Is life scary as a girl? |
 Jan 26 2007, 09:46 AM
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I being a dude I wouldn't know but ummm being a girl seem so scary. Guys always looking at you, stalkers, PMS, Errr periods, sickness, cramps, other girls talk smack about you, Horny hungry dudes, Other female body problems, women must wash everyday or the smelly fish monster comes hehe, not strong as us, society expects so much from you. Wow just wow.
 Perhaps this is why most women are insane me thinks. Do you females wish you were men? Your life seems like pure hell.
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Jan 26 2007, 11:33 AM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
i am glad to be a girl.
You forgot about giving birth. That's something men definately cannot do. If I thought my life was pure hell, I could always get a full sex change. |
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Jan 26 2007, 12:13 PM
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 i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
I'd much rather be a girl. We are much sexier, curves look GOOD on us, rather than man boobs on you.
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Jan 26 2007, 12:48 PM
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QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Jan 26 2007, 12:13 PM)  I'd much rather be a girl. We are much sexier, curves look GOOD on us, rather than man boobs on you. The male body is a work of art if trained properly.    QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Jan 26 2007, 11:33 AM) i am glad to be a girl. You forgot about giving birth. That's something men definately cannot do. If I thought my life was pure hell, I could always get a full sex change. NAUSEA and sickness during pregnancy. No thank you. |
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Jan 26 2007, 02:15 PM
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i've never wanted anything rationale. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,449 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 19,045 |
Well I don't think I'm alone when I say thats not attractive to me. =X
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Jan 26 2007, 02:17 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
That guy is probably on steroids cause his muscles are way to big.
I agree. That is definately not sexy. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Jan 26 2007, 02:20 PM
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I wanna be a girl... :[
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Jan 26 2007, 03:14 PM
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QUOTE(xMyStIcShAd0wSx @ Jan 26 2007, 2:17 PM) That guy is probably on steroids cause his muscles are way to big. I agree. That is definately not sexy. Lol you do know who he is right?  Anywayz when ya get older you'll want the bigger men. QUOTE(Uronacid @ Jan 26 2007, 2:20 PM) I wanna be a girl... :[ You can always go shemale. They look pretty just like females yet still have the powerful tools of males. |
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Jan 26 2007, 03:22 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 7,149 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,509 |
LOL^. SHEMALE. Uhm I like being a girl, but being a guy with less problems would be suffice.
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Jan 26 2007, 03:24 PM
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QUOTE(Jeng @ Jan 26 2007, 3:22 PM) LOL^. SHEMALE. Uhm I like being a girl, but being a guy with less problems would be suffice. So would you say it's hard being a girl or more so annoying at times? |
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Jan 26 2007, 05:16 PM
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QUOTE(Rachel is love @ Jan 26 2007, 5:13 PM) I'd much rather be a girl. We are much sexier, curves look GOOD on us, rather than man boobs on you. i agree. besides being a girl isnt that bad. |
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| *salcha4u* |
Jan 26 2007, 06:20 PM
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I want to try being a guy for a day.
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Jan 26 2007, 06:25 PM
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 *hugs and kisses* Group: Member Posts: 809 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 493,443 |
^ lol, that would actually be pretty interseting...
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Jan 26 2007, 06:52 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 7,149 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,509 |
Being a girl is annoying at times.
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| *WHIMSICAL 0NE* |
Jan 26 2007, 06:59 PM
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I think it's just the simple fact that men do not relate to women in certian ways and women do not relate to men in certian ways. There's always a chance to have understanding, but I must admit I know lots of guys who don't understand women's hormone changes and such (PMS). I deffinately wouldn't want to be a guy. I'm glad I'm a girl...
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Jan 26 2007, 07:24 PM
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 Home is where your rump rests! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,235 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969 |
QUOTE(Anubis_Birth @ Jan 26 2007, 12:14 PM) You can always go shemale. They look pretty just like females yet still have the powerful tools of males. OMG. When I read that I was like "Whoa, whats sheh-mah-lay?" It took me like 30 seconds that that's not how you pronounce it.  It's tough both ways, but I'm glad that God made me a girl. |
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| *.fire* |
Jan 26 2007, 07:31 PM
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Youre an ass.
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Jan 26 2007, 09:35 PM
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QUOTE(.fire @ Jan 26 2007, 7:31 PM) Youre an ass. Why am I an ass?  The female body just seems based on suffering if you think about it. Science needs to fix this.BTW anybody else like this face lol
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Jan 26 2007, 09:56 PM
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 define our lives for us. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 11,656 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,293 |
I'd rather be a guy than a girl to be honest.. but I guess being a girl isn't all that bad. Everything you listed there sucks but it kind of sinks into your life like an everyday thing and you kind of forget it sucks.
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Jan 26 2007, 09:59 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
haha... that's cute
It's not so bad, really. For me, there is no trash talking from other people (usually) if you treat everybody nicely. periods and all that are tolerable. If I don't wear overly revealing clothes guys usually don't stare at me. I guess society expects more from females, but I think it's kinda good that we take such pride in that. the only scary things are childbirth, and walking alone at night or in the city or somewhere. |
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Jan 27 2007, 11:42 AM
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It would be cool if women were men V2.0. A girl without all that crazy stuff would rock.
