i am in a gawky posistion..., IN PROGRESS OF LIKING BEST FRIEND'S GIRLFRIEND Options

[dudeness_mcdude]

oook, so i met this guy name andrew online. we like the same music, we both have to go to the bathroom at the same time, your typical everyday best friend or siamese twin, and about 3 months after we met, about a month ago, he got a girlfriend named brittney. they made out and crap..you know, bf gf mushy gushy kissy wissy lovey dovey...kinda, they dont say "i love you" that much that i know of..we usually talked on a threeway conversation on the phone, me payin for the bills, and i never hear em say i love you. then one day, about a week and a half ago i was talkin to brittney on myspace, she gave me her number because we were both bored out of our minds,...we talked from 12am to 6am, almost 6 hours (footnote) and i kinda felt we liked each other a lot..we started playing this "would you rather kiss or french:" game where you have to choose from a couple people who you would rather french, and she asked "would you rather give a lapdance to the easter bunny or santa claus" i said santa because he's been giving me presents ever sence age 0 1/12. she broke out laughing. ...then i came out with my question: "Would you french me or Alexa (friend of hers)" and she denies at all costs that shes a lesbian...so it took her 15 minutes to decide, i counted, and she picked me, i know she didnt really have a choice but then i think she liked me too because then she said "would you rather french me or Alexa", it took me 5 seconds to answer because i knew she would hang up on me there.I chose Brittney

soo, there you have it, what do you think i should do? by the way, im 12, she's 11.


happily i had free minutes on weekends, the next day, i woke up, my mom got the cell bill and instead of the normal price, bout 40$, it was 200$, so i had to pay for all that shit, so for some reason, i dont get free mins after 2.

[*mipadi*]

First of all, consider yourself lucky. When I was 12, I spent all my time playing Mario. I didn't even talk to girls until I was at least a sophomore in college.

Having said that, don't go down the route of liking your best friend's girlfriend. It's gonna be messy. Don't do it.

[marzipan]

'-' You're 12 and you're already talking about frenching girls and stuff?

You're too young to get into that kind of crap. Like Michael said, you'd get into some messy stuff if you did that. So just forget about it.

[littleswallow]

I agree with what they said above. Heck, when I was 12 all I ever talked was video games and anime.

If you don't want to mess this up, then please, do not go down that path.

[cori-catastrophe]

soo, there you have it, what do you think i should do? by the way, im 12, she's 11.
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Uhm...wow! O.o;
That really suprised me. Pretty much, I'm saying what everyone else has already said. So, you have never met these people...not in person? Hmm....
Anyways. Don't do it. You'll end up losing everything you had to begin with.

[*a painefull euphoria*]

'-' You're 12 and you're already talking about frenching girls and stuff?

You're too young to get into that kind of crap. Like Michael said, you'd get into some messy stuff if you did that. So just forget about it.

yeah thats kinda too young to be alltalking about frenching girls and shit like that.
relax.

[me1issaaaa]

12 and 11? WHAT THE HELLLLLLLLLLLLLLL?!
This is sick in so many ways. Stop talking to girls, they have coodies. Go play with your GI Joe or something.

[*My Cinderella.*]

Wow..heh the age seems to be getting younger and younger. You shouldn't do something that you'll regret in the future, so I suggest you just let her and her boyfriend be. Don't interfer with their relationship. Drama is a no go at this age.

[GREASEbaby]

uh, don't even go for her.
she doesn't even have boobs yet.













and the picture of a twelve and an eleven year old making out is disgusting.

[dudeness_mcdude]

soo, there you have it, what do you think i should do? by the way, im 12, she's 11.
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Uhm...wow! O.o;
That really suprised me. Pretty much, I'm saying what everyone else has already said. So, you have never met these people...not in person? Hmm....
Anyways. Don't do it. You'll end up losing everything you had to begin with.

no, i have met andrew in life maybe about five times. we both live in oklahoma.

uh, don't even go for her.
she doesn't even have boobs yet.
and the picture of a twelve and an eleven year old making out is disgusting.

i dont think any guy my age could resist the face of this girl.....except for the people with OSD.

[marzipan]

^ So what? You'd be interfering into another relationship (even if it's a couple of 11 year olds, which I think is too young an age to have a relationship anyways). You don't need the drama. Or trouble.

[dudeness_mcdude]

^ So what? You'd be interfering into another relationship (even if it's a couple of 11 year olds, which I think is too young an age to have a relationship anyways). You don't need the drama. Or trouble.

im not tryin to steal her, i just really like her. and if they break up, wat would i do.

[cori-catastrophe]

uh, don't even go for her.
she doesn't even have boobs yet.
and the picture of a twelve and an eleven year old making out is disgusting.

That cracked me up.

[*My Cinderella.*]

You like her, that's understandable. But she's in a relationship right now and even if they do break up that's horribly wrong to try to get with her off the bat.

[showstopper!]

Wow. Too young

[minioligo]

Eh, if you care more about your cell phone bill than if you truly like her or not, then you should forget it and let your best friend and his girlfriend be happy. Stop talking to her on the phone so much if you know it's not right. Seriously, is that the way to be a "best friend"?

Though, really, 11 years old?! And you're 12?! Jeeeeez. And you're talking about lapdances and french kissing. Sick.

