Your ideal Boyfriend, .... Options

[teetee_glazed]

If you could have a ideal boyfriend(not too many out there), from his personality to his looks what would he be like ?...

[crazi_in_love_08]

ok .. well ill go by my boyfriend.. hes tall .. has blonde hair like me .. um very respectful.. not afraid to show emotion.. likes to go out and have fun but also likes to stay home sometimes.. very smart.. very very good.. if u know what i mean and lots of other things too.. we've been together for about 9 months now.. im just like him .. cept im short.. we havent even been in an argument in the 2 years that we've known each other.

[YaGurlSukedMe2SL...]

we havent even been in an argument in the 2 years that we've known each other.

oooooo, thats bad....

[*salcha4u*]

I bet my list will be longer than everyone else's...

[RAWRstephishere]

Hm. Ill put this is the shortest possible..

black or dark brown hair
blue/green eyes.
about 5 7
chubby cheeks. :D
skater.
can make me laugh
sweet.
and all of that mushy stuff.

:D

[angelrevelation]

looks: Taller than me, enough so that when I wear heels he'd be a bit taller, so around 5'8" or taller. Not too muscly or skinny. Broad shoulders. Pretty eyes. Good fashion sense. Hair/eye color doesn't really matter to me.

personality: can make me laugh a LOT. thoughtful, is nice to everyone even if he finds them annoying or whatnot, passionate about something. deep thinker. Understands me, dependable, respectful, wants to make me happy. is open, not too jealous, but not so laid back that I feel like he doesn't care. has a good balance of both a goofy and a serious side. not too reckless or rebellious. common-sense, not clingy but still somewhat protective...

[alysaphobia]

my ideal boyfriend (aka the type of boyfriend i never get except in my dreams)...
- yes he'd have to be tall. but as long as he's around 5"7 i'm good.
- he'd be able to play piano like ajwlkdfajsdkf.
- he'd have to be respectful and not the type who makes crude or racial jokes or gets wasted every weekend.
- he wouldn't be too much of a partier but not a guy cooped up in his room playing computer games either.
- he'd be an intelligent guy so we could have the occasional deep conversation.
- he'd be able to make me laugh, but at the same time take things seriously when he had to.
- he'd remember the small things like my birthday.
- he would be sweet and sensitive but not to the point of being feministic-lly emotional.
- HE'D HAVE AMAZING HUGS. and eyes.

[datass]

I bet my list will be longer than everyone else's...

sally you have such high expectations, you'll be a 40 year old virgin

[kourtneyroxs]

I would say an ideal bf would be an older one. ( like 4 years older than me )
A taller one than me. ( for making out purposes )
A strong one. ( to make money doing construction or whatever )
A cute one ( to take in public )
A wise one ( to make good decisions so he doesn't wind up in jail )

BUT<<<< There personality comes first.

[RAWRstephishere]

I would say an ideal bf would be an older one. ( like 4 years older than me )
A taller one than me. ( for making out purposes )
A strong one. ( to make money doing construction or whatever )
A cute one ( to take in public )
A wise one ( to make good decisions so he doesn't wind up in jail )

BUT<<<< There personality comes first.

Lol.

Then why did you put that last on your list?

[kimmytree]

Ideally...

- dark brown hair
- dark brown / green eyes
- medium length hair
- 5'10 - 6
- a teensy bit chubby, but a little muscular too
- intelligent, and open minded.
- loves to travel
- would be able to make me laugh, but also know when to be serious
- somewhat of a mama's boy
- NOT a partier
- respectful
- has southern charm? lmao.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Looks.. I can't be very specific because personality matters more with me. As long as he's taller than me and isn't repulsive-looking, I'll be fine =)

Personality:
- he'd have to be a professional musician. Somebody who knows, for instance how many sonatas Beethoven wrote, or what a Sonata form is, etc. Haha. I've come to the conclusion that there isn't a point otherwise. Unless I'm already attracted to him =P of course.
- open minded. To be open to new ideas and views is important for me.
- he'd have to take me seriously. Not think of me as some casual chick.
- he'd have to be caring and responsible.
- a mix of serious and fun.
- sense of humour is a must.
- somebody who knows where he is in life and who has goals and dreams and is working toward achieving them.
- passionate.
- somebody who isn't afraid to fall in love.

