pregnant?, please read. Options

[tinkabell504]

so i had sex for the 1st time yesterday, and we didnt use any protection..but he didnt cum in me & he came after we had sex..but what about pre cum & can it be seen? i'm really confused. and im not sure if i could be pregnant or not, bc he didnt cum inside me..so is there any chance i could be pregnant?

[BOOGERSHAHA]

precum contains sperm. so yeah, there's a possibility you're pregnant.

[tinkabell504]

precum contains sperm. so yeah, there's a possibility you're pregnant.

[*Uronacid*]

Don't flip out... I mean, chances are you aren't pregnant. Don't worry until you know for sure that you are. Worrying will just make things worse. Chill until you know for sure. Pre-cum can cause pregnancy, but chances are slim. Don't worry until you know.

[KissMe2408]

There is always a chance,
but I wouldn't worry too much about it.
Please, just next time be smarter about it.
Use protection or something. ..

[krnxswat]

No, don't ignore it.
The fact that there still is a CHANCE that you can get pregnant, you should use every move to prevent it (i.e. pills, etc).

[*mishyerr*]

The only possible way to find out is to wait for your period. It sucks; I know. But, next time; NO GLOVE, NO LOVE!

The stress of thinkg you're pregnant for weeks is NOT worth a few minutes of funtime.

[xFaith]

Wow that was stupid of you!

When was your last period? If it was around 2 weeks ago, you have a bigger chance than getting pregnant than that you just had your period.

[tinkabell504]

Wow that was stupid of you!

When was your last period? If it was around 2 weeks ago, you have a bigger chance than getting pregnant than that you just had your period.

it just ended sat, i had sex yesterday.

[*mishyerr*]

You need to check for period symptoms, too. Any morning sickness? Or sore breasts? Or stronger sense of smell? Go research them.

There is a very small chance that you are, though.

[Comptine]

You need to check for period symptoms, too. Any morning sickness? Or sore breasts? Or stronger sense of smell? Go research them.

There is a very small chance that you are, though.

she isn't going to get symptoms a day later. what most likely would happen is that she's going to play tricks on her self and see signs everywhere. chances are slim but if he had ejaculated within 24 hours of having sex with you, there would be a higher sperm count than normal in the precum.

you could:
a) go get plan B. check to see how it is carried in your local area. check plan B's site or go to planned parenthood.
b) wait and see if your period comes. if it doesn't, get a pregnancy test ASAP.

[chasingvictory]

she isn't going to get symptoms a day later. what most likely would happen is that she's going to play tricks on her self and see signs everywhere. chances are slim but if he had ejaculated within 24 hours of having sex with you, there would be a higher sperm count than normal in the precum.

you could:
a) go get plan B. check to see how it is carried in your local area. check plan B's site or go to planned parenthood.
b) wait and see if your period comes. if it doesn't, get a pregnancy test ASAP.

yea you can take the "day late pill" or the plan B or what ever you call it.. but I think (im not sure) it has to be within 72 hours of conception or whatever...

[Ington]

How old are you?

This is what you get for having sex without finding out what could happen. Which seems kind of weird in modern society, because condom ads are everywhere, and its talked about in Health and at schools.

[*mishyerr*]

BTW, pre-cum is clear.
And the guy never feels it coming out. So there is no way to tell whether there is some inside of you.

And I think that you can get pregnancy symptoms after you get pregnant, right? So isn't it possible for her to feel symptoms as early as the day after? shrugs* She should be fine, honestly.

[*xcaitlinx*]

BTW, pre-cum is clear.
And the guy never feels it coming out. So there is no way to tell whether there is some inside of you.

false. my boyfriend can feel it most of the time and im pretty sure a lot of other guys can as well.

[Ington]

Haa, not during sex. There's way too much going on for a guy to recognize something so faint.

[voguelove]

uh, that sucks.

yea, pre cum has sperm in it. thats why you always wear protection.
and pre cum is clear. i think..right? kinda like vaginal fluids? so you can really tell.

[kourtneyroxs]

Don't worry just wait.

[*My Cinderella.*]

You've had sex yesterday. There is a possibility that you may be pregnant but the chances are--average. Probably not though. Don't sweat it, most thoughts of being pregnant come from stress.

