So, When Girls that are friends become Girlfriends, Is it wrong to crush on a girl because you spend a lot of time with th |
 Jan 30 2007, 02:47 AM
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Ace Spades  Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 496,526  |
Yeah, I'm not sure how this whole forum thing works, im not a tech-savvy kind of guy. But I did have, what I thought was an interesting topic.
So, There's this girl Sammie, and me and her are really close friends, and we spend a lot of time together and stuff ( because i don't drive and she does, mainly) So we're always finding out that we have all this stuff in common, ( but not too much, or that'd be boring) And I dunno, i tried to fight it, but, I really, really like her now. And i don't know what I should do. Advice? |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Jan 30 2007, 03:59 AM
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I'm going to move this to relationships. I'm sure both sexes would want to reply to this.
Moved to Relationships. |
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Jan 30 2007, 06:19 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,101 |
im going through the exact same thing now and the only advice i can give you is to make sure she feels the same way about you.
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Jan 30 2007, 09:32 AM
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 we jerkin' Group: Member Posts: 2,408 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 210,730 |
I did go thru the same thing i think its better if you dont unless shes reallly cute lol.My situation is iin the process. I dont know wheter to like her or just be friends some day, i already told her i liked her...
I suggest you know for sure she feels the same way. |
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Jan 30 2007, 12:56 PM
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 Here for U Group: Member Posts: 50 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 499,144 |
QUOTE(noheadnorman @ Jan 30 2007, 2:47 AM)  Yeah, I'm not sure how this whole forum thing works, im not a tech-savvy kind of guy. But I did have, what I thought was an interesting topic. So, There's this girl Sammie, and me and her are really close friends, and we spend a lot of time together and stuff ( because i don't drive and she does, mainly) So we're always finding out that we have all this stuff in common, ( but not too much, or that'd be boring) And I dunno, i tried to fight it, but, I really, really like her now. And i don't know what I should do. Advice? How long have you known each other? And do you know how she feels about you? Make sure you know before you do anything.... 
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Jan 30 2007, 01:34 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
It's not wrong to crush on a girl that you are good friends with. Usually, relationships happen when good friends want to take it to the next level.
Right now you could look for signs that she does to find out if she does like you back or just straightforward ask, "Will you go out with me?" |
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Jan 30 2007, 02:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 476,635 |
i say give it time before actually telling her....what if you freak her out and then you realize you dont feel that way anymore..
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Jan 30 2007, 08:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
No, it's not wrong to crush on a girl you spend a lot of time with. In fact it's almost bound to happen, especially since you have a lot in common with her.
Try to find out if she likes you before making any moves. Once you do, say something like, "This is a hypothetical question, but do you see us ever going out?" If she says yes, ask her out. If she says no, back off and keep your friendship the way it is. |
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Jan 30 2007, 08:55 PM
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Ace Spades Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 496,526 |
Well, i dunno if she likes me back, It'
s kind of hard to tell, I mean we're both sort of. . .proud, i guess, you'd say. So I can't tell if she's just putting a front or being real with me. . .its weird. |
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Jan 31 2007, 07:11 PM
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 CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
Yeah, really how long do you know each other and how did you meet? Well how does she view you as and most importantly how does she feel? Honestly I went through sort of the same situation and I told her how I felt. Well it didn't go too good and we don't talk anymore. I miss her hugging me tight. Think it through friend.
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| *mishyerr* |
Jan 31 2007, 08:02 PM
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talkkkk
to her |
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Feb 13 2007, 06:38 PM
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Ace Spades Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 496,526 |
about what? I mean, how do you even talk about something like that without risking the friendship? It's not like, " Ok, so I have this friend, and he likes this girl, that's my, i mean, his best friend. . ." That doesn't even work in sitcoms.
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Feb 13 2007, 07:04 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 502,981 |
Just an idea, but it worked for me, by accident. I went to a club with a friend I liked and like a lot of girls when we got hassled by guys, we kissed and did the fake lesbo thing so we didn't look out of place or anything. We got really bombed and it just went further and a table of guys next to us started buying us drinks and teasing us to go further. WOW, it was nice. We only kissed, but no girl would do that with you unless she was interested.
If she doesn't want to do anything then you can say you were just playing around to keep the guys away. J. |
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Feb 13 2007, 07:10 PM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
Wait, so going back to the title of your topic. Do you have a girlfriend already?
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Feb 13 2007, 11:36 PM
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Ace Spades Group: Member Posts: 27 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 496,526 |
hahahahaha
. . . . . no :( lol, happy valentines day, by the way! |
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