Is it wrong for a 14 year old to have sex? Options

[myPESTICIDE]

I've only done it like 5 or 6 times, and we used condoms, and he says he truly loves me, although I don't believe him because he's 15 and yes I'll admit it we don't know what true love is...but is this wrong?

[kourtneyroxs]

I don't think it is. Some people wait till they get married but as long as your using a condom
so you don't get prego. Go for it.

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[ksoyeah]

14 is a horrible age to have sex. Wait until you're older when it means something.

[kourtneyroxs]

Don't listen to her. If you think your in love, then don't let age hold you back.

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[ksoyeah]

Okay.
Go get pregnant when a condom breaks, sweetie. :]

Okay.
Go get pregnant when a condom breaks, sweetie. :]

[kourtneyroxs]

I doubt that the comdom will break. so don't scare her.
They are in love so go and ruin someone elses life.

[niciDOOM]

the first time i had sex was 4teen
and its prefectly fine.
the only i personally reject is that
i'm gonna be stretched from now on >__<

[*xcaitlinx*]

i think it's wrong in your case because you said you don't know what love is, and that you don't think he loves you.

i had sex when i was 15 [almost a year ago] and i'm still with him..i knew that i was in love with him and that i will be for the rest of my life. it all depends..

[-sincerely]

hm, personally i don't think it's a good idea.
the condom can break. and you should wait until you're REALLY in love. you never know what could happen, and you should be safe just incase. anyway, you're 14. it's not like you're going to be marrying him. i woulda saved my viriginity if i were you for the person i was going to be with for the rest of my life.

[Ington]

14 is a horrible age to have sex. Wait until you're older when it means something.

How do you know it doesn't mean anything to her?

I think sex is very much overrated. The entire concept of "wait until it means something" is flawed. It means something to her now, even if she isn't in love, and I say do what you want.

Even moreso, she proved that she is responsible with sex, always using protection. The reason why teenagers aren't wanted to have sex is because they don't always understand the consequences, but obviously, she does.

Do what you want.

[tokyo-rose]

It's not wrong to have sex when you're 14. It's just preferable that you wait till you're a bit older, maybe 16+.

Personally I think that you shouldn't have sex unless it's with someone you truly care about and loves you back, but it's your life. As long as you're using protection, go ahead.

[murderwaltz]

in my view, i always thought that people around 13 - 15 were too young to have sex. i still believe that actually, because you are young, you're still a kid. & everyone says "i love you" i dont believe we can know what love is yet because we're barely experiencing new feelings. just as long as you did it without peer pressure or because he forced you, i guess its okay. & its good that you're using protection! it makes you seem like a responsible person. so if youre okay with it, dont sweat it. :]

[ldyxluvable]

wow.. i think thats TOO young

[SimplicityGirl]

As long as both of you are mature enough to handle the consequences, sex at 14 isn't "wrong".

[RAWRstephishere]

Get birth control too.

Make sure he doesnt have any STDs

[HakunaMatata]

Don't listen to her. If you think your in love, then don't let age hold you back.

Please don't tell people not to listen to others, people are allowed to voice their opinions.

I think that fourteen is too young, you have a lot of growing up to do in just the next couple of years. I know nothing about you or if you're wise beyond your years, but I'm glad you're using protection.

[michellerrific]

Although ages give the first impression, I'm not sure if it always matters. The idea of sex kind of matters on your maturity and the way you define 'love' in relation to another person. If you understand all that then I don't see what's wrong with it.

[*suddenly she*]

It's an opinion question.

I'm into abstinence, so I say it's wrong. A lot of change can happen between age fourteen and post-college, especially in your priorities. I'm fifteen and happily taken with my boyfriend who's a year older, but I've chosen not to have sex with him because I can't handle the possible consequences alone. Who knows, maybe he'll be one of the guys who actually do follow through with whatever happens, but I'm not taking that chance.

In high school, admittedly, he's one of my priorities, along with God and grades and perhaps a billion other things. I depend on him for a lot, but when we go to college, what we depend on changes. He's not going to have his dad there for him, and when I go to college I won't have my parents to pay for the possible consequences of premarital sex.

You could get an STD or pregnant or if you two break up, you'll lose your reputation as well.

I don't want to possibly screw over my life before I can support myself.

Just my compressed take on premarital sex in general.

I don't see why you're having sex with this guy if you don't think he loves you and if you don't know what love is.

