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[jenjjen]

okay so this guy im in one of his classes and ive kindof liked him since the beginning of the school year. he went out with one of my close friends this year and i still kindof liked him then too. they arent together anymore but i know she still likes him, and i do too... alot. except she doesnt know it. and he's one of my really really good friends like my best guy friend. we like talk about everythin together and he's really nice to me. but i dont know if i should go out with him cause my friend still likes him. i mean i even told him that i used to like him and all and he was okay with it and its never awkward around him. but what should i do? i get jealous when they talk together and stuff though (which isnt very often). and sometimes i cant help but wish they werent even friends at all or anything. it makes me so annoyed. but when they were together i was at my worst; i was still her friend and all and happy for her but part of me was very jealous and i was very unhappy. i feel really bad for thinking this way. i wanna be happy for her but i just cant.

[TheSilenceInDict...]

Ooh, tough situation to be in.
Have you considered talking to your friend about this, or try getting a feel for how she might react towards your feelings for him?

I'm sure you cherish and respect your friendship with her, so I think before you do anything (like try and pursue something further with the guy), you should make things clear between you and her, or at least see where she's coming from if you can't come to telling her just yet.

From there on out you should be able to work your way up a tad easier with this whole ordeal.
Let's just hope that she'll be understanding, civil and most of all mature when handling this new information - and more ideally, supportive.

[Bonobo]

okay so this guy im in one of his classes and ive kindof liked him since the beginning of the school year. he went out with one of my close friends this year and i still kindof liked him then too. they arent together anymore but i know she still likes him, and i do too... alot. except she doesnt know it. and he's one of my really really good friends like my best guy friend. we like talk about everythin together and he's really nice to me. but i dont know if i should go out with him cause my friend still likes him. i mean i even told him that i used to like him and all and he was okay with it and its never awkward around him. but what should i do? i get jealous when they talk together and stuff though (which isnt very often). and sometimes i cant help but wish they werent even friends at all or anything. it makes me so annoyed. but when they were together i was at my worst; i was still her friend and all and happy for her but part of me was very jealous and i was very unhappy. i feel really bad for thinking this way. i wanna be happy for her but i just cant.

Sorry but thats a NO you cant

[Cujiine]

Well you should talk to her about it. I know that if one of my friends got with an ex of mine without talking to me first, I'd get mad. But yeah just talk to her. She'll understand how you feel.

[shaixe]

Oh, the good old days of high school politics. I don't miss them at all.

Anyway, I agree with MasteRxKiD and Cujiine, you need to talk to your friend first. If she has any amount of respect for you, she'll understand. I mean, personally, I don't see what the big deal is if the guy is her ex. She may still like him, but she had him once and let him go. I would assume they broke up for a reason?

[Kontroll]

okay so this guy im in one of his classes and ive kindof liked him since the beginning of the school year. he went out with one of my close friends this year and i still kindof liked him then too. they arent together anymore but i know she still likes him, and i do too... alot. except she doesnt know it. and he's one of my really really good friends like my best guy friend. we like talk about everythin together and he's really nice to me. but i dont know if i should go out with him cause my friend still likes him. i mean i even told him that i used to like him and all and he was okay with it and its never awkward around him. but what should i do? i get jealous when they talk together and stuff though (which isnt very often). and sometimes i cant help but wish they werent even friends at all or anything. it makes me so annoyed. but when they were together i was at my worst; i was still her friend and all and happy for her but part of me was very jealous and i was very unhappy. i feel really bad for thinking this way. i wanna be happy for her but i just cant.

Ugh. It's common sense. Think about it. You're not going to get any helpful advice on a forum, no offense to anyone. Ask you mom or dad. They're alot older than everyone else here, and have more experience at this kind of stuff.

[angelrevelation]

Oh, the good old days of high school politics. I don't miss them at all.

Anyway, I agree with MasteRxKiD and Cujiine, you need to talk to your friend first. If she has any amount of respect for you, she'll understand. I mean, personally, I don't see what the big deal is if the guy is her ex. She may still like him, but she had him once and let him go. I would assume they broke up for a reason?

i agree. after all, if people didn't go out with ones that were liked by someone else, then... practically no one would be dating. does that make sense?

talk with your friend about it. i think it's fine if you go for him if it's been a significant time since they've dated, and as long as you try to keep things as un-awkward as possible between you three.