[pkbabe]

Haha...you're funny! Anyways, just take the moringing after pill or PLan B (prettty much the same thing but prescription not needed unless under 18). You have 3 days & you can buy it at most drug stores. Turst me...experience. Good luck

[*Uronacid*]

GOTO CVS AND BUY THAT f**king PILL!!! :O!!!

[Mireh]

Don't worry just wait.

please don't wait until it's too late to do anything about it.

to be sure you should go buy that 72 hour emergency rape pill thing.

i'm not sure what it's called, but they were behind every single bathroom stall of this college campus that i visited.

[*WHIMSICAL 0NE*]

Um.. pregnancy test. And next time be smart about things.

[sprezzatura]

Go to a pharmacy, buy a pregnancy test and those day after pills.

[Comptine]

BTW, pre-cum is clear.
And the guy never feels it coming out. So there is no way to tell whether there is some inside of you.

And I think that you can get pregnancy symptoms after you get pregnant, right? So isn't it possible for her to feel symptoms as early as the day after? shrugs* She should be fine, honestly.

no. sperm takes more than a day to travel to fertilize the egg and than more than a day for the fertilized egg to travel through the tube to the uterus.. some women "feel" pregnant maybe a couple of week afterward. most don't know until their period is late, which a month afterwards. some even can miss more than one period and still not know.

Go to a pharmacy, buy a pregnancy test and those day after pills.

yeah. a pregnancy test the day after she had sex. cause they are that effective

[SimplicityGirl]

Chances are really slim, but just to be safe, you should go take a morning after pill. And next time, do use a condom to avoid stressing out over it like you're doing now.

[mylittleMiracle]

yes,there's possibility...

[me1issaaaa]

There is a possibility, but I seriously doubt it. As long as you're SURE he didn't actually do it in you, then the chances of getting pregnant off of pre-ejaculant are like... reeeeeeeeeeeally stiff. Don't worry about it, you need to stay calm. I've been through that, and nothing happened, but the fact that I freaked out so much made me late, which made me freak out even more. Try not to worry about it. And, obviously if you want to be extra cautious, get the morning after pill SOON. It's not effective after 3 days.

[*Intercourse.*]

Perhaps search around, theres a lot of times when people have been in this exact situation.

If its been atleast 72 hours or less since you had sex you really need to go somewhere and get the morning after pill if your really worried. Also when are you planned to have your next period if its soon as in a week or so you could always wait until then. Although you really need to calm down and not stress to much over it because if you do stay stressed out it can cause your period to come late as well.

Well after reading some posts I kind of repeated the same thing sorry.

[priyas]

take a pregnancy test or like the "morning after" pill

[micron]

IF your period is normal and regular, chances are youre not pregnant. you can only get pregnant when youre ovulating, which is around 2 weeks into your period. but you should get plan b to be safe. heres the website:

http://www.go2planb.com/

you can get it over the counter without a prescription if youre over 18. in some states you can get it without a prescription in some pharmacies even if youre younger.

after you take care of that, smack your boyfriend for being so irresponsible. its his job to carry a condom (although you should too, just to be safe).

[megggnasty]

I don't understand why everyone is telling you NOT to worry, because you SHOULD be worrying. I mean, don't freak out and panic but don't ignore it either. You made a huge mistake not using protection, like they teach you to at school, in books and on TV. It was definitely a stupid decision, but you can't go back and change it. Get a pregnancy test or go to a clinic, and you could try The Morning After pill.

[tinkabell504]

IF your period is normal and regular, chances are youre not pregnant. you can only get pregnant when youre ovulating, which is around 2 weeks into your period. but you should get plan b to be safe. heres the website:

http://www.go2planb.com/

you can get it over the counter without a prescription if youre over 18. in some states you can get it without a prescription in some pharmacies even if youre younger.

after you take care of that, smack your boyfriend for being so irresponsible. its his job to carry a condom (although you should too, just to be safe).

this is probley a REALLY dumb question, but what is ovulating?

