lots of friends probs..., and I'm stuck in the middle, as usual... Options

[asiangetokewl]

ack, I've read so many postings that talk about their probs with friends, so I've decided to make my own posting about my friends and here it goes...

1st problem

So my first problem is between my friends Mike and Joyce. Mike is mad at Joyce because she didn't pay him money that she said she would for Prom. Joyce is mad at Mike because he kept bugging her for the money when she said she would eventually pay him (which was true) It evolved into a dispute between Mike and Joyce's boyfriend. They had a big quarrel a week before Prom and they stopped talking to one another since then (about 4 weeks ago). Whenever there is a group thing that has those two and me in a group event, I'm always the one they go to; they say like "Chris tell mike this" or "Chris, tell Joyce this" and so on and so forth. It bugs the hell out of me... What should I do to solve this problem?

2nd problem

So my second problem is between my friends Coral and David. David and Coral used to be bf and gf. Coral broke it off with him because she felt that their relationship wasn't going anywhere and David kept trying to convince her that they shouldn't break up. but.. yea. they did and 3 weeks later Coral hooked up with another guy named Robert. David got pissed at Robert for taking coral and pissed at coral for hooking up with another guy because one of the things that she had promised him is that she wouldn't get into another relationship until college. So yea... it has been about 3 months now, and they're still not talking to each other. COral has tried so many times to talk with david but he still resists talking to her. She tells me her problems of david on how he's been acting so mean to her and David tells me his problems of how Coral shouldn't have done things and stuff. They also tell me stuff to say to the other person, which pisses me off because I really don't like when people talk to one another through somebody else... I want them to be friends again but everything I've tried like forcing them to talk one another and make amends, doesn't work.... What should I do to solve this problem?

3rd problem

My last problem is between my friends Andy and Yuan. Yuan has began to be pissy at almost all his friends, including me. He's usually an ass at times, and sometimes he's a hella cool friend to be around. Well this one time when all our friends went out to have fun, Andy couldn't handle Yuan's pissy-ness. So Yuan, being himself, got yelled at and sworn at from andy because Yuan was being really rude and mean. He was especially mean to andy by saying stuff like Andy was a loser and he didn't deserve all the friends that he had. of course he took that into offense and now they haven't talked since then (about a month ago). They shit behind one another's back to me Like "andy is such as a-hole this" or "yuan's being a bastard because he does this..." dahhh I hate when people say shit behind one another's back; it's so wrong... dahhh I'm going crazy with their dumb bickering!!! dahhh! What should I do to solve this problem?

I don't want to just abandon everything and say "I shouldn't involve myself" but I really do want to involve myself and solve the problem. I like being helpful. I hate my friends not talking to one another. dahh~ what should I do to solve these problems???

If you read all that... thanks!
If you leave a comment... thanks even more!

[asdf]

try not to be so involved.. i don't know. das what I would do personally. it mite get ugly and dey mite accuse u of taking sides.. and tell them.. you don't want to be involved =/ and hope it don't affect anythingg.

[angel-roh]

W0W I FEEL S0RRY F0R U!! AWW YEAH I KN0W H0W U FEEL WEN UR FRIENDS ARE G0ING THR0UGH TH0SE PR0BLEMS. HMM SEEMS LIKE THE FIRST 0NE IS MIKE AND J0YCE D0NT WANT T0 TALK T0 EACH 0THER... U KN0W WAT U CAN D0... U CAN CALL UR FRIEND J0YCE AND MIKE 0VER T0 UR H0USE AND MAYBE PLAY S0ME FEW GAMES...AND THEN TALK B0T IT... SAY STUFF LIKE "S0 MIKE TELL ME WAT 0NE THING THAT J0YCE DID F0R U?" AND T0 J0YCE "S0 J0YCE WAT WAS 0NE THING THAT MIKE DID A NICE THING F0R U?" ASK TH0SE QUESTI0NS S0 THEY CAN FEEL S0RRY 0R BAD F0R EACH 0THER F0R BEING STUPID T0 EACH 0THER.
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AND F0R C0RAL AND DAVID...W0W IT WAS A BAD THING 0F WAT C0RAL HAVE D0NE T0 HER EX, DAVID... SHE PR0MISED THAT SHE W0NT DATE ANY0NE TIL C0LLEGE...HMM..WAT GRADE IS SHE RIGHT N0W? BUT NEWAIS TELL DAVID THIS "THERE ARE S0ME GIRLS WH0 CHANGE THEIR MINDS B0T DATING S0ME0NE." AND ALS0 "THERE ARE GIRLS WH0 D0ESNT LIKE T0 TELL T0 THEIR EX-BF THAT THEY WANT T0 DATE GUYS AGAIN... CUS THEY D0NT WANT T0 HAVE AN0THER RELATI0NSHIP WITH HER EX AGAIN. SHE WANTS T0 M0VE 0N AND TRY T0 LEARN M0RE B0T RELATI0NSHIP" CUS THERE ARE L0TTA GIRLS WH0 ARE D0ING THAT...THEY ARE LEARNING FR0M DIFFERENT RELATI0NSHIP. AND T0 C0RAL, TELL C0RAL "U SHUD TELL S0RRY T0 DAVID AND D0 S0METHING NICE T0 HIM" I THINK DAVID WILL BE HAPPY IF C0RAL ASK HIM 0UT AGAIN... BUT I D0NT THINK C0RAL WILL BE HAPPY F0R THAT? I D0NT THINK SHE WILL BE C0MF0RTABLE AB0UT THAT, S0 TELL DAVID T0 M0VE 0N... I MEAN THEY MIGHT END UP HAVING AN0THER RELATI0NSHIP T0GETHER WHEN THEY G0 T0 C0LLEGE.
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AND F0R THE LAST 0NE... ERR... UM... U SHUD LEAVE THIS T0 THEM... THAT 0NE L00KS BAD... A BAD FRIENDSHIP. THEY WILL TRY T0 BE FRIENDS AGAIN... JUST LEAVE THAT 0NE T0 THEMSELVES. CUS THAT`Z 0NE PPLS HATE WHEN S0ME0NE TAKE 0VER THE PR0BLEMS...S0 LEAVE THAT 0NE T0 THEM...CUS IF U GET INV0LVE IN IT, THEN UR FRIENDSHIP AND THEIRS WILL BE N0T A G00D THING... U D0NT WANT T0 END UP L0SING THEM AS UR FRIEND, S0 JUST LEAVE THEM.
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HEH I H0PE WATEVER I SAID HELPS U... S0RRY F0R THE MISTAKE GRAMMATICAL~~ >.<