[*Uronacid*]

okay so this guy im in one of his classes and ive kindof liked him since the beginning of the school year. he went out with one of my close friends this year and i still kindof liked him then too. they arent together anymore but i know she still likes him, and i do too... alot. except she doesnt know it. and he's one of my really really good friends like my best guy friend. we like talk about everythin together and he's really nice to me. but i dont know if i should go out with him cause my friend still likes him. i mean i even told him that i used to like him and all and he was okay with it and its never awkward around him. but what should i do? i get jealous when they talk together and stuff though (which isnt very often). and sometimes i cant help but wish they werent even friends at all or anything. it makes me so annoyed. but when they were together i was at my worst; i was still her friend and all and happy for her but part of me was very jealous and i was very unhappy. i feel really bad for thinking this way. i wanna be happy for her but i just cant.

Why should your feelings about this boy effect your friend? She knew about your feelings before they went out, and they broke up. As far as I'm concerned, it's your time to shine. Get in there and show him what you're made of.

*spanks you into the game*

[Aerjae]

Hmm.. You shouldn't go out with your best guy friend. Things change and suddenly, you aren't best friends but lovers. Things tend to get akward. It's also not fair to your friend. She probably feels jealous when you talk to him.

[ksoyeah]

Awwww. :[ I'm sorry to hear that you were very unhappy about everything, but if you guys are close friends and like the same guy, it might not be a smart idea to make a move. :[ Sorry sweetie.

[*Uronacid*]

Hmm.. You shouldn't go out with your best guy friend. Things change and suddenly, you aren't best friends but lovers. Things tend to get akward. It's also not fair to your friend. She probably feels jealous when you talk to him.

Lovers... isn't that the point, don't you want to become lovers? Also, things are bound to get awkward at some point when you're in a relationship. I can't tell you how how many times it has been awkward in my relationship (Some of the questions she will ask me make me flip out... I love her.. :]).

So it's not fair because her friend is jealous? Alright now, I know it's not fun to be jealous, but is that really her problem? This girl has been patient enough to wait until they broke up before making a move. She was jealous the entire time that her friend was dating the guy. If her friend gets jealous then her friend needs to suck it up the same way she did.

[bat19]

So it's not fair because her friend is jealous? Alright now, I know it's not fun to be jealous, but is that really her problem? This girl has been patient enough to wait until they broke up before making a move. She was jealous the entire time that her friend was dating the guy. If her friend gets jealous then her friend needs to suck it up the same way she did.

I completely disagree with you Josh. I don't think her friend should just "suck it up." She is in a situation she created herself. If she hadn't lied and said she "used" to like him, maybe she would be somewhere instead of worrying about another friend. If she felt so strongly for this guy, she should have told her true feelings. I think that she should stay away from this guy and her friend for about two weeks. The two weeks will give her reflection time. When she sees them again, she will most likely have a different view of them. Bottom line, you're wrong Josh and you're always wrong. God Damnit!! You give the worst advice imaginable. I think she should just let her friend have this guy, she already missed her chance. It is not okay to try something cause that crosses the boundaries of friendship. Can't sleep with parents, siblings, or ex's. Belee' Dat'.

[*Uronacid*]

I completely disagree with you Josh. I don't think her friend should just "suck it up." She is in a situation she created herself. If she hadn't lied and said she "used" to like him, maybe she would be somewhere instead of worrying about another friend. If she felt so strongly for this guy, she should have told her true feelings. I think that she should stay away from this guy and her friend for about two weeks. The two weeks will give her reflection time. When she sees them again, she will most likely have a different view of them. Bottom line, you're wrong Josh and you're always wrong. God Damnit!! You give the worst advice imaginable. I think she should just let her friend have this guy, she already missed her chance. It is not okay to try something cause that crosses the boundaries of friendship. Can't sleep with parents, siblings, or ex's. Belee' Dat'.

Jeremy, she doesn't f**king have the guy... this guy is totally f**king free, they f**king broke out of the f**king relationship, and they have stopped f**king you stupid f**king c**t. So, with all due respect my friend, I'm going to steal your girlfriend now and have some personal "f**k you" time just to make you jealous. You little fag.

a.k.a.