That's basically it. I'm picky =P

[cornytu]

Appearance:

• Taller than me.
• Short hair.
• Black and/or brown hair.
• Brown eyes.
• Not too fat nor skinny.
• Not too musclar.
• Good fashion taste.
• Dress preppy or casually.
• Plays sports.

Personality:

• Has a sense of humor.
• Knows how to make me smile.
• Sweet, caring, trustworthy , and sensitive.
• Understanding.
• Not TOO emotional. (No depressing thoughts.)
• Smart.
• Easily jealous.
• Serious.
• Knows something that involves art or music well.
• Loyalty and respectful.
• Very open about his opinions.
• Not TOO attached over me.
• Limit the pride over his so-called girlfriend.

Of course, there are more.

[mocassinsx29]

Julian Casablancas :D

[angelrevelation]

^ haha too bad he's married...

[misz_ica]

... ideal boyfriend eh?

appearance
!&- tall [around 5'4 - 6'4]
!&- medium/short hair
!&- brown and/or green eyes [pretty eyes]
!&- athletic body, but still squishy in some parts
!&- not scary muscular
!&- broad shoulders
!&- has fashion taste
!&- handsome face [well to me]

personality
!&- respectful, caring & understanding
!&- responsible, able to be trusted
!&- makes me smile `=D & laugh
!&- knows how to be romantic & remembers the small sweet things
!&- has a life outside of computer games, parties & such
!&- is focused on his life goals, intelligent, and doesn`t slack off
!&- manages his time [isn`t sleeping in bed 24/7]
!&- has a job and doesn`t live off his parents
!&- family orientated but not so much of a momma`s boy
!&- plays the guitar and/or sings
!&- not psycho possessive over me & gets along with my friends
!&- knows how to relax and be a dork with me, but gets serious as well

[Nycole]

I think must people are looking for the same thing in a guy. sweet kind funny not to corny etc. all that stuff and must want looks [CC33CC]

[*Kathleen*]

- Taller than me
- Awesome/Fun hair
- Asian or half (like me )
- Cuuuuuuuute
- At least an average build (I'll admit it -- I'm slightly shallow and do not like chubby guys )
- His style would compliment mine
- Intelligent
- Has to be able to hold a conversation
- Has to be able to make me laugh
- Shares the same taste in music
- Likes/Plays DDR
- Must appreciate literature
- Accepts my flaws
- Supports everything I do
- Has to enjoy attending shows with me
- Must put up with my BTVS obsession (and other obsessions)

Mrm. I'm glad I already found him.

[pedophile]

THE PHYSICAL
<3 Atleast a few inches taller than me
<3 Has green eyessss !
<3 Broad shoulders ;)
<3 Is athletic
<3 Short or medium-ish hair [depending on face]
<3 Some facial hair [excluding mustaches; not too much tho; also depending on face]
<3 Nice smile
<3 Gives out amazing hugs !

THE PERSONALITY
<3 GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR !!!
<3 Doesn't take things too seriously
<3 Knows how to take jokes
<3 Is supportive
<3 Is caring
<3 Is somewhat intelligent
<3 Not some Mr. Know-it-all
<3 NOT conceited
<3 Somewhat emotional, not to the point of looking like a pussy
<3 Adventurous & risky
<3 Open minded
<3 Gives me space
<3 Not too judgemental
<3 Is understanding
<3 Not too picky
<3 Is honest
<3 Doesn't let his hormones get in the way of everything
<3 Has a life

ET CETERA!!
<3 Tickles me
<3 Takes me out
<3 Good hygiene !
<3 Respects my friends as well as [almost] anyone else

EHHHHHHHH, I'm picky when it comes to guys.

[clarity]

looks:

• brown hair
• taller than me
• longish (stereoptypical emo) hair :3
• any colour eyes
• white, or asian

personality:

• laid back
• caring, respectful
• NOT a pushover
• enjoys laughing
• not afraid to share things
• can tell embarassing things, and won't laught AT me but WITH me
• not concieted
• not rude
• not obsessed
• prefers to hug in public apposed to kissing :3

yeah >.<

[breakingdawn]

tall, dark, handsome, has a good taste in music, good at sports but not a cocky jock, likes to go running with me<3, smart, has values and morals, has dreams and aspirations for the future, has a good sense of humor, doesn't like junk food, light eyes, honest, easy to talk to, comes from a good family, likes to read, likes my dog, and is cuuuuteee

