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 Dec 29 2006, 02:15 AM
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Rofl, boredom has overwhelmed me.
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Dec 29 2006, 03:51 AM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,566 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
I'd say it's perfectly fine, if you watch out who you're dating. Just don't fall into the trap off an internet predator, lol.
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Dec 29 2006, 04:03 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
It's "okay", if you're planning to meet this person pretty soon, but be safe and proactive.
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Dec 29 2006, 04:44 AM
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 hahahehehoho Group: Member Posts: 108 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 205,769 |
I chose get a life...lol
well, maybe it's not that harsh. Maybe those types of relationships are good only to start off on, but it should get more personal for it to be ok ... |
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Dec 29 2006, 06:28 AM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,069 |
as long as the two see each other from time to time
then all will b well v ^_^ v |
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Dec 29 2006, 06:50 AM
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If and only if they truely love each other.
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Dec 29 2006, 07:04 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
There are sex predators everywhere now..
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Dec 29 2006, 07:06 AM
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Dec 29 2006, 07:09 AM
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QUOTE(icy_wonderland @ Dec 29 2006, 6:04 AM)  There are sex predators everywhere now.. yeah like people like me. justkidding i dont really see the point of internet relationships |
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Dec 29 2006, 07:47 PM
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 Pocketful of Sunshine Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,690 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,004 |
I think that it's only okay if you've actually met the person in real life before or live pretty close and are meeting soon. eDating someone halfway around the world would be kinda stupid. Usually, I think it's pathetic - unless it's a joke.
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Dec 29 2006, 08:29 PM
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It's good. It depends if you love eachother. Some people can handle it others can't.
Not everyone with agree with it. But lots will. You have to be comitted and realize it's hard. Trust me on this! |
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Dec 29 2006, 09:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
I chose "if you truly love each other" because really, love knows no boundaries nor distance.
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Dec 29 2006, 09:43 PM
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1TRIPZ FUCC UP Group: Member Posts: 311 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 482,242 |
f**kin Nerd
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Dec 30 2006, 02:54 PM
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 Always [Hopeless] Group: Member Posts: 71 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 491,316 |
Well, do you mean knowing someone, then something happens, like they move, then dating them online?
Or Meeting someone online & dating them and maybe agreeing to meet them? I am fine with both, though I think if you agree to meet, do it in a nice public place ... Maybe near a police station? ^_^;; |
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Dec 30 2006, 03:56 PM
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If you trust in the person and are aware of what you might be getting into.
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| *Girthy* |
Dec 30 2006, 05:33 PM
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desperate.
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Dec 30 2006, 07:15 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,653 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
Just try real life.
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Dec 30 2006, 10:55 PM
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QUOTE(Girthy @ Dec 30 2006, 2:33 PM) desperate.  i chose, get a life. haha
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Jan 1 2007, 08:10 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
yeah i chose get a life....i think they aren't any guarentees in online dating except you get to have cyber all the time and masturbate in front of the computer
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Jan 1 2007, 09:04 PM
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i find it totally stupid. there's no point. you don't see them. you can't kiss them. they're probably fake. idk, jmo.
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Jan 1 2007, 09:34 PM
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 i'm maggie =] Group: Member Posts: 3,607 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 361,616 |
NO.
the personality of a person is different on the web and in real life. you're not getting to know the real person. so, its like..dating a fake. |
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Jan 3 2007, 03:37 AM
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Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
How is it like .. dating a fake?
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Jan 3 2007, 04:17 AM
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 skaters gonna skate. Group: Official Member Posts: 6,861 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,336 |
I don't believe in internet relationships because like ashopely said.. you can't kiss them, you don't see them so...
but it works out for some people. |
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Jan 3 2007, 09:43 AM
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 what do you think it says....if so obvious. Group: Member Posts: 1,838 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,420 |
Get a Real Life .
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Jan 3 2007, 11:33 AM
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 Krista. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,380 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 391,319 |
Psh. Get a life. You don't know who you're dating online. It could always be a pedophile. The whole thing is way too risky.
(why is this in the boys' locker? this relates to relationships.) |
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Jan 3 2007, 11:04 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
One of my exes started from an internet relationship, but we didn't really really meet online, a girl hooked me up with another girl and we exchanged screenames.