Wow, Jeremy... what do you mean?

[bat19]

Jeremy, she doesn't f**king have the guy... this guy is totally f**king free, they f**king broke out of the f**king relationship, and they have stopped f**king you stupid f**king c**t. So, with all due respect my friend, I'm going to steal your girlfriend now and have some personal "f**k you" time just to make you jealous. You little fag.

a.k.a.

Wow, Jeremy... what do you mean?

Well Josh, what I mean is that this chick has no idea what she is talking about and Im sick of you always defending these pathetic people. Is that what they teach you at ITT Tech? Cause at Stanford, you're taught only the strongest will survive. And right now this little girl does not seem so strong complaining over her two best friend's hooking up, then breaking up, then worrying about one or the other's post relations feelings. I'm sick of it man. I disagree with you and I think they should definitely hook up, regardless of what some insignificant has to say about possible jealousy.

[*Uronacid*]

Well Josh, what I mean is that this chick has no idea what she is talking about and Im sick of you always defending these pathetic people. Is that what they teach you at ITT Tech? Cause at Stanford, you're taught only the strongest will survive. And right now this little girl does not seem so strong complaining over her two best friend's hooking up, then breaking up, then worrying about one or the other's post relations feelings. I'm sick of it man. I disagree with you and I think they should definitely hook up, regardless of what some insignificant has to say about possible jealousy.

Oh my... I want to f**king kill you. Don't you get it! If she goes out with this guy she's going to make that other girl jealous! Z-O-M-G, her parents are going to get all upset because they are going to have to explain to her "the cause and effects of jealousy", and they don't want to do that! Then she might end up having sex because she will become so depressed over this jealous attitude that she will become a whore trying to find self-respect in sexual pleasure. It doesn't sound like she has been through sexual education. So, I'm sure that she will forget to wear a condom, and wind up have white and black twins with two separate fathers because she got into an inter racial threesome. God, Maury is going ot have his f**king hands full. I can see it now, "That babies not mine!! ITS BLACK!!! NO WHITE!! f**kin WHORE!!!"

[bat19]

Oh my... I want to f**king kill you. Don't you get it! If she goes out with this guy she's going to make that other girl jealous! Z-O-M-G, her parents are going to get all upset because they are going to have to explain to her "the cause and effects of jealousy", and they don't want to do that! Then she might end up having sex because she will become so depressed over this jealous attitude that she will become a whore trying to find self-respect in sexual pleasure. It doesn't sound like she has been through sexual education. So, I'm sure that she will forget to wear a condom, and wind up have white and black twins with two separate fathers because she got into an inter racial threesome. God, Maury is going ot have his f**king hands full. I can see it now, "That babies not mine!! ITS BLACK!!! NO WHITE!! f**kin WHORE!!!"

Well then it's the parents own fault for not teaching their kids at a young age. look at me, I let my son Nathaniel watch homemade pornos that me and crystal from Easy Strip made after I took her coked up ass home. All his questions have been answered. Wear a condom or your piss stings in the morning. If she turns into a whore, it is all the parents fault. I can see her being the first girl at the house parties and the last one to leave after a 9 guy suck-a-thon. Surely you know the dangers of exposing a sexually uneducated girl into the horny masses. She wont last a day. Curiosity killed the cat, my wife, and Crystal from the Easy Strip. And curiosity will kill this girl if she doesnt just follow her instincts and stay away from this guy. She could really damage her and her friends relationship.

[*Uronacid*]

Well then it's the parents own fault for not teaching their kids at a young age. look at me, I let my son Nathaniel watch homemade pornos that me and crystal from Easy Strip made after I took her coked up ass home. All his questions have been answered. Wear a condom or your piss stings in the morning. If she turns into a whore, it is all the parents fault. I can see her being the first girl at the house parties and the last one to leave after a 9 guy suck-a-thon. Surely you know the dangers of exposing a sexually uneducated girl into the horny masses. She wont last a day. Curiosity killed the cat, my wife, and Crystal from the Easy Strip. And curiosity will kill this girl if she doesnt just follow her instincts and stay away from this guy. She could really damage her and her friends relationship.

