this sucks Options

[hmm_dragon]

This sucks i like this one girl.. but i havent really met her.. ive seen her and everything and shes friends with my friends.. so thats how i know her but again dont know her lol... well the only way we can talk is though myspace! and now she just stopped talking to me so this sucks!! i had soo much stuff planed on meeting her but now she wont answer anything so blah sorry just needed to vent!! thanks for reading

[*mishyerr*]

what if she turns out to be horrible? lol, just kidding. i hope she doesn't.

girls are confusing. hope everything turns out good for you! :]

[hmm_dragon]

haha she isnt my friends say shes the nicest girl they met! obiously not haha.. nah ive seen her when she played v-ball! shes really cute but oh well im sure i will figure something out!! i go to her school everyday because we pick up her friends so if i see her im just gonna say hi if i see her lol!!

Any ideas on what to do??

[*mishyerr*]

wait til she's talking to you on myspace again. gather up the courage to talk to her in person. :)

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

just talk to her. most girls like it when guys go up to talk to them so just get the guts and do it!. PLEASE dont get your friends to go talk to her for you that is just wrong. Good luck and relax.

[michellerrific]

you've talked on Myspace, so it wouldn't hurt to say hi or strike up a small conversation every now and then at school. Just keep it calm and cool and soon enough you guys will probably be close!

[Kontroll]

Listen. Seriously. If there is any possible way you can see her in person you have to talk to her. You have to grow some stones. I pass down this knowledge to you, my friend...

I know you said you are interested in meeting her, right? Well, if you do make sure it's because of you. You take initiative and go to her. When you're talking to her, don't get too attached right away. That comes later. Talk, but don't try to find too many common ground issues because that will only make you more of a friend. I know you said she was cute, so you're obviously interested in her more than a friend. So, if you're talking to her, make sure it's not for more than about 20 to 30 minutes. MAKE SURE! Who cares if you don't have to go. Make something up. Be like, 'Oh, I have to get going, got something to do.' Who cares. But be strong.

Then, before you have to go, you ask her with confidence, 'So, when are we gonna hang out?' Don't give her the option of where and when. That's up to you. Don't ask her, 'Oh, do you want to hang out?' WRONG! With confidence and authority.

Trust me it works. I know it sounds all macho bull crap, but it's a method that has been found to work. Or you could remain the shy guy. It's up to you. If you want something go get it.

Also, to comment on her ceasing to confab with you. I hope that you're not asking yourself...'Is she mad at me? Should I send her a message on Myspace? I really think she's mad at me, but I don't know what I did.' Are you saying that to yourself, for the most part? If so, I gotta tell you that it's pretty arrogant of you.

I know it doesn't sound like it, but the fact that you're saying that you can make a girl get angry at you for a reason you don't know is arrogant. She's not mad, don't worry. She's not a bitch, if she is, that's sometimes better. Haha. More fun. Daring. Adventurous. You just gotta put her in her place before you get bitch whipped. But, I hope my advice works. You have to do this, or you'll never get anywhere with her. Maybe on that chance you'll run into her at some wierd place, but wouldn't you rather go do it now than happen by chance to see her and talk to her like a little scared puppy dog? At least you know what to do now. Okay, so use it.

[mznikki]

everything's been said that i can think of ^ so pretty much just talk to her in person, casually- be yourself and get to know her in person rather than just on myspace. so she gets to know you even better. and relax you'll be fine once you start talking to her and she gets more comfortable with you then maybe something more can happen between you two. good luck!

[hmm_dragon]

hehe thanks u guys anyways she answered back LOL well when i see her i will talk to her trust me lol im not gonna mess this one up anymore because i always do the same stuff

[OhMyAnniee]

If this girl was me, I would only not be responding either because I've been on your MySpace too much lately or I'm just being MySpace lazy and not commenting back to anyone.

[hmm_dragon]

what do you guys think?? think i should ask this girl to be my valentines?? thats what my friend thinks i should do but i think it would be weird but its different right?

[multifaceted]

For your knowledge next time, if she doesn't respond, go up to her and slap her in the face until she answers you back.

I think you need to know her better first and then maybe the idea of asking her to be your valentine would be nice. Right now, take the time to know her. And to see if she has a person that she wants to hook up more than you.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

what do you guys think?? think i should ask this girl to be my valentines?? thats what my friend thinks i should do but i think it would be weird but its different right?

well dont rush things just give her some time so she can like you and get to know you more GOOD LUCK!

[*My Cinderella.*]

I think you should get to know her a little better first. Valentine's day could probably be too soon. Cut the myspace talk and get to some real conversing. That's the only way you'll know how she really is for sure.

[hmm_dragon]

oh ive been talkin to her since november but only like once a week! thats why i think my friend said i should ask her!