Treading the ropes for help Options

[bigjule]

never mind problem solved

[multifaceted]

Sex is not the most important thing in a relationship.

It is your choice to do her. She did not force you to do that. She also has the choice to do you, which for her, after the 2 attempts, she feels that she is not ready for.

Two months for a girl is not that long. You can't push her into doing something she doesn't want, or she'll dump you. Right now, even though you might not admit it, it clearly states that you just want to have sex and is frustrated that your gf won't do it. Your main focus here is having sex. If you could, you would get any girl and have sex with her. If you really care, you will calm your willy down and wait until she is ready.

For a girl, these things are not small. In fact, they are huge. The moments that these things happen lasts in a girl's mind forever. It might take here even a year to get over it. So yes they are a big deal and as a guy you just have to attempt to understand and deal with it (like PMS).

[akjsd]

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