i hate pushing guys to like me, especially if they're your best friends... |
 Jan 2 2007, 02:47 PM
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 x_pinaystyle_x  Group: Member Posts: 472 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 366,326  |
i mean.. i tell him i like him and yet he doesn't like me back!
we've been best friends for three years already. i hate liking my best friends. they will always like me as a friend and nevermore. plus.. it would most likely ruin our friendship! then what's the point of liking them in the first place if you know you can't have them?? sorry if im confusing... i just wanna let it out. |
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Jan 2 2007, 04:17 PM
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 my michelle. Group: Member Posts: 792 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,094 |
Well, actually, sometimes it CAN work it.
He just probably can't exactly take it in right now. It depends what his reaction was when you told him. And it's good to let things out 
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| *suddenly she* |
Jan 2 2007, 04:30 PM
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As far as I know, most teenagers can't control their hormones as in who they decide to like and all that jazz.
I happen to be a weirdo and can find ways to dislike people I naturally would like... close friends and crushes included. BUT ANYWAY You're still (probably) a kid; you'll (probably) find someone sooner or later. 
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Jan 2 2007, 06:36 PM
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 I reject this reality and substitute it with my own! Group: Member Posts: 276 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 486,863 |
Maybe the fact that you're so close to this person you can't
help wondering what it would be like with the person as a lover? Gaaaaaah fate is a cruel lass at times. But I wish for the best for your current mishap.  And goodness it IS heavenlybeing able to rant or just let things out. When I feel like I've been so plugged up forever, I'd listen to anything to let any emotions left inside out. You should do it more often if it helps you feel better about your situation.. I'm sure createblog won't mind listening to some of your troubles. 
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Jan 3 2007, 03:16 AM
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yea its weird liking your best friend cause then if you tell them and they don't feel that way too, then it's like awwwkwaarrddd after, unless you find a way to work through it, you can't control who you like so don't feel bad, if he doesn't have feelings back for you, then that sucks just try your best to move on, annd somehow still remain friends with him, it could take time.
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Jan 3 2007, 03:18 PM
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 [BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
yeah. even if it`s not awkward later, there will always be something there.
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| *T0rmented_Soul* |
Jan 3 2007, 04:44 PM
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Your just stressed right now because your feelings are hurt, I understand that liking your bestfriend would mean you can go further in a relationship. Some people don't see things what other people think in their minds. You should be greatful that you and he are best friends 3 years is a long time more than what I've ever had. But I don't see why it would ruim the friendship, it may be awkward but I would rather keep them as a friend rather than a person who was once a friend. It's totally up to you.
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Jan 3 2007, 04:53 PM
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QUOTE(T0rmented_Soul @ Jan 3 2007, 3:44 PM)  Your just stressed right now because your feelings are hurt, I understand that liking your bestfriend would mean you can go further in a relationship. Some people don't see things what other people think in their minds. You should be greatful that you and he are best friends 3 years is a long time more than what I've ever had. But I don't see why it would ruim the friendship, it may be awkward but I would rather keep them as a friend rather than a person who was once a friend. It's totally up to you. ^Aww mike that was great advice. |
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| *Uronacid* |
Jan 3 2007, 07:06 PM
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You really shouldn't push people to like you... it may be the very reason that they don't...
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