[tinkabell504]

i'm trying really hard not to stress or think about it, bit i honestly cant help it..its ALWAYS on mind & it will be untill i know fer sure. i dont want to tell my boyfriend, bc i dont want to scare him over nothing, if i'm not pregnant..& i dont even think its ever crossed his mind that i could be bc he knows he didnt cum inside me, but idk if he realizes anything about his precum getting in me..i know its my own fault & i HATE myself for letting it happen, especially the way it happened, i have to wait ALL the way till the 1st week of next month to find out if i am or not. i'm REALLY scared & i hope to god im not pregnant.

[micron]

heres some info about ovulation. keep in mind that what i said earlier doesnt apply if youre period is irregular. also know that the likelihood of getting pregnant is highest for teenage girls, as you seem to be one.

[BOOGERSHAHA]

well don't do it again. you should have known all the risks before you had sex. and you should have known what ovulating was...but now you know!

get on birth control. how old are you?

[tinkabell504]

well don't do it again. you should have known all the risks before you had sex. and you should have known what ovulating was...but now you know!

get on birth control. how old are you?

i'm 16.

[Afrodisiac-aka-A...]

No you're not pregnant, you've just been eatin too many twinkies, girl

[*mishyerr*]

I don't understand why everyone is telling you NOT to worry, because you SHOULD be worrying. I mean, don't freak out and panic but don't ignore it either. You made a huge mistake not using protection, like they teach you to at school, in books and on TV. It was definitely a stupid decision, but you can't go back and change it. Get a pregnancy test or go to a clinic, and you could try The Morning After pill.

Actually, if she worries excessively, symptoms can start to show. Paranoia causes a LOT of weird things. The wonders of the mind...

GIRLFRIEND, YOU NEED TO MEMORIZE SOME RHYMES:
No glove, no love
Wrap your whacker before you attack her

[megggnasty]

Actually, if she worries excessively, symptoms can start to show. Paranoia causes a LOT of weird things. The wonders of the mind...

That's why I said not to panic. Worrying is much different than being paranoid. She can't simply ignore what's happened, as that could lead to even worse problems.

[Comptine]

^not everyone said not to worry.

aside from getting plan B she can't do anything but wait. pregnancy tests aren't that effective until within the few days before her period.

[tinkabell504]

ok so my boyfriend came over..& we had sex, but we didnt use a condom...& he came after we had sex..ive had unprotected sex w/him twice (sunday & today) but both times he came after we had sex..is there still a chance i could be pregnant? idk if i should be worried about pre cum or not bc both times we had sex it was only for like 10 mins, bc it hurt.. but do u think i could be pregnant?

[*xcaitlinx*]

umm you already made a topic like this..

[tinkabell504]

umm you already made a topic like this..

yeah but i had unprotected sex again today..

[enticinmel]

Hmm..If your not educated enough to know when you could possibly get pregnant..then you probably shouldn't be having sex...dontcha think?
Sex Ed 101 lesson for today
1. Stop having sex!
2. of course you could get pregnant or be pregnant having unprotected sex even if he withdrawls.

[tinkabell504]

Hmm..If your not educated enough to know when you could possibly get pregnant..then you probably shouldn't be having sex...dontcha think?
Sex Ed 101 lesson for today
1. Stop having sex!
2. of course you could get pregnant or be pregnant having unprotected sex even if he withdrawls.

what do u mean by; if he has withdrawls?

[aspect]

If he "pulls out"--withdraws from you. And yes, you can pregnant. Stop questioning it and take some responsibility! Go out to Planned Parenthood and get a few condoms; hell, stick around there, too.

[*xcaitlinx*]

yeah but i had unprotected sex again today..

well then you're what we like to call DUMB. everyone is just gunna say the same thing they said in the other thread! yes, you can get pregnant. that's all you need to know. damn, i hate ignorant people.

[krnxswat]

You're a f ucking mornon, you dirtbag.


You deserve to get pregnant.


Let's not be so rude, Seon Ho. This your verbal warning.
--Arjuna

This post has been edited by Arjuna Capulong: Mar 14 2007, 04:37 PM

[*mishyerr*]

You're a f ucking mornon, you dirtbag.
You deserve to get pregnant.
Let's not be so rude, Seon Ho. This your verbal warning.
--Arjuna

I'd say I have to agree.
THERE IS ALWAYS A CHANCE, YOU IDIOT.
Unless you're finished with menopause, which I assume you are not.
God, go masturbate or something.

