Is it bad that I have up on love, [I'm only 16] Options

[xxmisxtakexx]

I swear to God that I can't love anymore. I tried but I can't even feel love for little things that I used to love.\\I think he broke me too bad\\


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Help? Please don't say things will get better cause it's going on a year and I still can't.

Ooops.


Have = Gave

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[MyEverLastingHop...]

"He"?
Are you saying that someone hurt you emotionally, so you feel you can't love anymore?

I've personally never been a big fan of love and I often debate over it.

But, it's very sad to hear about people who have been hurt emotionally, due to the selfishness and bad treatment from others.

No, people can't promise things will get better.
Time isn't always something that heals all wounds.
& I can't say, "Try to forget", because we learn from our past.

I won't say "Look on the brightside", but I must admit, that there is always a positive with the negative, even if it isn't that great.

[xxmisxtakexx]

Yes it's because or my Mr. Wright.

Not even kidding. His name is Brandon Lee Wright.


No I don't think my heart is there anymore. Could he still have it?

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

You'll be alright.



No really. Every teenage girl shits themselves when their first love or whatever breaks their heart, we all feel we can never go on and we'll never love another and wompwomp. But we will get better, we will find another, and our hearts will mend. As far as it having been over a year, love takes time. That's just how it goes.

[MyEverLastingHop...]

Yes it's because or my Mr. Wright.

Not even kidding. His name is Brandon Lee Wright.
No I don't think my heart is there anymore. Could he still have it?

Thats cute, I mean the name part.

As for your heart not being there anymore, technically, it's still there, or you wouldn't be posting.
[Sorry, I know that sucked].

I know, your refering to your heart emotionally.
If he broke your heart, do you really think he deserves it?
I don't.

Love does take time, but that doesnt make it any easiaer to deal with.

[AngelinaTaylor]

I don't know, man, I'm 18 and I've said no to serious relationships and/or marriage. I don't want to get married or have kids, or any of that. Love has its ways that as soon as you get a little attached, you get hurt. I'm sure you agree to that. At least in my experiences. I've just decided to focus on my career, friends and family. Those seem to matter most.

But you'll probably be fine. Give it a while. I hope I never fall in love again too, but you never know.

[*krnxswat*]

Shut the f**k up.
Red over what you just wrote, you little dipshit.
You'd be better as dead if you could'nt.

[AngelinaTaylor]

Couldn't* ^

[*krnxswat*]

Wow, woop dee doo!
You fixed some grammar mistake that I was too lazy to fix! ISN'T SOMEONE SPECIAL?
You think I don't know? f**king retard.
Did that just raise your self esteem from 0 to 0?

[AngelinaTaylor]

To 0.5 actually. That's quite somethin' for me.

[MyEverLastingHop...]

Yes, serious relationships usually do get people hurt.
But, "Alls fair in love and war".
You take the good with the bad.

You just hope to get more good than bad.

In a lot of relationships, it just "does not work out", meaning the two people just are not a good pair to be dating.

Then another good portion are ended by cheating, or fighting.

But sometimes, you get lucky and you find you get along with that person, you respect each other, you hardly fight, ect. Thats a good relationship, and even if it doesnt last, because most don't, just remember the good points of the relationship, don't harp on the fact that it's over.

[OhMyAnniee]

Why can't you love anymore? I mean....... don't you love things like to go out with your friends or your family? Maybe you could start simple? If this guy stopped you from loving (or so you say), wouldn't he be worth fighting for?

[xxmisxtakexx]

Oh yeah he's worth fighting for. He's perfect even though he hurt me.

I've been fighting for him for a long time now. I don't think I'll give up on him. See the only thing is I can't talk to him with out hurting.

Because of what he did to me.

[*My Cinderella.*]

Everyone deals with a heart breaking break up. Don't worry, you will love again. Right now, he's perfect in your eyes so you'll probably ignore our words of wisedom but you will get over him. If it hurts to talk to him, then maybe you shouldn't. I know how you feel, you don't wanna lose him ya da ya da. But you need to space yourself from him until you feel you can control yourself or until you no longer see him in that way.

[MyEverLastingHop...]

I'm assuming she ment she can't love someone emotionally.
Like she can't have feelings for someone, at the degree she had for this person.

[vn_cuti3]

well yah it is bad to give up on love i mean there's different kind of love out there like you and your family or you and your friends. i'm guessing that right now you're just giving up on romance not love cause giving up love is like giving up everything.

[*a painefull euphoria*]

To 0.5 actually. That's quite somethin' for me.

ahahha i love you

[*krnxswat*]

To 0.5 actually. That's quite somethin' for me.

I'm not surprised.

ahahha i love you

Simple pleasures for simple minds.

[unconfirmed_exis...]

I'll love someone for being a friend,
love someone for being a person,
love someone for being family,

but I could never say I love a lover
because I don't really know
what that sort of love is it to give a person.

Can't help you there.. </3 I experince heart
aches from missing people close to me
and from serious crushes but I don't
know if recovering from those
can compare to what love+lovers undergo.