[shortnsweet88]

I think its wrong. You asked for our personally opinions...so Im going to tell you exactly what you dont want to hear but what I strongly believe. I dont like it...at all. Its horrible. I dont care if you think you are in love or not I dont even care if you sincerely are in love or not. Sex is meant to be such a beautiful, mature, long lasting, bonding, and meaningful thing...not something that comes and goes and that you share with multiple people through out your life time.

[pedophile]

Honestly, I do think it's wrong for a 14 year old to be having sex. I think people should wait until they're atleast indepedent & financially stable. Also, the fact that you don't even know what true love is just makes it that much worse.

[marzipan]

14 is a horrible age to have sex. Wait until you're older when it means something.

I agree with her.

So what if you feel you should be having it? What are you going to do if you get pregnant? He could easily dump you. If you had a baby, you wouldn't have anything to support yourself at 14. I doubt your parents would be willing to take care of all that.

Think about the consequences before you do something like that.

[mylittleMiracle]

you don't know what true love is,you even don't know if you love him.Also,deeply in love with him doesnt mean that you need to have sex with him to show that you love him as you are really too young to have sex

[alysaphobia]

i think it's wrong, because i believe you should really be in love with somebody before you have sex with them.
but at least you're using protection...

[xhidethedetails]

I'm not going to tell you if its right or wrong because I myself had sex when I was around your age. I regret it though because he was only after me for one thing and I was to blind to see it. If your confident that he likes you for you and not what your handing out I dont think theres any problem with it.

[voguelove]

it's not exactly wrong, but the concepts and morals that go into it make it seem so.

[me1issaaaa]

I don't think it's wrong, I just think it's incredibly stupid. Give it a few years, and you'll really regret losing it when you did.

[*Intercourse.*]

It truly depends on the person, but from your post I think its kind of wrong on what your doing. To go out and have sex with this guy that says he loves you but you know he doesn't but yet you still hang around and have sex still.

I really think you should think about the situation your putting yourself in and what kind of person that makes you sound like. I think you should stop having sex and wait until it will actually mean something.

[pinacoolada]

Just be careful.

[YaGurlSukedMe2SL...]

no

[Comptine]

^wow. that was the MOST informative post ever.

to the topic: i think 14 is too young. 14 is just fresh out of puberty. you also said you weren't quite sure if he loved you. honestly, nothing we say can stop you from doing what you want. at least you're smart and use protection.

i think that you do have problems with your age and having sex at this time or else you wouldn't ask us if it was wrong.

[bitesnkisses]

Everyone has different opinions on this... and therefor only you can know when it's right or not. Some people might think it's wrong because you're 14 and don't know what true love is, and others don't. It all depends. Personally, the first time I had sex was when I was (stil are) 15. It's really you're choice and your choice only. Just make sure you use protection and that you realize that there's still a chance of becoming pregnant even if you do use it right.

[love_overdose]

well i'm 14 and i have a boyfriend....i would never havesex with him...atleast not yet...im feeling that its not an appropiate age to have sex...we're still just kids and we need to have fun while we're still kids...you'll have more years to come for sex. and plus i don't feel mentally prepared to have sex at this age. but than again that's just me. If you feel that you're mature enough and mentally prepared anough to have sex than theres noone to stop you and if you have no regrets or double thinking about it ten ur good to go...atleast ur using condoms

[kourtneyroxs]

How do you know it doesn't mean anything to her?

I think sex is very much overrated. The entire concept of "wait until it means something" is flawed. It means something to her now, even if she isn't in love, and I say do what you want.

Even moreso, she proved that she is responsible with sex, always using protection. The reason why teenagers aren't wanted to have sex is because they don't always understand the consequences, but obviously, she does.

Do what you want.

Right on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[*My Cinderella.*]

There is no wrong age to have sex. You just need to make sure you know that's what you want and you know what you're getting into.

[Comptine]

there is. personally, i think 8 is a little young to have sex. whether or not they are mentally prepared. even if they are using protection.

[aznxdreamer]

why are you having sex with him when you know he doesn't love you? thats kinda dumb. and when your 14, your body hasnt even developed enough to have sex.

[Smoogrish]

Why are you having sex with him if you don't even think he loves you? Wait until you're entirely sure and have no doubts.

[YaGurlSukedMe2SL...]