[me1issaaaa]

What the hell is wrong with you? Did the first time not scare you enough? I'm sorry. I had sympathy for you the first time, but you turning around and doing the same thing AGAIN is just completely moronic. Stupid, stupid, stupid young girl.

[pkbabe]

You're a dummy...this just goes to show that you're not ready cuz of your lack of responsibility to use any form of birth control. No more nicey girl. Shame shame

(I don't wanna curse out people...makes me feel bad)

[y0urelectrikk]

Are you an idiot..?


hmm I'm guessing yes.
seriously.. if you dont know these things you shouldn't be having sex (as everyone else is telling you).
though I dont think we're getting across to you if you did it again.

why would you make a topic with the same question.. the answer obviously isn't going to change.
It sounds like you're just trying to brag about having sex or something.

[SimplicityGirl]

Umm..and what's the point of you asking again?

And I can't believe you're having sex when you barely know what everybody's saying. Add to the fact that you're having UNPROTECTED sex. Not once but twice. Once is okie--I had sympathy for you then. But now it's just stupidity on your part. And your boyfriend's part too. If you got scared the first time around, why have sex unprotected just mere days after?

The answer is still yes you can be pregnant.

My suggestion? PLEASE USE A CONDOM THE NEXT TIME. And don't post again asking if you could be pregnant after having another round of sex without protection. Because the answer will still be the same.

[LOWinSKANK]

there`s million of sperm in even a drop
of cum, pre-cum has sperm too. you
could be pregnant, all it takes is one..

[Comptine]

either stop having sex or get smart and use protection.

what in the world made you think that posting the same problem AGAIN would make things better? this is just careless and idiotic of you.

[love-issosweet]

get ready to gain 30 pounds and having a thing growing inside of you. :]

[cori-catastrophe]

get ready to gain 30 pounds and having a thing growing inside of you. :]

indeed.
seriously. why have sex if you have no idea what widthdrawal is? how old are you?

[EmmalieV]

Harsh Harsh Harsh.
Wrap it up ALWAYS.
Use a plastic bag if you have too.

[AngelinaTaylor]

You're stoopid. I hope you do get pregnat.

Nah, just kidding. But you ARE stupid. Don't have unprotected sex. Plus, you're still a kid.. how would you feel taking care of another kid? Not too good, right?

[*Monochrome.*]

umm you already made a topic like this..

yeah but i had unprotected sex again today..

OH MY f**king GOD.
I SHOULD SLAP YOU FOR BEING SO STUPID.well im not going to reapeat why you are so silly.but
well.

good luck to you. and i feel bad for all 10 kids you will have.

[aznxdreamer]

hah. this is so funny how everone is being so harsh. HAH. i bet this girl is like..13.

[Kontroll]

ok so my boyfriend came over..& we had sex, but we didnt use a condom...& he came after we had sex..ive had unprotected sex w/him twice (sunday & today) but both times he came after we had sex..is there still a chance i could be pregnant? idk if i should be worried about pre cum or not bc both times we had sex it was only for like 10 mins, bc it hurt.. but do u think i could be pregnant?

damn, maybe it's a good thing that public schools have sex ed. Hmm. It's not that hard of a concept to grasp.

The penis slides into the vagina, ever so gently. After a number of thrusts the penis ejaculates into the vagina. Then, the sperm travel up some tube(You tell me which one. Haha.) and impregnate the egg.

HAHAHHAHAHAA.

As long as there's a chance that his spermy germ could have reached your snatch, then you have a chance of getting pregnant.

Go get a home pregnancy test. Dummy.

[*Monochrome.*]

The penis slides into the vagina, ever so gently. After a number of thrusts the penis ejaculates into the vagina. Then, the sperm travel up some tube(You tell me which one. Haha.) and impregnate the egg.

The fallopian tube....Unless that was a whore joke that i didnt catch..

[Comptine]

Go get a home pregnancy test. Dummy.

for the last time, she cannot take a pregnancy test the day she had unprotected sex. it's not going to tell her anything.

[datass]

WEAR CONDOMS BETCH

[Kontroll]

for the last time, she cannot take a pregnancy test the day she had unprotected sex. it's not going to tell her anything.