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Jan 3 2007, 11:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 234 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 467,786 |
I think net relationships are fine if you have proof they're really who they say they are.
Net dating is much like reality dating, and its better if you're a computer junkie like myself.  You just don't have to be around them and stuff. I find it much easier. 
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Jan 4 2007, 12:12 AM
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 R U A Q T ? [; Group: Official Member Posts: 7,276 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 421,631 |
QUOTE(fallingstar @ Dec 29 2006, 12:51 AM) I'd say it's perfectly fine, if you watch out who you're dating. Just don't fall into the trap off an internet predator, lol. seriously. but to little girls/boys who have e-relationships; GET A LIFE. |
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Jan 4 2007, 12:42 AM
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 my michelle. Group: Member Posts: 792 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,094 |
Let people do it, but i don't agree.
I mean, you can't even see the person unless you actually decide to meet up, and 99% of the time, they don't live close to you. And half of that 99% are predators, probably. |
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Jan 4 2007, 12:58 AM
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 Cockadoodledoo Mother Fcuka!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,438 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 296,088 |
GEEEEEEEEEEEEKSSS!!!!!!!!!!
why don't u just get married in wow u losers!!! |
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Jan 4 2007, 07:52 PM
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 CheccMate Foo! Group: Member Posts: 839 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 487,531 |
2 nerds with a computer each can make sweet internet love lolz
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| *My Cinderella.* |
Jan 13 2007, 10:32 PM
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Moved to relationships.
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| *a painefull euphoria* |
Jan 13 2007, 10:35 PM
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QUOTE(Anna Banana =} @ Jan 3 2007, 10:28 PM) I think net relationships are fine if you have proof they're really who they say they are. Net dating is much like reality dating, and its better if you're a computer junkie like myself. You just don't have to be around them and stuff. I find it much easier. ^yeah thats the plus to it. but i like being close to a person. |
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Jan 13 2007, 10:44 PM
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Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 3,459 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 328,021 |
I think it's fine as long as you know for sure that it isn't some stalker. But I don't think the chances of it actually growing a lot are very high. If you're not seeing them in person, how close can you get to someone?
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Jan 13 2007, 10:55 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 140 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 492,291 |
as long as you've met and it is some sort of long-distance relationship, than i guess it is adequate.
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Jan 13 2007, 10:57 PM
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It's fine, just be aware that that person CAN be a predator. I honestly don't have anything against it and if you're a internet junkie and you don't want to go outside to find a IRL boyfriend, I don't see the harm in getting a internet relationship. It'd be better if you guys talked on the internet and met eachother once in a while, though.
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Jan 13 2007, 11:54 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 569 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 490,667 |
Its perfectly fine, its pretty normal now-a-days from how I view it. As long as you get plenty of proof that their the real deal and not some fake sicko out in the world.
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Jan 13 2007, 11:59 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
It's not exactly perfectly okay or perfectly not okay, it's like in the middle.
It's not something you should strive for and it's also not something you should avoid like the plague. If it happens, it happens. I have met people through the Internet. The Internet just brought us to each other, I actually regularly saw/dated those people in person. However it would be weird to have a serious relationship with someone you have never seen in person... |
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Jan 14 2007, 01:41 AM
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mood: content Group: Member Posts: 2,063 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,325 |
when i was in sixth/seventh grade, my friend had one and she told ppl she was 18. hah. you never know who you're dating.
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Jan 16 2007, 01:15 AM
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Internet relationships have alot of downfalls.
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Jan 16 2007, 03:52 AM
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 Jake - The Unholy Trinity / Premiscuous Poeteer. Group: Member Posts: 1,272 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 411,316 |
Oh, God, Trilby. What are you doing here? Great. One more place I have to see your sad face at. haha. I'm just messing with you. I had no clue that you were on here. Haha. Do it more, it's fun. We make fun of people. Haha. Me Josh and Jeremy.
Yeah, actually one of the teachers that taught at my old school met her husband on the internet. It works sometimes, but I don't suggest it. Do it the old fashioned way. Peace. |
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Jan 16 2007, 04:37 AM
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 cacaboii. [SAN FRAN is where... Group: Member Posts: 566 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,562 |
QUOTE internet relationships are pathetic. nuff said. |
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Jan 17 2007, 03:59 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,534 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 170,127 |
Honestly? The internet can be seen as just another social playground but some don't consider it 'real' enough. To me, if the person exists and I've heard their voice, they are real. I put myself in a position where I can get hurt even with 'internet matters' but that's a risk I'm willing to take. Making it 'real enough,' though, would have to include meeting each other. Now getting past that is another problem. And I'm talking actual connections with others, not cybering or what-not ._.
