I'm so facking frustrated Options

[lovesahoax]

This might be kinda long, sorry if it is.

Okay, I'm dating this guy right. And we've kinda been on and off for a few months. We took a break for a month or so and we both ended up dating different people. We both ended up realizing that we still had feelings for each other and got back together for the new year. Now, I'd never been in love or anything like that or said 'I love you' to anyone. But I honestly think I love this guy. Everything about him is so amazing & I think about him constantly. We talked about it and I told him I loved him and he told me he had been waiting for me to say that for a while now. :]

So the problem: I have this friend, who is a guy. I've known him for almost a year and a half now. We used to be pretty close & we told each other everything. One thing we agreed on was how it annoys us when people say 'I love you' as soon as they're dating someone. Anyway, about 6 months ago we got into a huge fight and kinda drifted apart and now we're sorta picking up the pieces and becoming friends again.

My friend has been pissy lately and been putting up away messages and stuff with things like "You're a hypocrite" and "Eff you & your explanations". So I asked him about it and he said it was about me. And now he's being so immature about it and avoiding the subject and I'm so confused. I would understand if this was a new guy and I told him I loved him, but I've had feelings for my guy since September. I just don't understand how it makes me a hypocrite.

And I don't know what to do. Should I just forget about what my friend's saying and just be happy or actually try and discuss it with him?

[miiichellley]

You're really happy with your old guy, so i reccommend you just stay put with him. I mean, it was good that you and your guy friend were starting to 'pick up the pieces', as you say, but after those messages about you, it doesn't seem like it anymore. Apparently, he's avoiding the subject..did he even give you a decent, acceptable reason for why he got angry at you, boyfriend or not? If he's avoiding it, it means he's hiding something. Stick with your old guy, but if you have a chance, please do try to discuss it since there's nothing worse than having a bad enemy behind your back.

[LostRenaissance]

k first i'm saying srry if anything i say is going to offend u.
first if u guys ended up dating different people then its not "love" at all yes i get annoyed with people using that word when they have no idea wat it means too. I think ur friend is pissed probably cuz he might of had feelings for u or something stick with ur current bf since u guys seems to be having a decent relationship rite now but give it like if ur friend wants to be a immature lil boy let him be, chill his head show him the fact that u dun need him to keep going and if keeps on putting away messages like that he probably likes u a bit thats why he's probably a lil pissed that you got back together with ur bf or something. just a thought tho...

[tokyo-rose]

I agree with Michelle's post completely.
He could also be jealous of you and the fact that you've told your bf you love him. O_o

[lovesahoax]

Yeah, I thought maybe it was because he was jealous or something or he liked me, but I didn't wanna make it sound conceited. He used to like me a lot last year, but he told me he got over me. I didn't really believe him though because he still acted like he liked me and all.

I'm just so frustrated because it's my first time experiencing feelings that are this strong for someone and it seems like my friend is trying to ruin it.