. We need a new breed of women hehe .
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Jan 27 2007, 11:45 AM
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I wouldn't say life is scary as a girl, but it's definitely more difficult.
I would like to see what it was like to be a guy for a bit...but in the end I'd still rather be female. :) |
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| *Intercourse.* |
Jan 27 2007, 02:19 PM
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 I would never want to be a guy I don't think. I kind of think its a bit easier being a girl at times, I mean guys are going to have their hard times in life and girls are going to have theirs. I suppose I find them both to be equal.
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| *WHIMSICAL 0NE* |
Jan 27 2007, 09:15 PM
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Aw, does this mean that you're a concerned boyfriend rather than one of those I-don't-understand-I-am-too-stoic boyfriends?
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Jan 27 2007, 09:18 PM
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 vivacity Group: Official Member Posts: 3,183 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,247 |
If being a girl was truly hell then there wouldn't be any girls. We'd have gotten sex changes.
It's okay. I wanna try being a guy for like a day though |
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Jan 27 2007, 11:07 PM
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 never settle for less than what you deserve. Group: Member Posts: 485 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,920 |
I wouldn't say it's scary, it's just a lot of stress to deal with. I mean I bet guys have their own hardships and challenges. But there are many things we girls have to go through. And they are the type of things guys don't have to give a great deal about but it affects us girls a lot more. (But I give props to you because at least you're thinking about what we do go through.)
I'm just going to list the things that come up in my mind right now that we go through: -Perverts. The whistles, cat calls, looks, & everything in between! *ALL KINDS OF PERVERTS. From construction workers to normal looking guys in their cars whistling at us for darn reason! They either whistle, huddle up w/ their friends and make annoying/uncomfortable calls to girls, just guys' eyes alone gives us a reason to be aware of our surroundings (not that I'm saying looking at people is a bad thing, but its that weird/nasty "look" like youre undressing us), etc. I mean teenage girls and women alone cannot walk down the darn street w/o being harassed. EVEN when we're not showing any skin or etc. It doesn't make us want you, it makes us get disgusted and really uncomfortable. -Stalkers. *Especially in the malls, parking lots, grocery stores (I've seen it happened to people/experienced it, crap gave me the creeps. The type of creeps that still remind me of it.) -Periods/hormones. CRAZY hormones that come along w/ our periods. Plus guys like to poke fun at us for it but it's not something to joke about because seriously it was that cool to deal with. Then why would we want to project ourselves as b****s? It just happens, just like you guys can't stop yourselves from having boners right? The pain we have is unberable for some, emotionally and mostly physically. It's not just pain in the lower back but it's muscle pain everywhere else. Plus the constant reminder that we have to be careful on what we wear, if the pad moves, changing the pad every few hours is a pain in the butt, making sure the lovely "scent" doesn't contaminate everywhere we go & sit. -Getting raped. *(This is a big issue to me even if I haven't experienced it myself.) But I've had close friends to me had this happen, it's one of the things that should NEVER EVER be experienced by anybody but it's the corruption of the world that affects us today. -Getting pregnant alone/w.out the help of the boyfriend/fiance/fling/whatever. *It's bad/worse enough that girls/women are getting pregnant when they least expect it and never had a plan on having one. But what's worse is not having the other person who's in the situation to help out during this hard time. Guys need to be there for their girl no matter what. Of course its scary and life changing for both sides. But w/o the help and support it's terribly hard for the girl's life. If you're going to be man, then you might as well prove it by at least lending a helping hand. Even if you're not into her anymore or don't have the same feelings anymore. The point is, it's better to have tried to help rather than living life and looking yourself in the mirror knowing you didn't do anything. -Falling in love. *I don't need to explain this, it's hard/heartbreaking for both of the sexes. But we girls tend to fall hard, real hard. We never forget, but we tend to hold on to a relationship/to a guy because we believe we can turn them around. But in the back of our minds, we know very well its not the right thing but we always have this hope that the guys they fall in love will turn around. -Having a job/position in a male dominating buisness/world. -We have to watch our surroundings most of the time. -Maintaining to look decent or pretty enough for guys b/c we have to compete w/ the girls you want from the magazines/movies/t.v.shows..etc. --- I have more but those are some of the main ones. Sometimes I wish i was a guy but I think being a girl taught me a lot of things that guys won't/never will learned to deal with. But I know guys have it hard to, I mean I wouldn't mind stepping into a guy's shoes for a day. |
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Jan 28 2007, 07:05 PM
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I used to want to be a guy :)
'Cos I liked making people laugh and it seems like guys do it best ..while girls have to watch their reputations/ impressions etc. And plus I know what girls want/ like so if I were a guy I'd know how to impress a girl ...while being a girl im kind of clueless lol Then i grew older and realized guys have to do a lot of risk-taking, have a lot of responsibilities, etc.. I guess both has their benefits and disadvantages, so eventually it evens out. Both are scary
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