[NgocQuyen]

hmm my ideal boyfriend would be exactly like the one i have now! Thuan Ly
someone i can be myself with

[xBUTTMUNCHx]

The whole package!! hehe

[*StanleyThePanda*]

looks: Taller than me, enough so that when I wear heels he'd be a bit taller, so around 5'8" or taller. Not too muscly or skinny. Broad shoulders. Pretty eyes. Good fashion sense. Hair/eye color doesn't really matter to me.

personality: can make me laugh a LOT. thoughtful, is nice to everyone even if he finds them annoying or whatnot, passionate about something. deep thinker. Understands me, dependable, respectful, wants to make me happy. is open, not too jealous, but not so laid back that I feel like he doesn't care. has a good balance of both a goofy and a serious side. not too reckless or rebellious. common-sense, not clingy but still somewhat protective...

Hmm... I'd have to agree with this.
Angel_revelation (idk her name >.<) said it all.

[Gypsy Eyes]

Looks: Taller than me (not that hard to accomplish), nice eyes and smile, body type doesn't matter so much as long as they aren't huge, decent skin, nice taste in clothing. Surfer/musician and/or british/austrailian accent is a plus

Personality: intelligent, funny, sweet, loyal. Thoughtful, respectful to myself and my family/friends (that's a biggie), protective but not clingy/crazy jealous, laid back, can keep up a conversation. They need to be able to be both goofy and serious when the time calls for it.

[*My Cinderella.*]

Funny.
Sweet.
Energetic.
Understanding.
Trustworthy.
Someone I can be myself around.
Who's my best friend.
Same size or taller.
Thoughtful.
Smart.
(Cute is a plus!)
Can play an instrument or sing.
Can play a sport.

[azndreamer]

Looks:
taller than me.
a nice smile.
those deep eyes.
other than that, personality matters more.

Personality:
easy to talk to.
can make me laugh.
intelligent.
a bit unpredictable.
likes to have fun.
caring, respectful.
someone who makes an effort.
loves his family.
can be serious too.
doesn't smoke.
i can't stop anyone else from drinking but no getting wasted or drinking every weekend or something.

I love men who can sing. That's gorgeous.



*looks above*
Wow, good luck to me.

[cheerbee07]

we had to do something like this in French class at the beginning of the year...but obviously IN French, haha.
i'm glad i saw this because i'd been thinking about it a lot lately

anyway =)

WARNING: I'm a little bit picky, but more so in the personality department.

Looks: a bit taller than me (so around 6' because I'm 5'8"), shaggy-ish hair, not huge but not like stick thin either. some muscles are ok, but not like body builder-ish...i think that's a bit freaky, haha. athletics wise, soccer or basketball players if anything? haha. preferably either preppy-ish or "emo"-ish, definitely NOT "gangsta." i have also have a thing for eyes, but i don't care what color...glasses can be cute, too.

Personality (waaaay more important to me):
NICE (but knows that it's ok to be mean sometimes), INTELLIGENCE!!!!!!!!!!!, sweet. kind of romantic but not to the point of extreme cheesy-ness. GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR & LAUGHS EASILY, but knows when to be serious. can deal with my sarcasm & weird sense of humor as well as my shyness. RESPECTFUL & POLITE. Mature, but with a silly side. Readers are a plus =). I kinda like it when boys are shy-ish. Just not more shy than me. (someone that i can be myself around) TRUSTWORTHY & kind of easygoing. KEEPS PROMISES. Good conversationalist. FRIENDLY & GETS ALONG WELL WITH OTHERS. Ok with staying at home sometimes. (I'd rather stay home and watch a movie or something than go out to a fancy dinner) And if they'd watch the SUNSET with me, or else watch clouds go by or star gaze. and seriously, if they'd sing to me or else play an instrument, i'd be enthralled.

i may amend this later.
haha.

but overview= I like dorky boys

(too bad i just realized that this fits someone i know, and that he doesn't like me back )

[preciousbabyrae]

x. Taller than me.
x. Not a gangster, thug type.
x. Skater type
x. Gotta be fit.
x. Nice smile
x. Superb Personality
x. Athletic
x. Doesn't/Didn't like alot of girls
x. Didn't had a lot of girlfriends
x. Knows how to treat a girl
x. A good friend
x. Sweet / Romantic
x. Plays guitar (optional)
x. Caring
x. Trustworhy
x. Honest
x. Have goals
x. Loves his family
x. Good sense of humor
x. Not completely bald
x. Stand up for himself / stands up for what he believes in

this can go on and on and on

[*Frénésie*]

Most of you are describing your future husbands.

