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 Jan 2 2007, 11:26 PM
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so i like this guy, and i hardly, actually let me rephrase, i never see him. maybe once or twice a year, but we've kept in touch through AIM.
for the past uh...maybe....two months? we've gotten really close because we talked like every day. up until...like two weeks ago....everything was good...but then he just suddenly stopped talking to me. i think this girl whose his friend might have found out i liked him and she told him... but anyways, i've tried talking to him...and he just doesnt seem interested anymore..? i think this really might lead to something... so i was just wondering what i should do.... |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Jan 2 2007, 11:29 PM
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Well, what CAN you do? I think you should just ask him about it. What's he so afraid of if you do like him? No offense, but I don't think this is love quite yet.
Just talk to him about him, ask him if anything's wrong. Since I haven't seen the girl whos said this in a while. COMMUNICATION is key. |
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Jan 3 2007, 12:44 AM
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I don't mean to get to down... but it is awfully hard to have a relationship with someone you never see. I mean they could be completely faithful to you online or over the phone when they're talking to you and then be out with seventeen other girls when they're not talkiong to you. I'm not saying that always happens but most young guys are like that. They want as many girls as possible. Yes there are many acceptions but my friend has gone through a relationship like that and it only lasted about a month before he screwed up and had one of his other girlfriends answer the phone, "hi there this is (guy's name)'s phone this is his girlfriend speaking."
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Jan 3 2007, 12:50 AM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
Reminds me of a boy I was obsessed over during 8th grade.
We no longer attended the same school and keeping in contact of each other was difficult. I didn't care about the distance and chatted my life to the guy for a while. But eventually he moved on and no longer went online to talk to me for awhile since he caught himself a fish in high school (a pretty, but two faced fish!  ).I don't know what to say in this situation if you have no other means of contacting him. If someone loses interest the best you can do is try to keep that interest.. Maybe you should try hard to get? I recall at some point not giving a damn about the guy I was crazy for and just tried to go on with my life and eventually he was the babbling idiot who tried to get in contact of me.  Maybe it could work for you as well.. A little distance might show that guy of yours what he's missing out on..
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Jan 3 2007, 03:11 AM
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just casually like ask him " hey did something happen you seem a little quiet lately" or something like that, and see what he says, otherwise maybe just tell him you like him and see what happens idk
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Jan 3 2007, 03:06 PM
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wooo..... Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,765 |
QUOTE(Cujiine @ Jan 3 2007, 12:44 AM)  I don't mean to get to down... but it is awfully hard to have a relationship with someone you never see. I mean they could be completely faithful to you online or over the phone when they're talking to you and then be out with seventeen other girls when they're not talkiong to you. I'm not saying that always happens but most young guys are like that. They want as many girls as possible. Yes there are many acceptions but my friend has gone through a relationship like that and it only lasted about a month before he screwed up and had one of his other girlfriends answer the phone, "hi there this is (guy's name)'s phone this is his girlfriend speaking." well see its not that i totally have no idea about his life, because i know alot of people at his school... and most of them are his friends, so they tell me if he's going out with someone, or if someone likes him. |
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Jan 3 2007, 07:14 PM
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Yu should think it over and see if yu really like him.
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| *Uronacid* |
Jan 3 2007, 07:55 PM
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If he found out you liked him and stopped talking to you he may have stopped because he doesn't want to lead you on. He may have just wanted to be your friend.
I think that the best thing you could do is call him up and talk to him about it. I would definitively suggest not getting into the relationship. Especially if it's based entirely over Instant Messager.... |
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Jan 3 2007, 09:52 PM
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wooo..... Group: Member Posts: 162 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,765 |
we talk on the phone alot too...
but he just hasnt been calling me lately |
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Jan 4 2007, 12:23 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
call him or send him an email and talk to him about this
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Jan 4 2007, 01:02 AM
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 101708 <3 (: Group: Member Posts: 253 Joined: Feb 2006 Member No: 382,431 |
well. if he won't talk to you just because of something like that, then i don't think he's worth your time. besides, even if you guys do have a relationship together, wouldn't it be sorta weird? i mean you'll never know what he's doing wherever he is. not to say that you don't trust him or anything of course. but who knows...
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