Breaking up.., cause i like someone else. |
 Mar 25 2007, 06:37 PM
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 DING DONG.  Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,900  |
Well, I'm going out with someone but, Since a couple days ago i have started to grow more fond of this other guy ****(dont wanna say the namee
 ).See, i dont know if i should break up with the person im going out with right now because everyone says **** is a HUGE player. and that all the girls like him.. so i dont know if i should break up with the person im going out with. & i also dont know if he really likes me or was just spinning his game last night. im sooooooo confused. i dont wanna break up with the person im with right now because it could be a really bad decision, and i could get over this crush easily (maybe) & i also want break up with him, because i dont think its fair to him if i like the other guy while going out with him. any advice? 
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Mar 25 2007, 09:36 PM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
Think, before you do anything.
The crush you have on this kid is probably meaningless. |
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Mar 25 2007, 10:25 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
hon,
you've heard the quote "never leave the one you love for the one you like because they'll leave you for the one they love" or something corny like that i know its not as high on the scale but i mean come on, people get crushes all the time and its how you deal with the crush that determines your strength in the relationship you have a crush, so what he probably has a crush on someone too but he likes you and you guys are together |
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Mar 25 2007, 11:18 PM
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 Hello There. Group: Member Posts: 1,572 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 88,673 |
If people say he's a player, then why break up with your boyfriend for him?
In addition, its probably just a simple crush. |
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Mar 26 2007, 12:22 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
don't act on ANYTHING
wait it out for 2 weeks or so then if you still like this other guy, break up with your boyfriend... because it's so wrong to just keep going out with him if you like another guy. but be warned... if everybody says this guy is a player, you're probably going to wind up getting hurt by him if you guys do get together. |
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Mar 26 2007, 01:16 AM
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 cvchango Group: Human Posts: 492 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 332,717 |
unlike everyone elses advice...
I say BREAK UP w/ your bf asap. the reason doesn't even have to do w/ the guy you crush. it is clear that you don't love your bf because you want to make sure that you can "get a new bf" if you dump your bf the least you can do is tell him the truth |
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Mar 26 2007, 02:43 AM
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 Seisuke Group: Member Posts: 289 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523 |
what you currently have you may loose by going for someone that your infatuated for. We will always be infatuated when seeing other guys when were in a relationship. But is what you have too important to you to let go, why? if not then go with that other infatuation if he seems to turn out not being a pimp and u want him. You have to ask that yourself! Keep us posted this is fun!
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Mar 26 2007, 05:26 PM
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DING DONG. Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,900 |
like the other thing is.. i feel TOTALLY guilty.. cause he kissed me.
 maybe we should just take a little break, until i find out what i want. this just doesnt feel right. |
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Mar 27 2007, 07:13 AM
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What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
he kissed you and you're still dating your boyfriend?
... i don't know... this doesn't sound like a break to me. maybe it doesn't feel right because it's not right. think of it this way... you'd definitely not want your boyfriend to find out all of this, would you? |
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Mar 27 2007, 08:37 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
well if the other guy is a player and u dont know for sure he likes u back, it would be pointless. Unless u really dont like the guy ur with now and just wanna break up wit him.
but since he kissed u already seems like hes playin a game cuz he should have respected ur boyfriend. u r a cheater and u obviously dont deserve the guy ur with now. u deserve a playa so ya..break up wit him and save him from u.
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Mar 27 2007, 06:24 PM
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DING DONG. Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 131,900 |
QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Mar 27 2007, 6:37 AM)  well if the other guy is a player and u dont know for sure he likes u back, it would be pointless. Unless u really dont like the guy ur with now and just wanna break up wit him. but since he kissed u already seems like hes playin a game cuz he should have respected ur boyfriend. u r a cheater and u obviously dont deserve the guy ur with now. u deserve a playa so ya..break up wit him and save him from u. i really dont even like him now.. well like i was thinking about it really hard. but i think its really just infatuation. but i dont know what i want right now so maybe we should take a break..?  i dont wanna hurt him. i dont wanna get hurt. maybe i should just be single for a while. |
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Mar 27 2007, 09:05 PM
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omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
Being single for a while might help you a lot.
Just to give you some time to think. If you're kissing another guy, you can't care about your boyfriend that much. |
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Mar 28 2007, 08:41 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 558 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,872 |
QUOTE(cvchango @ Mar 26 2007, 1:16 AM) unlike everyone elses advice... I say BREAK UP w/ your bf asap. the reason doesn't even have to do w/ the guy you crush. it is clear that you don't love your bf because you want to make sure that you can "get a new bf" if you dump your bf the least you can do is tell him the truth I agree. Break up with your current boyfriend because it sounds like you don't even deserve him. |
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Mar 28 2007, 02:09 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,458 |
take a break from this guy you're seeing
n spend time with both guys and see who makes you happiest but dont rush your decision leave it a week or two n see what happens :] |
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Mar 28 2007, 04:10 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
QUOTE i also want break up with him, because i dont think its fair to him if i like the other guy while going out with him. You can be with someone and like other people...As long as you're not head-over-heels in love with someone else, and your feelings are stronger for the person you're with, then it's okay. |
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Apr 11 2007, 02:05 AM
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Nah, stick with your boyfriend. If you find that your crush on the other guy just won't stop then you may want to think twice. I mean, you can`t help who you fall for right?
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