Boyfriend ABUSE! Options

[AriiJanaa]

ok..i have this friend and she has been together with her boyfriend for about a year now, but he would abuse her. I keep telling her to break up him because all he does is hit her when things dont go his way and all she would say,
"..he just does that because he loves me, and he dont want to let me go.."
Like whatttt..who would harm someone they love. She doesnt get it and i dont want to be the one to get in the middle of thier relationship or w.e. but I'm worried about her safety.

I think i sould tell someone who could get them help but i dont want our friendship to get ruined because of it or her stupidd boyfriend!!

[xostolenkissezox]

i was in the same position as your friend...i was in a relationship and he would hit me all the time...and over stupid things too that weren't my fault or that i couldn't help...i never told anyone though and kept making excuses for all the bruises and blackeyes i would come home with...but i think you should def. tell someone...she may think it's because he loves her but it's not at all and it's not a healthy position to be in

[radhikaeatsraman]

Tell an adult or someone else you trust immediately. This is extremely serious, and it may require even telling her parents depending on how well they treat her.

It doesn't matter how angry she may be at you at first, but if she gets out of this safely, she'll thank you.

[AriiJanaa]

yea i knoww its really bad and im sorry for what had happened to you
but thank you for the advice

[*Uronacid*]

ok..i have this friend and she has been together with her boyfriend for about a year now, but he would abuse her. I keep telling her to break up him because all he does is hit her when things dont go his way and all she would say,
"..he just does that because he loves me, and he dont want to let me go.."
Like whatttt..who would harm someone they love. She doesnt get it and i dont want to be the one to get in the middle of thier relationship or w.e. but I'm worried about her safety.

I think i sould tell someone who could get them help but i dont want our friendship to get ruined because of it or her stupidd boyfriend!!

f**k it, tell her parents... if your friendship is that important to you then you should tell her parents. Even though you may loose a friend for a little while, or feel some grief for a few weeks. It will still be worth it in the end because she will be safe.

[*mishyerr*]

My ex abused me. Verbally and physically. Whatever; it sucks. There's basically not much you can do about it. She needs to leave him on her own free will and strength. And if she's too f**king stupid to do so, then she's an idiot. She'll find out someday.