I'm sorry I can't say anything to help but I hope you'll recover..
There's just so much out there in the world waiting for you.
Don't let anyone take away the reason for giving things another go.

Give things time to heal, you might change your mind.

[shortiiex]

i think maybe you are just afraid of being in love

[AngelinaTaylor]

Simple pleasures for simple minds.

Aw. Don't be sad because nobody loves you. Cheer up!

[elaboratedream]

love is overrated.

[xmoon_lightx]

Every teen would go crazy b.c of their first lover.

[*Uronacid*]

You have to some how move on... what would allow you to move on?

can you think of anything?

[*krnxswat*]

Aw. Don't be sad because nobody loves you. Cheer up!

Aw, thanks, but, remember, you're the one with the self teem of 0.5?

[AngelinaTaylor]

Aw, thanks, but, remember, you're the one with the self teem of 0.5?

People still love me!

But it's ok. I love you!!!!!!!!!1111111111oneoneoneone

[xxmisxtakexx]

You have to some how move on... what would allow you to move on?

can you think of anything?

When i think of things to make me feel better all I think of is him.

[phillerthekiller]

ha. ok i (think) i sort of (as much as a man possibly could) understand

um... i had a crush/thing/girl that really screwed up our mutual "like"

and after that we sort of decided to try again but my heart wasn't really in it and I ended up not calling her for a couple weeks (DON"T DO THAT APPARENTLY THATS UNFORGIVEABLE) and I still really have feelings for her but I guess we both took our turns screwing the "relationship" up.. funny how the relationship can be completely seperate from the two parties... anyways im rambling and by now this probably doesn't make sense but

(anyways) i say theres Always second chances especially if you both try and let the other know what your feeling.. if thats not possible then i guess a new direction is probably best...

-good luck

phil

[*Uronacid*]

Alright, well... you have to get the idea of him out of your head. Eventually you will naturally get over him. You have to accept the fact that it's over. He is not coming back. It sounds like you are hoping he will ask you back out again. You have to stop.

It's natural to be sad, and there is nothing with you. You're just hurting because of lost love. You will be able to love again. Be strong. I know it seems like the end of the world. When I broke up with my first girlfriend it was as if my whole world turned grey. I felt like everything was over. My life was worthless, but I was just being ignorant. I felt like there was nothing left because I had invested so much time and effort into her. All the time I had learned to spend on her was now free, and my life felt like there was a giant hole in it.

The truth is that there is so much more to life than just relationships. You're in highschool, and you should be having fun. Pick up on some of the old activities you enjoyed that were replaced with your relationship when you started dating your boyfriend. Hang out with some of the old friends you had. Participate in an after school activity. Do something, and enjoy yourself.

Don't take this relationship two seriously. This is one of many relationships you will probably have before you find the man of your dreams. Don't let this discourage you from entering the exciting world of relationships again. Instead, learn from the mistakes you made while you were in this one and better yourself.


Finding Nemo:
Dory: Hey there, Mr. Grumpy Gills. When life gets you down do you wanna know what you've gotta do?
Marlin: No I don't wanna know.
Dory: *singing* Just keep swimming. Just keep swimming. Just keep swimming, swimming, swimming. What do we do? We swim, swim.

[xxmisxtakexx]

Ha ha ha. Thanks!

Well it's just that It's been 7 months since we broke up and it's still really hard.

[*Uronacid*]

Ha ha ha. Thanks!

Well it's just that It's been 7 months since we broke up and it's still really hard.

Well, I know how that is... I dated my first girlfriend for over one year. It took about 2 years of slight depression, and about 3 years to get over her entirely. I wish I never wasted all that time.

Good Luck.

[me1issaaaa]

I understand you've had your heart ripped out, but trust me. Things WILL GET SO MUCH BETTER. I've definitely been there before. I thought things were horrible, but I came out of it a stronger, smarter, better person. You're only sixteen, dearest. Don't expect so much at this age - most guys don't even develop a brain until they're in their 20's.

[Kontroll]

Yes it's because or my Mr. Wright.

Not even kidding. His name is Brandon Lee Wright.
No I don't think my heart is there anymore. Could he still have it?

Damn. He doesn't have your heart. Just take a knife and cut your chest open. I assure you it's there. Such an emo. haha.

You're sixteen. Love is a word that is very much over used these days, so it might be likely that you didn't love him in the first place.

[*Uronacid*]

Damn. He doesn't have your heart. Just take a knife and cut your chest open. I assure you it's there. Such an emo. haha.

You're sixteen. Love is a word that is very much over used these days, so it might be likely that you didn't love him in the first place.

DO IT DO IT!!!! I WANNA SEE YOUR HEART!!!

We can use the adult stem cells from it and grow you a new one!!!!

[xxmisxtakexx]

ha ha ha.

maybe I did love him, maybe i didn't but it's still really hard.

[*mishyerr*]

It's ok, I used to feel the exact same way.

In fact, I was so messed up I carved a "bracelet" into my wrist swearing I would never love again.

Well, it's not true, because I am totally in love with the most wonderful guy in the world right now. And I'm almost a hopeless romantic. Hahaha <3

[xxmisxtakexx]

But how long did it take?