^wow. that was the MOST informative post ever.

hey, just answering the question

[xBUTTMUNCHx]

Yess! but who am i to judge?? age wise, you guys are too young...but now a days kidds start doing it at the age 11...no one is to judge when you should do it, or when you are ready. cause it is really up to you to decide when your ready.

[Mireh]

I doubt that the comdom will break. so don't scare her.
They are in love so go and ruin someone elses life.

although I don't believe him because he's 15 and yes I'll admit it we don't know what true love is...but is this wrong?

as of my opinion on this, nobody can tell you whats right or whats wrong in life. Just be prepared and ready for the repercussions that may occur.

[*mishyerr*]

Let's see what you think when a baby pops out and your parents throw you out and you have no money and no man and not enough years to get a job. :] Of course it's okay!

[megggnasty]

I don't think it's WRONG to have sex that young, but I don't think it's a smart idea. You need to mature first, because you're probably going to regret it when you're 18 and you actually are in love. Next time you go to have sex, picture yourself 5 years from then with a baby, no job and no place to live; if you're fine with that then by all means go ahead. You always have to expect the worst, because you never know what could happen. Condoms DO break; it's latex, not steal. Virginity isn't something you can take back. Props to you for being safe though.

[Shelley_Mackenzi...]

Acually, condoms break all the time. and lots of people get pregnant that way. I'm 14 to and I also think that if your just doing it because you feel like you have to, or because you think if you don't he'll think less of you, then I wouldn't do it. I wouln't do it antway though, I mean , not at my age anyway.

[alysaphobia]

Acually, condoms break all the time. and lots of people get pregnant that way. I'm 14 to and I also think that if your just doing it because you feel like you have to, or because you think if you don't he'll think less of you, then I wouldn't do it. I wouln't do it antway though, I mean , not at my age anyway.

^umm... i think condoms don't break 'all the time', that should only happen if you're using them incorrectly in the majority of cases.

personally... i think it's wrong for a 14 year old to have sex, since the majority of 14 year olds would not be financially and emotionally able to take care of the consequences, incl. a possible pregnancy, by themselves.

[lovescream]

no, it isn't wrong. i just hope you're ready to face the consequences of having sex, even if you DO use a condom.

[xBUTTMUNCHx]

14 is young, but then ppo has done it younger.
if it feels right to you then its right.

[LOWinSKANK]

if you`re thinking about the
consequences, and are ready
to deal with them if they come
up later, then maybe it is
okay. just think about the future.

[Shelley_Mackenzi...]

okay condoms don't break "all the time" but they can break and lots of people get pregnant that way. I personaly know 3 people who got pregnant by broken or "defective" condoms. And by defective I mean like a hole in them or somthing. And all of you who are reading this saying "she's stupid, condoms can't have holes in them." yes, they can. but whatever, if you think your ready then whatever, just make sure you use a condom.

[doork]

I think its stupid, but who am I to tell you that.. I lost my virginity at the age of 14, also.. but I stopped having sex ever since me and that guy broke up [which was two months later].. Looking back now, I deeply regret it. I believe that my husband should get it TIGHT and NICE.. but hey, it's your life do whatever you want, just be careful! Boys around that age isn't responsible yet.

[EmoEyelinerx]

I myself am 14 and thinking about having sex so thanks for the topic lol. Anayways i think its ok as long as you know what the consequences are and how you can handle them.

[swishersweet]

I was raised from the Holy Bible and I think it's wrong that alot of people have sex before marriage. I do get sexual urges somtimes but I can hold them and so can you.

[JerzDevil]

I think its stupid, but who am I to tell you that.. I lost my virginity at the age of 14, also.. but I stopped having sex ever since me and that guy broke up [which was two months later].. Looking back now, I deeply regret it. I believe that my husband should get it TIGHT and NICE.. but hey, it's your life do whatever you want, just be careful! Boys around that age isn't responsible yet.

wow u sure are dumb as a girl to have had sex at the age of 14 who does, that was not a smart option you chose, if your "bf" as i should call it offered u sex and wanted sex, u shouldve just nicely decline, but gj screwing up some parts of ur life by losing virginity at that age, u shouldnt have done it and not regret it now.

[AngelinaTaylor]

It's not wrong, it's just incredibly stupid. Yeah, I'm all for kids having sex! Woo!

