confusion, i don't know what should i do about this. |
 Jan 28 2007, 11:33 PM
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i've got to know this guy D, when i was working part-time. at that point of time, i had found him a rather interesting guy and was kinda looking forward to the next time when i will see him. after about one month later, i saw him working again. i got really excited, and i guess i showed it out. his friend kept saying i like him, and kept pushing me towards him whenever i'm near D. i was rather embarrassed at first.
after that day, i went on to Friendster to check him out and soon, added him in Msn. i know it sounds as if i'm a lil desperate or very initiative, however all i want is to be frens. soon, we started to talk on msn, and sms each other everyday. that is when i started to think, have i fallen for him? one of my close friends did a quiz for me, and she said all it was is admiration, and nothing more. yet, i think otherwise. i look forward to his sms-es, i hope to see him again. valentine's day is coming, should i go and ask him out? do i really like him? |
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Jan 29 2007, 12:08 AM
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 Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
well i'd say to find out how he feels about YOU first. Do you like him? Only you can answer that for yourself. But if he doesn't feel the same way about you...well...you'll feel pretty embarrassed. Take it slow an get to know him first.
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Jan 29 2007, 12:24 AM
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how do i know whether he likes me or not? i'm not going to tell him i like him, because i once promised myself i wun do that after some bad incidents had happened. so how do i know if he likes me?
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Jan 29 2007, 01:22 AM
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Being happy...is all that matters Group: Member Posts: 765 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 102,284 |
well does he act differently around you? Does he pay a lot of attention to you? stuff like that.
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Jan 29 2007, 04:06 AM
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i thought once if i like him, i will start to notice those little things he will do for me, and even he don't mean it that way, i might think he does? isn't it so.. i don't know. i don't dare to think too much.
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Jan 29 2007, 10:12 AM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
Honey, quizzes are not the truth. They are there for people to do to pass time. They don't mean anything.
I suggest you just go for it if you have the courage. Technically if you look forward to his messages, it is just a crush (I should know). Or you just have no one else to talk too beside him. |
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Jan 29 2007, 11:39 AM
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You definitely don't know him. So, you don't like "him" yet. It is just admiration. You like what you know about him, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't get to know him better. Don't let your friend discourage you. You like what you see so go for it, but don't have any expectations (that way you don't get disappointed if nothing happens). Just have fun, and get to know him!
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Jan 29 2007, 02:45 PM
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 Here for U Group: Member Posts: 50 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 499,144 |
I think u've caught a case of infatuation.....Try to spend more time with him (as friends) and u'll really see how u really feel. I've had this happen before and the more I got to know the person, the clearer things got and we ended up just friends.
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