my best friend & i Options

[wishforhelsinki]

go to different schools. she's absolutely irreplaceable. we've been the best of friends for over 9 years now & she's the only person that knows me like she does. but i do still keep things from her..


so back to the fact that we go to different schools. cause of this, we don't have the same friends. although she's met a few of mine & we've all hung out a couple times. everything was going alright until she suddenly had a grudge (proper word to use?) against them. i guess maybe it's because the last time we all chilled it was prety awkward. an exampe of how awkward it was would be, for those who've watched laguna beach, tessa & racquel at the bonfire with those other girls' whose names i forgot in the same room. pretty much. it was just weird. & now every time we talk & i mention them to her, one who's like my best friend away from best friend, she seems to always have something rude to say. i don't know. i've tried to tell her to 'please, stop' but it doesn't get through to her. what do i do? it's driving me insane feeling like i can't keep my friends for the sake of my best friend.


sorry if i didn't exactly make sense.

[OhMyAnniee]

Hm. Maybe you could just hang out with your best friend? Like keep your friends separate. You could always find some guys to go out with along with you and your best friend since guys are less complicated.

I mean, I'd feel bad if we were best friends and I was hanging with your friends and you guys were laughing about something. You know? Like those inside joke moments and you weren't there so you don't know & you feel left you........ yeah. I hope that wasn't too confusing.

[Mikhayl Wilson]

Maybe you could find out what the grudge is about.... It could be anything from jealousy to just being downright protective. Maybe she can see something about your other friends that you cannot. Maybe she just thinks you'll forget about her when you have other friends. You have to take these things into consideration when you talk to her. The best advice is probably to just have a heart felt talk and just tell her everything you feel or question.