Getting over her Options

[Kerfunkle]

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[jEllyBeaNs]

well thts how it was with me and my bf. He always felt he wasnt good enough and why he deserves me. But we sat down and talked about how he was feeling and things have been alot better for the both of us since we love eachother so much. But i think that you just need to believe in yourself because while you and this girl where together she probably saw something in you that you didnt see in yourself. If you really honeslty care about her and feel that you two have something i think you should atleast try to talk to about how you feel if you havent already. Because if you think about it you were the one who broke up with her in the 9th grade because u felt You werent good enough. But if she seriously didnt like you then she would've broken up with you then. ...who knows though she probably still has feelings for you but is afraid that you still dont believe in your self...(sorry if this didnt help but im not the best with advice) :/

[Kerfunkle]

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[jEllyBeaNs]

well maybe because she was your first?? idk...im not sure what to say but if this was like your first real gf, its always gonna be hard to get over that person. but i mean i kno its hard because i've been there too but you cant keep yourself down jus because she's choosing to go a different route. I guess all you can really do is move on or even tho its not that easy, you have to try to be your self and not be so shy. its gonna take some time but wen the time is rite you'll find someone different...hopefully someone better and who understands you

[Kerfunkle]

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