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worried, friend |
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![]() 3,565, you n00bs ain't got nothin' on me. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 3,761 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,565 ![]() |
This morning, my friend Danny was all happy and bubbly. We went through math class pretty fine. We went through tech fine too. Then, in the middle of Spanish, he just broke down and stopped talking. I don't know what's wrong, but I think that this is the story that my friend Lavy told me...he said that Danny told him this.
He went out with a girl, Patricia, once. He dumped her, I forgot why. Then, now that Patricia is dating Danny's friend Jeffrey, he's been sad for the past 2 weeks, but hasn't been showing it. I don't get it...I'm not supposed to know. How am I going to make Danny feel better without telling him that I know? Because Lavy wasn't supposed to tell me. I feel like the peacemaker alot. ![]() |
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![]() kristin ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 ![]() |
all you can do, it avoid fights, be his friend, hangout with him so he know he has firends. i don't think there is really any other ways =[
p.s...i love your avatar, i voted for you =] |
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![]() Miss Alice ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,257 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,454 ![]() |
WOW, tat jeffery kid sounds lyke a jerk!!!
just be by his side, try to make him feel better. You dont have to give advice on what to do. Thats not ALLLL that friends do. Cheer him up, let him spill his feelings and comfort him. ![]() |
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![]() Dark Lord of McCandless ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,226 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,761 ![]() |
I love being the peacemaker. If you're the peacemaker, you can exert the most influence on all parties and quickly make yourself the most powerful person in that triangle! There is no love or hate, only power!
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![]() Prez of Student Council 04/05 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 ![]() |
why don't you try to get it out of him on why he is sad? so that he's the one that told you so you can make himm feel vbetter about it... like i've noticed how you've been so down lately, i'm your freind and i care...
or you could just do happy things with him so he would forget about it... |
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![]() =P ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 207 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,290 ![]() |
you could try to show your friend that there are other things that are more important. take your friend out and do something that the both of you enjoy.
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![]() Kermit the frog = <3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 ![]() |
You should definately talk to him abt this. Tell him he doesn't need her. I mean, thinking abt the past could just easily ruin the future.
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![]() i'm susan ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 13,875 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,029 ![]() |
well if u dont want to let ur friend know, just stay quiet...but if ur willing to tell him cus u dont want to hide secrets cus in the end...he will get mad of course...heh so if ur brave enuf, go and tell him that lavy told u everything..
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![]() unify and defeat... divide and crumble ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 ![]() |
sounds like danny still likes the girl,. and jeffrey is a jerk...i guess all you can do is be a friend, and try to show him that you're open for him to talk to...... did u try asking him what was wrong?
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![]() doot doot doot ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 ![]() |
u can try to make him tell u about it lol and make jokes that will make him laugh.. throw in a hint or two about some hott girls in ur class lol
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