[JerzDevil]

^Actually, it's BOTH wrong and stupid. just think about it, "sex" is a thing you go through when you've met all the requirements and the average "right time" for "sex" comes when your 18 or above, i highly assume. So I don't think it's right if an 8th grade girl sucked dick and got in through all courses. It's just disgusting. But if you hear if a college junior did that, I wouldn't be shocked at all. who would be? It's the right time at their life to do those shit. go with my words, everyone.

[literemix24]

I don't think its wrong, as long as you're mature enough to take responsibility and use protection.

[shortnsweet88]

wow u sure are dumb as a girl to have had sex at the age of 14 who does, that was not a smart option you chose, if your "bf" as i should call it offered u sex and wanted sex, u shouldve just nicely decline, but gj screwing up some parts of ur life by losing virginity at that age, u shouldnt have done it and not regret it now.

This upset me. I will tell you why, you should never EVER call someone dumb. Her actions might have been wrong but she CLEARLY expressed remorse and a mature reason for not wanting to have sex again. I think personally people are not dumb...its the actions they take that are dumb. I also think that your choice in words were dumb. k thanks. :)

[animalinside]

^Actually, it's BOTH wrong and stupid. just think about it, "sex" is a thing you go through when you've met all the requirements and the average "right time" for "sex" comes when your 18 or above, i highly assume. So I don't think it's right if an 8th grade girl sucked dick and got in through all courses. It's just disgusting. But if you hear if a college junior did that, I wouldn't be shocked at all. who would be? It's the right time at their life to do those shit. go with my words, everyone.

There is so much wrong with most if not all of your posts that i wont even go into details

There is no such thing as an age to be ready to have sex, as long as your doing it with a decent purpose (i.e. reproduction) its morally alright, but who really cares about morals anymore, people make "morals" nowadays to try and make their actions seem better than others. People try to justify sex before marriage by saying "im gonna be with this guy the rest of my life, so what does it matter?" chances are they prolly wont, so this is really nothing different than casual sex imho, but whatever. As long as your capable and ready to deal with the consequences, it really doesnt matter when you start having sex if you dont plan to be abstinent.

[mouse_3k]

i think anyone younger than 16 who had sex is wrong, but thts just me. besides 16 is the age consent for most states so...younger than tht u basically breakin the law but hey, do whatchu gotta do just be prepared for consequences

[lalalaLANUH]

I'm 14 (how many damn posts have started this exact same way???) and I've seen a lot of guys use girls like this. I had a friend who had sex with a guy multiple times and then he broke up with her when he found a girl "hotter" than her and told her he was only using her for sex. In your case, I think it was wrong because you don't think he loves you. But it's too late now. Sex is an emotional thing for girls. I don't have an ideal age in mind. I think that when you decide to lose your virginity you should be comfortable with the person you're doing it with and you should know that they are going to be there to support you emotionally. You should be able to talk to him/her about sex, using protection, STDs, etc. You should also be prepared for any of the consequences. If your partner's going to bail on you if you get pregnant, then it's probably not the right time/person.
Just, continue to be safe if you're going to keep at it.
P.S. If you're having doubts and asking US if it's wrong, then you probably aren't ready for sex. But oh well, as I said before, it's too late now.

[Mr. Slowjamz]

i say having sex should be when your really mature . i noticed by having sex with really understanding the consequences can be fatal ...but hey we live in a sex- crazed society that promotes ...well sex. just look at all our commercials.

[smileyworld010]

condoms can break and not prevent stds.
and you're 14, imagine getting pregnant!!
i think it's definitely wrong. especially if you're not mutually in love. you're too young, why risk throwing away your life?

[coconutter]

You know, age sometimes has nothing to do with it. It's mostly the maturity level. No one who isn't mature enough to have sex shouldn't be having sex. No matter if you're 14, 17, 22, or even 35. You seem mature, I don't see why not.

Sure in some close-minded opinions that is WAY too young. As long as you're responsible, what is age but a number?

[AliceBadeau]

Honestly I wouldn't do it.
I've 17 and I have no intention of having it until I find the right guy who can handle the consequences of having children or what not.
If you're doing it to please him or you're doing this because you want to and because you "love him", those aren't really good reasons, but can you truly ask yourself if you're ready to have a child, if the condom "accidentally" breaks?

It's your life though, you can't change what you've already done :T

[cheri_pi]

If you trust him enough that if you DID have a child with him, you COULD both raise the child together, then yes. You have to trust him and love him enough that if you had to raise a child together for the rest of your lives, you could.

