Overseas Love Options

[latinprep12]

O.k First of all i just want to say I'm in the U.S. Airforce & I'm Stationed In germany on a airbase. But the thing is before i came to germany I had a girlfriend and well it was going well until i told her i was going to be overseas. But it didnt bother me much until you live in a total different society and your trying to get use to the language, money, and way of life. I'm use to it now since i been here for a year, but i wish i can find someone i can love. but its not easy for 2 military people to date (long story) it deals with rank and who makes more money or your love can be sent to a other base. and by the way germans are cool friends and thats all. well what will you do if you was overseas from everything you loved like friends and familes

[datass]

I would be nostalgic, like crazy.

[tropicalchic]

I can't really help because I've never been in that sort of situation.

I have moved overseas, leaving my friends behind but I was young and with my family. The first few months were hard because everything and everyone was so different, there were so many things to learn. I hung around other westerners mainly because we had more things in common. But I don't know if you really want to know about me, so anyways.....

Are there any expacts living where you are in Germany, as it would be easy for you to relate to each other as you are both in similar circumstances.

But also think of how luckly you are, not many people get to experience different cultures and travel around the word. Make the most of it, meet as many people as you can and try to experience everything because you will miss it when you go back home.

[*Uronacid*]

If you could somehow make it clear that you want to separate your military career's from your relationship then you may have a chance at forming a relationship with someone in the military.

[LostRenaissance]

thats hard i would def probably try to keep in touch with one of my friends since i dun have much of a family left... so yea i guess u should find someone that u can talk to friends or anything u know or find a german friend.. i dunno thats hard...

[latinprep12]

I have alot of guy friends out here and we have guys night out and most fridays and saturdays i go to the club not nothing big. I love how it is out here but i wish i can have someone special to take to paris or just to do stuff with. when i come from work and go out around base all i see is couples and it bugs me. I talk to my friends back in the states but its so hard since its a 6 hour difference. what i lefted out that i didnt tell you guys this but since the base im located is someone closer then the ones i base there gonna send me to iraq in spring time like early may, but i wish there was someone i can go and not my mom. lol for once

[_sarcastic_]

i've been through that twice. i hate it.

[*icecreamisyummy*]

I plan on joining the Air Force!!!!!!!!!!!!! im into the hwoel military thing :-D

I guess youre just gonna have try it out... just "date", get to knwo someone and see how it work sout with you being gone and what not... i dont mean get into anything serious right away, cuz no one int he military should do that unless youre 100% sure that itll work out. DUde just have some fun with the whole thing. being away from someone you absolutely love for a long time just makes your relationship stronger and even better if its the real thing. if its really gonna work out. if she/he is the one.

patience is the key[u][i]

[KissMe2408]

hm, i'm sorry to hear about that, that's tough.
My friend is in the army and she just got married to someone
in the army as well. However, they were stationed at the same
base, so it was easier for them and such.

My boyfriend is currently going to school over seas in Scotland.
And I must admit, it is hard not seeing him that often.
however, i really care for this guy,
and so far we've made it work since September,
and it's been going pretty well.

[vtdreamangel316]

uhh my boyfriend is getting sent to iraq in the very beginning of feb. i found out maybe 2 weeks after we've been dating and we've been dating 4 months now. im 17 and hes 21. i dunno. its hasnt really hit my head yet. it did a lil bit this past week. i dunno. i think im in denial..