... getting tired of guessing games, heh. another one of those guy probs |
 Jan 21 2007, 09:07 PM
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hey, er. well lemme just say it out.
i have a guy friend, whos in the school band with me, and we are often mistaken to be a couple. blah. hes really nice to me, we always hang around, but thats cuz we're bandsmen. most bandsmen are never that far apart from each other. and for us, its hard to be away frmo each other. we take the same school bus together (we always sit together), we get in the breakfast line together then eat together and stick around the band area (as many of the bandsmen do) till the bell rings, then we both head upstairs (his class is right next to my locker), then at 4th period we see each other again cuz its BAND period :) and we're both in the same section (percussion) so we're never more than 2 ft apart from each other, then right after is lunch, and i tend to sit with the percussionists as does my friend, and yeah... and after school too, i tend to see him a lot. especially when theres a band event afterschool,:P this is a weir entry. blah. i have one of his sweaters, a curious area where most of my friends tend to think of as an "bf/gf" thing. weird. now. is that an abnormally close relationship or a relationship thats not quite a "bf/gf" thing? and just for the record, i like him ^ ^;; |
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Jan 21 2007, 09:16 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
Gaaaaah it's hard to tell at this point.
You guys could just have a lot of classes and things in common making it convient for your friendship to grow. At the same time it could be you guys are getting a different sort of closer.. Obviously since you like him it's not just friendship.. But I guess it depends on him now. Errrr he could be just the sort of nice guy that likes hanging out with you. Or hangs around you so much because he digs you. Errrm any details you can give on that guy? |
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Jan 21 2007, 09:18 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
How about you ask him whats going on with the two of you. Tell him you like him, and how he feels (:
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| *Uronacid* |
Jan 21 2007, 11:36 PM
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Yeah, seriously... why not just tell him how you feel.
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| *Sephora.* |
Jan 22 2007, 12:09 AM
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Tell him your feelings.
It seems more of a.... bf/gf relationship to me. I mean, you guys are ALWAYS together. I'm pretty sure it makes everyone think that you guys are bf/gf. 
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Jan 22 2007, 03:30 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 93 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 151,810 |
aaaaaaaaand the excuse i always give is that our bandsmen are veryy close. literally. we're always together (so its not just the 2 of us), and then if one bandsman gets sick, we all get sick -_o heh. well, oh well, i guess ill just see how it goes or whatnot. go with the flow. take everything when it comes. cuz yeah, im not one to confess my feelings, and even if we both liked each other (in the past), i still wouldnt get with them. blah, i just think highschool is so relationship based. and i dont really like "relationships."
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| *Uronacid* |
Jan 22 2007, 02:39 PM
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QUOTE(flypigzfly @ Jan 22 2007, 3:30 AM)  aaaaaaaaand the excuse i always give is that our bandsmen are veryy close. literally. we're always together (so its not just the 2 of us), and then if one bandsman gets sick, we all get sick -_o heh. well, oh well, i guess ill just see how it goes or whatnot. go with the flow. take everything when it comes. cuz yeah, im not one to confess my feelings, and even if we both liked each other (in the past), i still wouldnt get with them. blah, i just think highschool is so relationship based. and i dont really like "relationships." aaaaaaaaaand the answer I'm going to give you is... well that's just to bad. |
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Jan 22 2007, 08:19 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
well that was like me and best guyfriend in 8th grade.
we had the same schedule, ate at the same table (azn crew), same bus, even got off at the same time, same homeroom. and we were always together, ditching class and creating trouble. I had one of his sax's reeds for some reason that i don't remember that was used already. it is nto abnormal nor does it means that he likes you. I think my guyfriend is hot no doubt but i don't want him as a bf, even if he asked me out because i don't want to ruin the great friendship we have. even now we still have a strong bond, since i left public high school. He still calls and we talk for hours about teachers and the good old days. i suggest that you not say anything about this to him... because if he does like you and you guys go out and break up. its going to ruin your friendship as well. |
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Jan 22 2007, 09:50 PM
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 Oh Wow ... Group: Official Designer Posts: 688 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 468,522 |
QUOTE(flypigzfly @ Jan 22 2007, 12:30 AM) blah, i just think highschool is so relationship based. and i dont really like "relationships." make sure he knows that. and if you like him & want to be with him then flirt, if not somehow make it clear that you don't like him // don't want to get with him. don't hurt the guy |
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Dec 31 2007, 05:44 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 93 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 151,810 |
oof. and now that i have, a long time later, he takes it as a joke because "i give everyone the wrong idea". does that mean that maybe, he thought that i like him too? ugh. xD oh well.
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