Damage! If she doesn't dive in it could KILL. This could damage her self-esteem. If her self esteem becomes low enough she could become so depressed that she kills herself in her subconsciousness. Some times people don't even know that they are killing themselves because they don't even know that they are doing it, and by the time they realize it... well, they're already dead. I guess the question you should really ask yourself is "Do I really want to give someone advice that will lead them to kill themselves in there own subconscious?" Is that murder? If it is, I'm so going to turn you in.

Alright on top of her Killing herself, lets call her A, and the other girl X, and the guy I like 9, and the guy she likes "seven". Alright well if 9 likes "seven" and "seven" doesn't like X then A will obviously go for "seven" out of jealous and try to compete with H (H is her father). And it will totally f**k everything up... I think that she just needs to Follow her heart.

[bat19]

Alright on top of her Killing herself, lets call her A, and the other girl X, and the guy I like 9, and the guy she likes "seven". Alright well if 9 likes "seven" and "seven" doesn't like X then A will obviously go for "seven" out of jealous and try to compete with H (H is her father). And it will totally f**k everything up... I think that she just needs to Follow her heart.

If she just follows her own heart then she will get lost in the ventricles. The human body is a tough mistress and a hard path to follow. The epidermis is the outermost layer of skin, while the dermis(the second layer) contains hair follicles and selaceous oils. Now, onto the medulla. The medulla is located in the left side of the right part of your throat and can be extracted using a simple series of bells and whistles tuned to the correct wavelength. The ears pick up these sounds and broadcast them throughout the body. But it's a long journey and it is sometimes weeks before the full effect takes hold. The fingernails, sometimes referred to as the Vitamin K deposits on the finger shells, are the keystone to this entire argument. In the heat of a humanized battle, the nails can be used as both sword and shield, protector and defender of the soul. And what is the soul but a bullet without a shell casing. Is it not thought to be murder when we club the baby seals? Why did I just think of that? Is my brain somehow connected to those adorable creatures that are so fun to wear? The human body s a harsh mistress. The eyes, the nose, the calcium deposits, the cysts that grow as the stepchild grows in the basement out of site from the "real" family. But none of it would be possible without the digestive tract that soaks up all the proteins and is durable enough to sustain the heartache of indecision. So I think she should stay away from this boy or else her eyes will explode(metaphorically).

[*Uronacid*]

If she just follows her own heart then she will get lost in the ventricles. The human body is a tough mistress and a hard path to follow. The epidermis is the outermost layer of skin, while the dermis(the second layer) contains hair follicles and selaceous oils. Now, onto the medulla. The medulla is located in the left side of the right part of your throat and can be extracted using a simple series of bells and whistles tuned to the correct sounds. The ears pick up these sounds and broadcast them throughout the body. But it's a long journey and it is sometimes weeks before the full effect takes hold. The fingernails, sometimes referred to as the Vitamin K deposits on the finger shells, are the keystone to this entire argument. In the heat of a humanized battle, the nails can be used as both sword and shield, protector and defender of the soul. And what is the soul but a bullet without a shell casing. Is it not thought to be murder when we club the baby seals? Why did I just think of that? Is my brain somehow connected to those adorable creatures that are so fun to wear? The human body s a harsh mistress. The eyes, the nose, the calcium deposits, the cysts that grow as the stepchild grows in the basement out of site from the "real" family. But none of it would be possible without the digestive tract that soaks up all the proteins and is durable enough to sustain the heartache of indecision. So I think she should stay away from this boy or else her eyes will explode(metaphorically.

P.S. I'm takin over Biotch!

I totally disagree, the Bible says (in Joshua 87:3):

Joshua 87:3 "The heart of the soul is the anal sphincter, touch it and does thou wish to be enlightened in thy holiness."

You see Jeremy this is exactly what I'm talking about! If she gets jealous she might get a hemorrhoid, and they will cause her dermis to crack mixing poopy matter with her soul. Don't you see, only one being can save the soul from poopy matter, and that being is God. You see, because that's all jealousy is.... poopy-doopy juice (Poopy-Doopy Juice: is made by mixing the soul with blood and poopy matter and jealous and dermis.)