[MizzBrii]

[font=Courier New]Umm I'mm quite young soo think having sex in a few years seems a bit icky (lol) to me but pretect ureself, i would wait until i was def. sure but it your life. so um bii

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[Just_Dream]

Just because he says "I Love You" doesn't mean it's alright to have sex.


I know some people regret having sex at a young age. I mean, I regret doing it at a young age -- I was older than 14 though -- but luckily, I am still dating the guy that that I lost it to. Not many people are that lucky. Like what others says, just be ready for the consequences. What with inflation and all, taking care of a baby is going to be difficult. I mean, you have to be at least 16 years old to work, and the higher paying jobs at least require children to be 18 years and older or have a high school degree. Keep that in mind.

[vampiresugarjunk...]

nope i dont see anything wrong with it
i don't understand why people make a big deal of having sex
okay sure there's the chance of pregnancy and stds

but it sure as hellll worth it

contrary to popular belief, i don't think sex is related to love.

it's only natural for someone to want to have sex.

[babii7845]

im the same age and the same thing wit me 2 were really in love itz ur opinion and ur life u do wat u want to juss b protected!

[mocassinsx29]

love blah blah blah

anyway

as long as you know what you're going to do if you ever get pregnant and there's no STDs involved, i guess so

[ashy_dawn]

Personally i thin it is too young but to each is own i waited till i was 18 but everyone has their own wants needs and desires. We all learn from out own actions

[trulyandnever]

Woahh, its not even legal here till 16.

But like... lol, who the hell listens to that

I reckon if your ready for it... yeah go for it.
I mean, well, yeah you've already done it.
Don't think its wrong if you understand the consequences and stuff though.
If you love him go ahead...
If things dont turn out that well in the end, "we all make mistakes" no?
Personally, I think 14 is way too young. But its all about you, not me, isnt it :P

[mytangerine]

it's your choice what you want to do; noone elses.

[KissMe2408]

Hm, think of it this way. . .4 years ago you were 10. lol


Well, I think that really depends on you.
You can't let anyone else tell you whether it's right or wrong.
Doesn't really matter, you have to make that decision yourself.
What do you believe in?

[Mystic Eyes]

Do what you want. Think about it this way, it means something to you, and obviously others here are having a hard time grasping that for some reason.

You clearly shown that you know the risks and your careful and no, the condom is unikely to break unless he's thrusting long, hard and fast for a very long time. If it is a concern then use 2 condoms.

What it's really about, is your age of mental maturity and you've shown that your responsible. So yes, go right ahead and get humped like a rabit.

[AimeeLynn]

he truly loves me

Well, for me no. For you it's up to you. I think it's wrong since I grew up in a holy family and I'm planning to stay a virgin until marriage.
But don't get me wrong I have thought of doing it but whatever. I would feel guilty about doing it. So yea I'm waiting.
Way too young. But it's up to you. But you might regret it.

[Jinny]

I personally think it's too young. Nobody's going to guarantee that you guys are both going to go to the same college + get married. You might find somebody else when you're older.

I mean, if you know the risks and what might happen, I guess it's fine.

[*stephinika*]

Well you seem to know the risks and are using protection which is great on your parts, but it's really your choice. I do believe it is kind of young, but its your own decision and you just have to prepared to deal with any consequences that come out of it.

[rorhinna]

It's an opinion question.

I'm into abstinence, so I say it's wrong. A lot of change can happen between age fourteen and post-college, especially in your priorities. I'm fifteen and happily taken with my boyfriend who's a year older, but I've chosen not to have sex with him because I can't handle the possible consequences alone. Who knows, maybe he'll be one of the guys who actually do follow through with whatever happens, but I'm not taking that chance.

In high school, admittedly, he's one of my priorities, along with God and grades and perhaps a billion other things. I depend on him for a lot, but when we go to college, what we depend on changes. He's not going to have his dad there for him, and when I go to college I won't have my parents to pay for the possible consequences of premarital sex.

You could get an STD or pregnant or if you two break up, you'll lose your reputation as well.

I don't want to possibly screw over my life before I can support myself.

Just my compressed take on premarital sex in general.

I don't see why you're having sex with this guy if you don't think he loves you and if you don't know what love is.

