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 Jan 14 2007, 03:48 PM
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ok, say your sitting on a couch and one of your friends (a girl) comes over and sits next to you/leans on you and then takes your arm and wraps it around her..
is this some sort of sign or something lol? all this considering the week before she was sitting on the opposite arm of the couch, sort of like she was trying to keep her distance lol. |
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| ***Lucy** |
Jan 14 2007, 03:58 PM
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It definitely is a sign.
 she probably likes you, or wants to get to know you better. do u like her? |
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Jan 14 2007, 04:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,101 |
yeah, but thats somewhat of another topic..
i told her i liked her, but that was about a little over a week after she broke up with her bf of 1 year.. she hadnt told me how she felt, but i found out from a friend she had liked me a couple of months ago, but forced herself not to because she was with her boyfriend at the time. also when i told her she said it was bad timing and hasnt said anything about it since... so i havnt mentioned it again or done anything about it and such because im trying to give her space and make up her own mind and stuff lol... so it is a bit complicated lol |
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| ***Lucy** |
Jan 14 2007, 04:17 PM
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at least you guys like each other.
Good luck with the whole situation. 
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Jan 14 2007, 07:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 569 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 490,667 |
Uhm yea, I would have to say thats a pretty big sign there. From the sounds of it though, you kind of did choose a bad time to tell her that you liked her since she was just out a relationship. Now it kind of sounds like she would use you to possibly get over her former lover.
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Jan 14 2007, 07:14 PM
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yeah i know it was bad timing, i even told her that lol.. it was just that i had been holding it in the entire time she was with her bf and figured i might as well as tell her, before she over looked me again and went for someone else...
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| *Uronacid* |
Jan 14 2007, 07:39 PM
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Man, I would just come right out and ask her... that sounds like a sign, but maybe you should clarify things before you jump to any conclusions.
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| *icecreamisyummy* |
Jan 14 2007, 08:29 PM
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yea i agree.. maybe she might jsut use you to get over her ex. but if she told her friend a couple oef months ago she likes you well then...maybe its more than just usign you. let some time go by and then talk to her about it
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Jan 14 2007, 09:25 PM
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 my michelle. Group: Member Posts: 792 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,094 |
i say it's a sign and a very good one too.
she might be interested, she might be not though. i'm not completely sure since a week or so (?) is not a long time. give it a few more weeks and see if her attitude or personality changes toward you. good luck! |
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Jan 14 2007, 10:06 PM
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 live + laugh = life [[you don't need love]] Group: Member Posts: 191 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 441,854 |
that's a BIG SIGN
you should MAKE A MOVE 
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Jan 14 2007, 10:22 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
hm, sounds like she is a little more secure after breaking up with her last boyfriend, and there is a big chance she is interested in you.
Don't let it get too complicated. I say just do what you have been doing, keep giving her her space, and dont jump at the chance to date her just because she was close on the couch. Wait for her to say something, and if she doesn't say something, then just bring up your feelings for her again. However, remember to give it some time before you do that again. |
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Jan 17 2007, 04:30 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
yep. thats definatly a sign. flirt back if you like her.
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Jan 17 2007, 04:58 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 258 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,101 |
quick question.... how ><
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Jan 17 2007, 05:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
Yeah, someone who wanted to be "just friends" would never do that unless they were trying to confuse you. She does like you. :]
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Jan 17 2007, 05:33 PM
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 The Official Romanista Group: Member Posts: 54 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,222 |
I would have been like "What are you doing this for?" when she grabbed my arm...kinda reminds me of that time my ex grabbed my hand in the middle of class (I didn't even notice her back then) and I said that, and she just smiled and I smiled, and the rest is history...
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Jan 17 2007, 05:41 PM
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 the most flavored one Group: Member Posts: 132 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,593 |
A definite sign, but, maybe you should clarify things first so that you won't look like a moron. Just in case, you know.
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