Well, it's the next day. Ha, what do you gotta say now?

Bitch.

[*mishyerr*]

You can't take a home pregnancy test until a few days before your period... and the more time before, the less accurate it is. ^_^

[Comptine]

Well, it's the next day. Ha, what do you gotta say now?

Bitch.

you caught me. if she pees on the stick now, it'll give an electronic read out. it would even deliver the baby for her too.

Bastard.

[Kontroll]

That's right I am a bastard. Thanks for calling me out on that. How else do you want to ruin my life even more?

I'm sorry that I'm not a trained specialist in the art of home pregnancy tests. Forgive me. Forgive me for stating the obvious. Hey, but you know...the obvious is probably the best place to start.

[*Monochrome.*]

WEAR CONDOMS BETCH

YEAHHH BOII

There are some tests you can take to see if you are pregnant imediately the next day to see if you test postive for a certain protein that starts to develop only when you are pregnant.

[Crystal-Lee]

sorry i dont want to be rude but this made me laugh a little on how stressed you all seemed about a simple thing.and i think its really rude to say its a big MISTAKE. When its not. Without making mistakes in life you learn nothing. books and television isnt going to tell you everything. you need to live life yaself and not only go by what others have experienced cause its not the same for everyone. Im sure ull be fine. chill and just wait i guess. :) best luck.
Crystal-Lee

iloveshanedymke@hotmail.com if anyone wants to say anything to me.

[mouse_3k]

lol great job for your first time!! [/end sarcasm] yah u have a chance on bein pregnant cuz even if he didnt bust inside u, pre cum has sperm. just to go the clinic to get plan B (might be too late) or abortion if u really dont want it. But first things first, get a EPT to make sure before worryin bout much

[mouse_3k]

lol good job idiot. Be prepared for a lifetime of stress and hell ^.^ U are pregnant my dear.

[alysaphobia]

isn't this topic almost the same as this one?
http://www.createblog.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=170039

and... i really hope you aren't pregnant. that would kind of suck a lot.

[krnxswat]

Please tell me when you are pregnant so I can point my finger and laugh at you!

[voguelove]

yeah but i had unprotected sex again today..

wtf is wrong with you?
dont you know to learn from your mistakes?


seriously, why are you bringing this problem to us? it's your fault that you did it twice.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Please tell me when you are pregnant so I can point my finger and laugh at you!

OHH ME TOO

[momo9041]

ok so my boyfriend came over..& we had sex, but we didnt use a condom...& he came after we had sex..ive had unprotected sex w/him twice (sunday & today) but both times he came after we had sex..is there still a chance i could be pregnant? idk if i should be worried about pre cum or not bc both times we had sex it was only for like 10 mins, bc it hurt.. but do u think i could be pregnant?

ok for one your gonna feel guilt when you get married to some one else and have sex with them.and two duh you might get pregnat!if you so worried about it then why did you do it a second time?

[NgocQuyen]

lol. why are you having unprotected sex if you're not on like birth control or something? i don't know, i think that's just..silly is a nicer word. umm. yeah. i guess you can wait and take a pregnancy test. no use in stressing about it now. what's done is done. you not only made a mistake, but you did it twice--in a row. there is a chance, but just chill and wait for a test i guess. :/

[elaboratedream]

yes, you can get pregnant.

but I certainly hope you're not. People as stupid as you shouldn't be reproducing.

WEAR A CONDOM. it's not that hard.

[Rachel]

Okay:
a)I merged your topics because they are the same thing. Please don't make multiple topics that are dealing with the exact same topic.
b)Are you completely not smart? (Trying to be as nice as possible here.) DON'T HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX AND YOU WON'T GET PREGNANT. I'm thinking you aren't mature enough to be having sex if you can't handle putting on a damn condom or going on birth control. What you need to do it stop having sex, get a vibrator, and the morning after pill. If you don't want to stop having sex, find a boyfriend who doesn't rely on the "pulling out" method.

[*mishyerr*]

yes, you can get pregnant.

but I certainly hope you're not. People as stupid as you shouldn't be reproducing.

WEAR A CONDOM. it's not that hard.

Agreed; maybe we should all pray she has a miscarriage, because her baby would have a stupid, f**ked up mom anyway.