I agree with what is said above. seriously, 14?!!
I don't know where you are with your relationship with
him or anything, but based on your post, it sounds like
you're unsure. you have to ask yourself these questions,
and if you can live with all that, well, its your life, not
mine:
why would you be unsure if its ok?
why are you unsure if you don't think its wrong?
what will people think of you if they knew (maybe they already
do)?
what kind of an impression will/do you have on
other guys?
what about your parents?

etc...

[Imlearning]

Well, I mean I'm fourteen too, & I would never consider having sex right now.

But if you think you might be in love with him.. i mean do what you want.


I know how it feels when people are like "You're to young to be in love"

But i personally think you cant put a age limit on love.


BUT I kinda do think fourteen is a little .. well alot young for sex.
But not for loving someone.

[fcukxl0ve]

i don`t think its wrong;; do you really love him?

[kimmytree]

Ummmm, yeah.
If you arent willing to face what could result from doing it, then dont do it. I mean, what if you get a disease, or get pregnant? I dont think that's something a fourteen year-old can usually handle. Personally, I think its wise to wait till you're finished with highschool.

[captjacksparrow]

yea i dun think they should if they dun want to...

[poetwritremokid]

I am 14 and just had it for the first time. Its better to really wait. It might turn in to a constant thing. And not to scare you, but think of the positibilities and the consiquences.


PM me if u wanna talk about it. I know how it feels

[elaboratedream]

sex is never wrong if both parties consent, they're well informed of the risks, and they're responsible about it.
I personally don't think you have to truely love each other... as long as you both want to do it, w/e.

[xannurrs]

14 is a horrible age to have sex. Wait until you're older when it means something.

Sex doesn't have to mean something.
I think it's a form of pleasure.

and if the condom breaks then take a pregnancy test
I don't think sex is a 'big deal'


btw. abortion isn't as scarey as it sounds.
i have loads of friends who've gotten abortions

just go enjoy yourself(:

[elaboratedream]

and if the condom breaks then take a pregnancy test

a pregnancy test won't do shit... if the condom breaks, take the morning after pill.

[Jinny]

Sex doesn't have to mean something.
I think it's a form of pleasure.

It might be a form of pleasure, but it won't be a pleasure anymore if you get AIDS.
But then again.. you might not get any diseases. Who knows?

I personally think it's wrong. But that's just my opinion.

[elaboratedream]

It might be a form of pleasure, but it won't be a pleasure anymore if you get AIDS.

If you use a condom and don't have sex with random strangers on the street, your chances of getting AIDS are very low.
Even more low if you have your sexual partners get tested first, and only have sex with them if they're clean

[KyleSchmidsGirl]

I think it is wrong for teenagers ages 13-17 to have sex, cause they are nothing but children themselves. They should wait until they are done with school. Seriously Sex is not a game and isn't to be taken lightly. Seriously get an education first and finish school and make something of yourself. I have had friends that in their teen years ended up pregnant. a majority of teenage girls/guys are stupid and don't know what love is. seriously you end up pregnant you messed up your life for good and won't be able to go to concerts, hangout with friends, go to movies, etc... So sex can wait. I waited til I was 23 and my sister waited til she was married.

[deplorable]

i think it is wrong to have sex at 14.... im for sex after marriage. I totally understand the temptations sometimes... but everyone has the willpower and strength to overcome these temptations. Youre 14: go outside and kick around a soccer ball or something, dont leave time open to fall into it...

[LennonLime]

er...yeah.

sorry, I'm for no sex until marriage.

but, if thats the choice you want to make, go ahead.
you just need to make sure your ready to deal with the possible outcomes.

[KyleSchmidsGirl]

you're young sex can wait! it's not all that.

[Hamnah]

Don't.
All these kids are growing up too fast.
I remember when i was 14 i was still having water fights.
You're never going to have a childhood again.

[xannurrs]

I still don't think it's a big deal.
But I guess it's what views you were
raised learning and what views
you think are right.

some people (like most of cB) take it very seriously
others (like myself) don't take it seriously at all

and I know many people who don't take it seriously.

[pinayprincess]

ahh.. 14? and 15..... just watch out... boys at this age dnt know what they want unless your one of the lucky ones who find a nice charming boy lol.... but really its nothing wrong, just hope your with the right guy!

[ji_cabinx]

i think it's way too early

[ReggieM]

yes it is slut,i wasnt talking to you tho

[x_curse_of_the_c...]

It depends on if your religious or not i am so im probably going to wait because it is a sin you know it would ruin it because i would feel so guilty and dirty. you know?