you think it is all good., love help? |
 Feb 18 2007, 12:33 PM
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so basiclly. i liked this one guy. for a while, and i thought he liked me also. we hang out alot, and he always invited me places and crap like that. so we r at the park. just me and him, and we were talkin and stuff, then i asked him if he liked me. and he said "yea i do, i just dont want things to change"...
gosh i was so freakin sad, more because i was so close, he actually liked me. so what should i do, do i still have a chance. p.s. i am a guy. |
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Feb 18 2007, 12:46 PM
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Just be a really good friend. Don't throw a tizzy because he's not willing to take it to the next level. Maybe he'll come to feel much stronger about it and be willing to risk it. I understand why he doesn't want things to change. I got with a friend of mine and when we broke up everything got all awkward between us.
Well don't give up ok? He said he liked you so he might choose to take it to the next level. |
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Feb 18 2007, 12:51 PM
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o. i am not mad at him or anything. i am just sad, but i am still gonna continue to be his friend.
i think the reason i am so sad is cause it is really my first time liking someone as much as i did with him. |
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Feb 21 2007, 03:38 PM
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 Oh My Goblet of Fire! Group: Member Posts: 222 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 504,421 |
QUOTE(Cujiine @ Feb 18 2007, 1:46 PM)  Just be a really good friend. Don't throw a tizzy because he's not willing to take it to the next level. Maybe he'll come to feel much stronger about it and be willing to risk it. I understand why he doesn't want things to change. I got with a friend of mine and when we broke up everything got all awkward between us. Well don't give up ok? He said he liked you so he might choose to take it to the next level. I agree! And who knows, maybe if you let your friendship grow more both of you will be ready to take things to the next level. |
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Feb 21 2007, 05:24 PM
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Yeah, it's disappointing, but you have to deal with it. You don't have control over him. You don't have control over the situation. You shouldn't worry about a situation you have no control over. A relationship is a mutual decision. It's not one sided.
Advice: Just have fun and be his friend. He knows you like him. If he wants to be in a relationship he'll say something. |
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Feb 21 2007, 05:54 PM
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This is understandable. I mean, do you really think that you will be with this guy for the rest of your life? He just dosen't want to f**k up the good friendship that he has with you right now. Don't worry maybe he will change his mind about this hole big shhhhhhhhado?
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Feb 21 2007, 10:11 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
Yes, you have a chance. If you love him truly, you will let him wait until he's ready for a relationship.
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