Starting a Realtionship, with someone who... |
 Mar 22 2007, 06:05 PM
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 CheccMate Foo!  Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531  |
already has a child of their own. What do you think about it?
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Mar 22 2007, 06:35 PM
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 that's what she said Group: Member Posts: 848 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 436,512 |
Well, how old are you?
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Mar 22 2007, 06:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
Well, I guess it's "extra baggage" or whatever but if one feels like they can deal with it, go ahead.
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Mar 22 2007, 06:49 PM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
if you can deal with it then its no prob.
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Mar 22 2007, 06:59 PM
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Its something you have to deal with if you actually want to have a relationship with that person enough. I guess I really wouldn't choose to be in a relationship with someone with a kid unless I really really got to know them. It would just seem a bit weird if someone my age had a kid already, I mean I would think it was great that he decided to keep it and care for it but it would seem a little to much?
It matters on the person in the end. |
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Mar 22 2007, 07:03 PM
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 what do you think it says....if so obvious. Group: Member Posts: 1,838 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,420 |
hard hard hard i tell you .
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Mar 22 2007, 10:24 PM
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 omfg, rtfql. Group: Member Posts: 649 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 511,564 |
One of my best friends, likes this girl he met in WoW, and she has a son who's 1 1/2.
I told him it's not that big of a deal, if he thinks he's ready for that kind of commitment. It turns out he's incredibly adorable, and very well behaved, for the most part. I wished him the best of luck, but as for me, I don't think that I'd be ready to date a guy, who has a kid, with someone else. It wouldn't be that big of a deal, if they didn't have any baby-mama drama. Or, baby-daddy drama. heheh. |
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Mar 23 2007, 01:46 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
i don't know... it really depends on how old you both are.
also, if the child is already a teenager, they may not accept you into their lives so quickly. it probably would be difficult but i've known people who've worked it out |
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Mar 28 2007, 02:36 PM
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 I <3 my dog Group: Member Posts: 47 Joined: Mar 2007 Member No: 512,880 |
It really depends on the people involved. The guy my friend is dating has an adorable eight year old daughter. Since he has joint custody with the mother, they hang out after his daughter is asleep or on the weeks that she is with her mom. The last thing you want is to make them choose between you and the kid.
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Mar 28 2007, 04:09 PM
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 roosternamedingo. Group: Member Posts: 1,211 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 333,926 |
Personally, it would depend on how strong my feelings are for the person, and age of course. If I really really love them, then I wouldn't care. But if I just like them, then maybe not.
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Oct 27 2007, 12:54 AM
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CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
Old topic but yeah, let's change the situation up. You've just met and unbelievably connected. Having a baby with her ex and her family sort of dislike the people I hang and don't trust me. Thing is man... sighs* I miss her
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