My ideal boyfriend isn't the person I'm dating. I never thought of an 'ideal' boyfriend. Someone who makes me happy is a plus.

[michellerrific]

- nice nice nice eyes
- and nice hair
- athletic
- shares plenty of interests with me
- sweet/nice
- not afraid to be himself
- trustworthy & honest
- no smoking/drinking/drugs

[ksoyeah]

I can't really give you any looks for my ideal boyfriend...all I know is that he HAS to be taller than me, so I can look up to him. :] Oh! --and that he can lift my chin up so our eyes can meet. x33

Personality...oh gossh. :] He needs to be funny, he has to know when I need to laugh, like...he needs to be someone that can lift my spirits at any given moment of the day. Also, I'd like it if he was smart and stuff, like...no failing grades or not caring about his education, especially someone that can help me with homework or with whatever I'm having trouble with. I like guys that are really sweet, too, guys that don't move too fast. Ooh, also guys that are willing to talk to you any time of day, if it's like...12 midnight or 2 in the morning, they're willing to do that for you without any fuss. :]

[BillyShakespeare]

Okay, my ideal boyfriend from when I was little and now is completly different. I had someone ask me the other day if Jeff was my ideal boyfriend, and I paused. A year ago, no, he wouldn't have been. But now, he's amazing.

So, I'm going with him. He's tall, at least for someone like me. He has amazing eyes {really bright blue}. His hair is darker, and cut short. {Actually, I like longer hair and I LOVE his hair when it's longer, but he has to cut it for JROTC.} He's physically fit, but not a freak about it. He has the most amazing smile anyone could ask for.

His personality is amazing. He is really strong-willed. He comes from a poor family so his value of money and working is strong. He wants to join the Army and is willing to protect any of his friends. I love everything about him, including his temper.

[Stefanny]

- personality traits are similar to mine
- taller than me (but not over a foot taller)
- hair; short and spiky, or wavy
- video game freak (ionno, i have a liking for them)
- great sense of humor
- not clingy, but must be able to hug me in public
- not too perverted. though it can be kind of humorous at times.
- asian, but not to be racist. i just like them better.
- not fat (hehe)
- like a best friend. but more intimate.

i have a guy that meets all those requirements.
mkay i'll add more later.

[YaGurlSukedMe2SL...]

- not fat (hehe)

ROFL. I can make Jacob fat.

[anf1892]

Well, I'm very picky
So I'll try to keep it basic:


Appearance:

* Taller than me.
* Short hair.
* Gorgeous eyes, doesn't matter what color.
* Not too fat nor skinny.
* Muscular, but not huge.
* Very good fashion taste.
* Dress preppy or casually.
* Plays sports.
* Mexican or Asian, no offense I just like most of those guys.


Personality:

* Has a sense of humor.
* Knows how to make me smile.
* Sweet, caring, trustworthy , and sensitive.
* Understanding.
* Not TOO emotional. (Nobody thats suicidal.)
* Smart.
* Gets jealous at times, but not that guy thats suspicious 24/7.
* Serious yet crazy when its appropriate.
* Knows something that involves music pretty well.
* Loyal and respectful.
* Very open about his opinions.
* Not TOO attached over me.
* A little concieted, just not too much.


Of course, there are way more.

[*SinfullySweet*]

A brownish black hair, break dancing, paino playing, loving, talks with me until 2 a.m. in the morning kinda guy

[rdogg549]

the guy i like is perfect just his looks arent all that

[EmoEyelinerx]

Looks like-
Taller than me.
Med hair.
Brown or blonde hair.
Brown or blue eyes.
Not too fat or skinny.
Muscular.
Good fashion sence.
Plays sports.

Personality-
Has a sense of humor.
Knows how to make me smile.
Sweet, caring, trustworthy , and sensitive.
Understanding.
Smart, but no too smart.
Serious.
Loyalty and respectful.
Very open about his opinions.
Loves me but not to the point hes obsessed.
Romantic.
Emotional but not to the part where he acts like a baby.

