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 Feb 8 2007, 12:12 AM
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Im in a situation here. I haven't realized it until my gf got really mad at me. She said I was selfish, that I always think about myself. That i do not consider her feelings, what she wants, or what she's thinking. That we would do things my way instead of hers. I don't know what to do, I just feel like shooting myself for being so stupid. She means everything to me and I don't want to lose her.
Can someone offer me some advice? |
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Feb 8 2007, 12:15 AM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
Stop always thinking about yourself and talking about yourself? Listen to her more? Basically, do the opposite of what she tells you that you are doing right now.
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Feb 8 2007, 12:28 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 501,651 |
she keeps ignoring me..
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Feb 8 2007, 12:35 AM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
If she's ignoring you, then its not all your fault.
Maybe it is time to get a new gf? Girls sometimes really only think of themselves and not think of their bfs and then accuse their bfs for not considering their feelings. So maybe you are not doing anything wrong. She's just being a girl. |
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Feb 8 2007, 12:44 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 501,651 |
She means everything to me and i believe what she says is right. Im not really good at this considering she is my first. I dont know what to do.
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| *x0htheMYSTERY* |
Feb 8 2007, 10:03 PM
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do something REALLY extrodinary!!
like iuno, at school.. like on the annoucements.. ask if yu could say something.. and then say " IM SORRY, I LOVE YOU ALOT. YOURE THE MOST IMPORTANT THING TO ME " or something ^^ or like.. tell her friends to listen to like a certain station and then yu call the station and ask for a shoutout and a song request of your song.. [: |
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Feb 8 2007, 10:41 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
You try your best and if she still doesn't like it, then it is best to leave her.
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Feb 8 2007, 10:51 PM
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I think you should just talk to her. If she doesn't listen, I guess you're going to have to show her how much she means to you. Do more of the things she wants to do, show her that you do care.
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Feb 9 2007, 03:05 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 8 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 501,651 |
thx for the advice everyone.
i talked to her for awhile and she gave me another chance |
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Feb 9 2007, 04:17 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
I suggest this topic be close because the problem has already been solved.
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