God didn't want Eve to take the apple, no he didn't. In the same way He doesn't want this stupid whore to get depressed and kill herself. Now, I completely think that she should get in there, give it her "A" game, and if she can win the coin toss she might have a chance at a good running game. Other than that, I don't think she's going to have a good run.

Back to you Jeremy.

[bat19]

I totally disagree, the Bible says (in Joshua 87:3):

Joshua 87:3 "The heart of the soul is the anal sphincter, touch it and does thou wish to be enlightened in thy holiness."

You see Jeremy this is exactly what I'm talking about! If she gets jealous she might get a hemorrhoid, and they will cause her dermis to crack mixing poopy matter with her soul. Don't you see, only one being can save the soul from poopy matter, and that being is God. You see, because that's all jealousy is.... poopy-doopy juice (Poopy-Doopy Juice: is made by mixing the soul with blood and poopy matter and jealous and dermis.)

God didn't want Eve to take the apple, no he didn't. In the same way He doesn't want this stupid whore to get depressed and kill herself. Now, I completely think that she should get in there, give it her "A" game, and if she can win the coin toss she might have a chance at a good running game. Other than that, I don't think she's going to have a good run.

Back to you Jeremy.

So what, you expect her to just go to the show, play some fun games Win a f**kin stuffed bear off the man with the water gun balloon races??? How will this help her troubles? Sure, it gives her something to think about other than a possible hemmorhoid, but in the long run it doesnt really help her. What she needs to do is bring her friend(the guy) and feed him a barrage of fried dough treats, nature's most effective natural aphrodesiac. Then she needs to take him to the carousel so that his dough filled sloppy man tits will wrap around them both and bring them into a new level of closeness they hadnt yet achieved. After that, they can go to her house, where she can dive into his girth like an olympic gymnast-trist. After 40 minutes of searching, they can finally start the ritual of love making and once they reach that final moment of ectasy, she can release her "poopy-doopy juice" as you put it. Bottom line, she needs to get over this guy and move on. Jake is single, lets hook this chubby chaser up with our friend Jake.

[*Uronacid*]

So what, you expect her to just go to the show, play some fun games Win a f**kin stuffed bear off the man with the water gun balloon races??? How will this help her troubles? Sure, it gives her something to think about other than a possible hemmorhoid, but in the long run it doesnt really help her. What she needs to do is bring her friend(the guy) and feed him a barrage of fried dough treats, nature's most effective natural aphrodesiac. Then she needs to take him to the carousel so that his dough filled sloppy man tits will wrap around them both and bring them into a new level of closeness they hadnt yet achieved. After that, they can go to her house, where she can dive into his girth like an olympic gymnast-trist. After 40 minutes of searching, they can finally start the ritual of love making and once they reach that final moment of ectasy, she can release her "poopy-doopy juice" as you put it. Bottom line, she needs to get over this guy and move on. Jake is single, lets hook this chubby chaser up with our friend Jake.

Yeah seriously, I completely agree with this statement. She should probably get some extra grease on those fried dough treats so she can lube him up with it in front of her bitc... best friend. That way she gets extra super jealous before watching her ex 3wrap his greasey, slopping, dough filled, tits all over her friend. Good idea, I think it would great if she whipped one of his dough-tits around and smacked her jealous friend in the face with one, and then let her giant man-tit analy-titty-f**k her while letting loose on a plethora of extra drippy poopy-doopy juice right in front of her parents just to show them how much she learned while in sex-ed. I think that they would be so proud of their daughter they would shit piss for a week.

Wow, that is f**king disgusting, I think you had better just stick to this:

Why should your feelings about this boy effect your friend? She knew about your feelings before they went out, and they broke up. As far as I'm concerned, it's your time to shine. Get in there and show him what you're made of.

*spanks you into the game*

[bat19]

Why should your feelings about this boy effect your friend? She knew about your feelings before they went out, and they broke up. As far as I'm concerned, it's your time to shine. Get in there and show him what you're made of.

*spanks you into the game*

Exactly. Just try not to act too needy or be all overhim. Guys hate that. And don't give it away too easily either. Guy's aren't interested in girl's who give up sex too quickly. Sure, they'll stay with them for the sex, but there would be no substance to the relationship. And as soon as he meets someone better, he'll dump and hump without thinking twice. We guys are all ass holes.