But the internet can just act as a door in finding the 'one'; what comes after that would be just like any other budding relationship. |
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Jan 17 2007, 04:34 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 831 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,326 |
i'v tried it before to experiment. its just not the same as in real life. seeing the person in real life gets me to like them even more. what sucks about internet relationships is that the person can cheat on you soo easily
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Jan 17 2007, 07:41 PM
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QUOTE(Bunnybandit @ Jan 16 2007, 1:15 AM) Internet relationships have alot of downfalls. Holy Tolito!!! Tril, join us!!! Well, I think internet relationships are a little risky. Are the you falling in love with anonymity or the person? |
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Jan 17 2007, 07:45 PM
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Woah Trilby came back to createblog
 Theres a lot of things that aren't that great about internet relationships. I would highly suggest making sure that the person is really real and try talking on the phone with them instead of just using the internet...Its risky. |
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Jan 20 2007, 02:15 PM
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 young enough to not give a f*ck Group: Member Posts: 1,149 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,060 |
Honestly,i think it's pure stupidity to "love" someone over the internet. It's like,agreeing with rape ! :O
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Jan 22 2007, 07:55 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 455 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 445,104 |
well if you really admire that person and you guys had knew each other pretty well for a while. i mean like talking on the phone and you can share each others your secrets then yeah its alright but just dont fall for a predator.
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Jan 22 2007, 07:56 PM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
its fine as long as you really don't dig the guy or girl
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Jan 24 2007, 01:41 AM
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 Believe in Magic. Group: Member Posts: 37 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 497,854 |
QUOTE(Jane Doe. @ Jan 17 2007, 2:59 PM) Honestly? The internet can be seen as just another social playground but some don't consider it 'real' enough. To me, if the person exists and I've heard their voice, they are real. I put myself in a position where I can get hurt even with 'internet matters' but that's a risk I'm willing to take. Making it 'real enough,' though, would have to include meeting each other. Now getting past that is another problem. And I'm talking actual connections with others, not cybering or what-not ._. But the internet can just act as a door in finding the 'one'; what comes after that would be just like any other budding relationship. I'm glad I continued reading everyones replies, because that is exactly what I was going to say. My fiance and I met in a DBZ chatroom ... Oh 5 years ago, and we've been dating almost two years now. But it's still a partial online thing because he lives way in the UK, and I'm in the US... [ he's moving here this year ]
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Jan 26 2007, 07:41 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 164 Joined: Oct 2006 Member No: 470,731 |
i wouldn't do it personally, but if you feel really connected to someone you meet online, go ahead. just don't expect it to last if you'll never meet that person
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Jan 27 2007, 10:46 PM
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i kind of HAVE to do that
because my boyfriend and i go to different schools... but i usually still see him about once a week... |
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Feb 1 2007, 11:48 AM
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 I'm too dangerous Group: Member Posts: 10 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 499,433 |
QUOTE(lidoxangie @ Dec 29 2006, 4:06 AM) internet relationships are pathetic. I agree. |
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Feb 1 2007, 11:49 AM
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I'm Cattt. :] Group: Validating Posts: 1,722 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,831 |
If you mean by having a bf over the internet, no, definately no. I like internet friendships though.
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Feb 1 2007, 04:50 PM
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 Like Woahh!! Group: Member Posts: 13 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 499,876 |
well im sorta in a relationship that involves the internet..but we see each other from time to time and i dont really have a problem with it.. but u should be careful on who u meet..u never know who may be on the other end
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Feb 1 2007, 04:51 PM
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 WarPath Leader. Group: Member Posts: 668 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,721 |
90% of times, someone gets hurt.
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Feb 1 2007, 04:55 PM
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 Nikkie Group: Member Posts: 2,336 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,991 |
ehh i'll say no. due to the fact there's so many sexual preadators out there.
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Feb 1 2007, 05:17 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 3 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 500,054 |
some people just get lucky on those kinda of relationships
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