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 Jan 2 2007, 12:54 AM
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My boyfriend is ten years older than i am. I really like him so much and really care about him. We've been together for almost 3 months. He told me he loves me. Our relationship has been iffy lately. I asked him if we could take a break a few days ago, but he didn't want that because he has incredibly strong feelings for me. I have strong feelings for him too, I love spending time with him and talking to him and everything. BUT...for the past few days I've been having confusing feelings that we shouldn't be together. I really like being with him. But this has just been in the back of my mind. We officially broke up this morning. We spoke online after and he wants to talk tomorrow. I'm gonna call him tomorrow. I just don't know to choose to be with him or follow my instinct. I really like him and we have a great relationship...but I just dunno what to choose.
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Jan 2 2007, 01:13 AM
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If you love him as you say you do, you should at least try to work it out as a couple rather then apart since thats what relationships are all about. Not everything is going to sunshine and butterlies and really you grow stronger from these kind of moments. I mean if your feels are both strong just talk it out and don't be afraid to speak your mind. He loves you, and you love him and with that you can probably overcome this ordeal.
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Jan 2 2007, 01:32 AM
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sometimes we do things without thinking but later we'll regret them, so think about it more and give it another chance if you really love him as much as you say you do, and him you, then try to work it out, talk to him about what you've been feeling
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Jan 2 2007, 02:34 AM
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if you really love him then listen to what he has to say
but if you have a bad feeling or having second thoughts on this relationship then i say trust your gut feeling |
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Jan 2 2007, 03:28 AM
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If you think you had a good relationship...what is there to lose? Try and make it work and talk about your doubts when you call. If you have strong feeling for him you might regret breaking up with him later on.
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Jan 2 2007, 05:41 AM
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think about wat u do before u do it..
dont do something you KNOW you will regret later! and if u guys are good, then keep it like that. everyone has those feelings sometimes. but most people get over them some deal with them. now u gotta choose wat ud rather. not being with him because of those few thoughts or having that relationship with him.. which u seem 2 love. :) xoxo |
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Jan 3 2007, 07:56 PM
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Well if yur worrying about the age then it guess wat that doesnt matter =) just as long as yu love him with all yur heart. a younger guy might be better looking for something like that buh who noes how they are.
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Jan 3 2007, 08:00 PM
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Sounds like you feel pretty confused. I think you should wait until things clear up in your head before you make a final decision.
Don't just jump into things... you may regret it. Talk to him about it. Talk to others about it. Try and clear things up. Are you looking for a reason to break it off for good? How old are you? |
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