[asiangetokewl]

W0W I FEEL S0RRY F0R U!! AWW YEAH I KN0W H0W U FEEL WEN UR FRIENDS ARE G0ING THR0UGH TH0SE PR0BLEMS. HMM SEEMS LIKE THE FIRST 0NE IS MIKE AND J0YCE D0NT WANT T0 TALK T0 EACH 0THER... U KN0W WAT U CAN D0... U CAN CALL UR FRIEND J0YCE AND MIKE 0VER T0 UR H0USE AND MAYBE PLAY S0ME FEW GAMES...AND THEN TALK B0T IT... SAY STUFF LIKE "S0 MIKE TELL ME WAT 0NE THING THAT J0YCE DID F0R U?" AND T0 J0YCE "S0 J0YCE WAT WAS 0NE THING THAT MIKE DID A NICE THING F0R U?" ASK TH0SE QUESTI0NS S0 THEY CAN FEEL S0RRY 0R BAD F0R EACH 0THER F0R BEING STUPID T0 EACH 0THER.
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AND F0R C0RAL AND DAVID...W0W IT WAS A BAD THING 0F WAT C0RAL HAVE D0NE T0 HER EX, DAVID... SHE PR0MISED THAT SHE W0NT DATE ANY0NE TIL C0LLEGE...HMM..WAT GRADE IS SHE RIGHT N0W? BUT NEWAIS TELL DAVID THIS "THERE ARE S0ME GIRLS WH0 CHANGE THEIR MINDS B0T DATING S0ME0NE." AND ALS0 "THERE ARE GIRLS WH0 D0ESNT LIKE T0 TELL T0 THEIR EX-BF THAT THEY WANT T0 DATE GUYS AGAIN... CUS THEY D0NT WANT T0 HAVE AN0THER RELATI0NSHIP WITH HER EX AGAIN. SHE WANTS T0 M0VE 0N AND TRY T0 LEARN M0RE B0T RELATI0NSHIP" CUS THERE ARE L0TTA GIRLS WH0 ARE D0ING THAT...THEY ARE LEARNING FR0M DIFFERENT RELATI0NSHIP. AND T0 C0RAL, TELL C0RAL "U SHUD TELL S0RRY T0 DAVID AND D0 S0METHING NICE T0 HIM" I THINK DAVID WILL BE HAPPY IF C0RAL ASK HIM 0UT AGAIN... BUT I D0NT THINK C0RAL WILL BE HAPPY F0R THAT? I D0NT THINK SHE WILL BE C0MF0RTABLE AB0UT THAT, S0 TELL DAVID T0 M0VE 0N... I MEAN THEY MIGHT END UP HAVING AN0THER RELATI0NSHIP T0GETHER WHEN THEY G0 T0 C0LLEGE.
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AND F0R THE LAST 0NE... ERR... UM... U SHUD LEAVE THIS T0 THEM... THAT 0NE L00KS BAD... A BAD FRIENDSHIP. THEY WILL TRY T0 BE FRIENDS AGAIN... JUST LEAVE THAT 0NE T0 THEMSELVES. CUS THAT`Z 0NE PPLS HATE WHEN S0ME0NE TAKE 0VER THE PR0BLEMS...S0 LEAVE THAT 0NE T0 THEM...CUS IF U GET INV0LVE IN IT, THEN UR FRIENDSHIP AND THEIRS WILL BE N0T A G00D THING... U D0NT WANT T0 END UP L0SING THEM AS UR FRIEND, S0 JUST LEAVE THEM.
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HEH I H0PE WATEVER I SAID HELPS U... S0RRY F0R THE MISTAKE GRAMMATICAL~~ >.<

yesyes, all of that help me a lot susan(?) thanks a bunch~!

and all these pplz are going to be seniors in High School! (that means me too )