[Comptine]

YEAHHH BOII

There are some tests you can take to see if you are pregnant imediately the next day to see if you test postive for a certain protein that starts to develop only when you are pregnant.

pregnancy tests aren't that advance. especially when it takes more than 24 hours for the sperm to fertilize the egg. to actually be pregnant (sperm meets egg), it takes seven to 10 days. the protein/hormone is hCG takes awhile to accumulate. earliest earliest is 7 days with a blood test and that is still inaccurate and should be repeated if it comes out negative and the period is still missed.

the only reason why i'm being anal about this (ahem jakekking) is because if someone tests too early, it would give them a false negative = false relief.

[shortnsweet88]

Ah...this makes me angry. How can you seriously be that ignorant and out of your mind?! I mean, werent you scared to death the first time? Oh...but that wasnt enough...lets go back for seconds...GOSH...I want to have sympathy for you...but I have very little....this is just simply insane.

[Rachel]

FYI to everyone, myself included: Keep yourselves in line and cut the member bashing out. We all might share the same opinion but we don't need to verbalize it and attack her. Verbal warnings/warnings will be issued if continued. :)

[AKAsuperconn]

so this year in sex ed this girl came in who started having sex with her boyfriend when she was 16 and at first they started off using condoms ... but they just started doing withdrawl with out condoms... and she got pregnant.... sooo best of luck to you ... that sucks... just dont do it again.

[drummergirlmarim...]

how long has it been? cuz you could have taken those abortion pills taken within 24hours after sex

[misz_ica]

okay you`re using the withdrawl method, and the more you do it w/o a condom, the higher the chance that you are going to get pregnant. use a condom. be smart about it, and if you can`t even afford to buy condoms, then you shouldn`t be having sex.

[*Monochrome.*]

pregnancy tests aren't that advance. especially when it takes more than 24 hours for the sperm to fertilize the egg. to actually be pregnant (sperm meets egg), it takes seven to 10 days. the protein/hormone is hCG takes awhile to accumulate. earliest earliest is 7 days with a blood test and that is still inaccurate and should be repeated if it comes out negative and the period is still missed.

the only reason why i'm being anal about this (ahem jakekking) is because if someone tests too early, it would give them a false negative = false relief.

I agree.
But along the same lines.I think this child. and yes i did say child seeing as only childeren seem not to really learn the first time.I think she really needs to learn the hard way.You dont come on here asking for help and then not even a couple days later do it again expecting the same help.Its ...wow.

[demolished]

have someone punch you in the stomach. eat bad food and vomit. i wonder if it works? o_o



edit

Guys, stop ranting. It's enough now. If she still continues to have sex, good luck to her life. If i were her parent, i'll beat her pussy and butthole 'till it turn black and purple.

[demolished]

sorry. i double posted.

[Crystal-Lee]

Omg i didnt read the parts where she had sex twice without contreception. now i feel like a fool for sticking up for her. Okay lovely.. i got pregnant when i was 16 because i was a stupid stupid person... but had an abortion. i dont care what you all think about it.. I was totally against it before it happened to me but you seriously dont understand the position until your placed in it. Trust me it was one of the worst things i had to deal with in life litrually. dont make that mistake please. it will take me a life time to get over the pain you have to deal with.
god bless you. hope your not pregnant.

[cupcakex]

I wouldn't worry too much about it.
Only because stress can delay a period, and that would only stress you more.

Take a pregnancy test.

[*Monochrome.*]

have someone punch you in the stomach. eat bad food and vomit. i wonder if it works? o_o



edit

Guys, stop ranting. It's enough now. If she still continues to have sex, good luck to her life. If i were her parent, i'll beat her pussy and butthole 'till it turn black and purple.

**CRINGE**
OWW

[orgasm]

have someone punch you in the stomach. eat bad food and vomit. i wonder if it works? o_o

That's what they did in the old days!!

You know what else they did?

They took a hanger and stuck it up the female's va-jay-jay =]

It works. Try it.

[*mishyerr*]

Some people stick bombs up the womens' snatches. :/

[orgasm]

Some people stick bombs up the womens' snatches. :/

Yeah, I heard that hurts...

especially when the bomb goes boom.