[xburnoutx00]

:DD

[lollypop036]

umm
i like tall and skinny white boys - idk why loll
hair colour umm, i dont really mind but i prefer it not short
nice eyes
nice hands lolll idk why eitherr
ummm, he has to be like, a nice person, im not into bad boys lol
good sense of humour
a bit serious is good, but if hes like really adorable, then playful is cute =]
i like a boy that can just be himself, and not pretend to be what he isnt
umm..idk what else lol i dont have many expectations of people

[ubeonmymind]

hmm lets see
tall
plays sports
good style
shoehead =)
cute
sweet
nice smile
funny
romantic
and more

[Pan-Duh09]

oooooo me like this topic

-Taller than me
-Honest
-Some kind of sense/brain
-Not too sensitive.
-Enjoys Sports
-Knows how to dress.
-Has a clue to what he wants out of life.
-Loves to Laugh and random things like I do.
-Gives the best hugs!
-Loves me for me (flaws and all)

[Pan-Duh09]

ohh and an island accent would also be nice.

[me1issaaaa]

A 6'2" gorgeous firefighter/EMT/pilot with ice blue eyes and a 6-pack.

Oh, wait. I'm already dating him!

[iDecay]

^ Kekeke.

Looks

• Taller than me. (So, basically 99.99% of guys? Hah.)
• Short hair, preferably spiked up most of the time. ( Unless his hair's too short to be spiked up.. )
• Abs. ABS.
• Cute smile.
• Fit. But not too fit.. Ew.
• Dresses decently.. Translation? No high waters or vests.

Personality

• Open minded.
• Someone who isn't afraid to speak up.
• Sweet and caring.
• Sensitive, but not too sensitive.
• Romantic.
• Good listener.
• Intelligence.
• Humor. I love someone who can make me laugh and smile.
• Passionate.
• A lover of music.
• Someone who doesn't whine. -.-
• Gentle.
• Someone who doesn't give up; a pursuer.
• Loyalty.
• A good listener.
• Knows how to have fun.

I like a guy who can sing or play an instrument. (Preferably guitar or piano) I don't exactly know where that would fit in..

Mmmm, horrible grammar. Yeah.. I'm not done, but chances are, I
won't edit this later.

[Dreamers]

OKAY. My list

- Taller than me. Probably around 5'9 to 6'0.

- Nice eyes! long as I enjoy looking into them color doesn't matter. (Preferrably deep brown or light blue though)

- Anywhere from dirty blonde to black hair, meduim or short length.

- Not really muscular, but he should be able to do a few pushups if he had to. For some reason I'm not attracted to the whole sixpack abs, awesome body thing..

- Gorgeous smile!

- No drugs. AT ALL. No smoking of ANYTHING.

- Smart so he can help me with homework.

- Isn't afraid to show his emotions.

- Respects me, himself, and others.

- Sure of himself.

- Funny, but knows when to be serious.

- Teases me, but knows when to stop.

- Will apologize if he's done something wrong.

- Isn't afraid to be seen with me.

- Likes me for ME.

- Knows that I'm not a doormat.

- Is willing to talk things through if we get in a fight.

- He has to let me hear him sing, no matter how bad it is. If he's doing it for me, even if others think he's a dying cat, I'll think it's beautiful singing. ^_^

- Gentle and caring, but not too much.

- Will ease my fears.

- I'm gonna sound like a freak, but'm not into the whole 'really masculine' features thing. I like guys who could be classified as 'cute' instead of 'hot' 90% of the time. LOL

- Isn't afraid of hugs.

- Loyal and honest. ^_^

I have a detailed dream guy! LOL

If it was a realistic guy, I'd go for the same thing look-wise, but'd probably end up cutting my list in half. :-| LOL

[hollywoodpink]

could write me a song and sing it well
6' or higher
i don't care about eye or hair color, but brown hair & green eyes are my favorite
thinks i'm talented and pretty
doesn't mind being obnoxious with me
isn't afraid to show affection, but not PDA

[tilanguyenar]

REMOVED
-ROBBI

[lostinLDN]

hmm......he'd probably be blonde, a little taller than me, skater or surfer or soccer player, loves music as much as i do, isn't embarressed (sp?) to be around me or talk to me or act very romantic , will actually take me out on dates, will actually like me for who i am, likes art, and somebody who my parents will like

[popoberry]

i already have my ideal boyfriend <3 yeahhhh !