[coconutter]

this is very confusing, okay so there's a girl online you met and you stole her cellphone and what? a lapdance? over the phone? going to the bathroom at the same time, on the same toilet , gross!

twelve year olds..

[dudeness_mcdude]

this is very confusing, okay so there's a girl online you met and you stole her cellphone and what? a lapdance? over the phone? going to the bathroom at the same time, on the same toilet , gross!

twelve year olds..

oh my god, you should not have Bill Nye in your freaakin SIG!!!! POSER!!!!ok, i met my friend, Andrew online, then he got a girlfriend, Brittney. we were talking together aon myspace, then she gave me her number because we were both bored out of our skulls so i called her. we got in a phione game called "Would You Rather:", she said "lapdance to Santa or Bunny", so i picked santa. then i asked her wether she would kiss me or another girl. she picked me because she denies anything that would lead anyone to thinking she's a lesbian. then she asked if i would rather kiss her, or a different girl, i chose her. and no, we dont both go to the same muh-f**king toilet, we just usually think the damn same.

[me1issaaaa]

^ You're really acting your age, child.

[*slammin shelby*]

um. wtf.

[dudeness_mcdude]

um. wtf.

um. shove it.

[asung88]

this is kinda nasty.

[*slammin shelby*]

um. shove it.

hahaha wooow. thats your come back.

im sorry. i just think its odd to ask a 11 year old girl if she would rather give a lap dance to the easter bunny or santa.
and btw. SANTA ISNT REAL.
i cannot believe you still believe that santa brings your presents every year. jesus.
if santa was real then he died thousands of years ago.
your parents lie to you and put you gifts under the tree when your asleep.
so why don't you shove it.

[lilJdawg]

Usually people find out their sexual orientation in highschool. You're 12 &she's 11 &you guys are already talking about french kissing with each other? ahaha. i think you girlies should just kick back &enjoy life; not thinking about frenching each other. I mean you probably haven't even hit puberty yet.

[Die romantic]

^ Amen to that.

You're 12, slow down. :]

[*icecreamisyummy*]

silly!

[itsnever4ever]

uhm, first off don't go for her, I mean i she really worth losing your best friend?
remember "bros over hoes."

and second, just chill for now, I mean like ride bikes, and run around and crap cause you're only 12 you will have plenty of time to worry about girls in a few years, so just take it easy.

[coconutter]

i'd rather give the tooth fairy a lap dance

[anonymousgirl123...]

Ew...
Shes 11? T_______T;
How gross.
Ahahaha...
When i was 11.
i Really didnt care about guys. just.. hanging out with them.
and i never made out with anybody.
Im sorry if this sounds rude.
but you made it sound like you were 16 and she was 16.. etc. higher age and shit.
and then wen you said that she was 11. Gross. sounded like she was a slut x]
haha..
but hmmm...
you shouldnt like your bestfriends girlfriend. o_O
its just. plain wrong xD... cause drama and stuff can happen.
i agree with everyone..

[demolished]

hahaha wooow. thats your come back.

im sorry. i just think its odd to ask a 11 year old girl if she would rather give a lap dance to the easter bunny or santa.
and btw. SANTA ISNT REAL.
i cannot believe you still believe that santa brings your presents every year. jesus.
if santa was real then he died thousands of years ago.
your parents lie to you and put you gifts under the tree when your asleep.
so why don't you shove it.

WTF. YOU DONt TELL KIDS THAT SANTA ISNT REAL ! THEY'RE NOT TO SUPPOSE TO FIND OUT !

[beambitious]

Maybe you should have/make some friends in real life.
Wait, did you ever meet her in real life?
The whole thing confuses me.

Eh, you're not even a a teen yet and this is what you do?!
Looks like you've skipped your childhood.

[Dreamers]

]

Usually people find out their sexual orientation in highschool. You're 12 &she's 11 &you guys are already talking about french kissing with each other? ahaha. i think you girlies should just kick back &enjoy life; not thinking about frenching each other. I mean you probably haven't even hit puberty yet.

Actually, puberty starts at 11..............


MMkay, like everyone else said, ya'll are WAY to young to be doin this stuff. And if you truly like this girl, you'll let her be happy and not get involed with their relationship.

[demolished]

13 is a general age for puberty.

[dudeness_mcdude]

hahaha wooow. thats your come back.

im sorry. i just think its odd to ask a 11 year old girl if she would rather give a lap dance to the easter bunny or santa.
and btw. SANTA ISNT REAL.
i cannot believe you still believe that santa brings your presents every year. jesus.
if santa was real then he died thousands of years ago.
your parents lie to you and put you gifts under the tree when your asleep.
so why don't you shove it.

ohhh my godddd, i just joking about that! jesus, what the f**k makes you so f**king dumb!? anurism!?

Maybe you should have/make some friends in real life.
Wait, did you ever meet her in real life?
The whole thing confuses me.

Eh, you're not even a a teen yet and this is what you do?!
Looks like you've skipped your childhood.

yea, ive seen and met her. we all live in oklahoma. and no, i havent skipped my childhood, im just not a dumbass like the rest of people my age. im not sure if this is wat you meant, but its not that ive skipped my childhood, i think way to far ahead. im already getting ready for college.

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

ohhh my godddd, i just joking about that! jesus, what the f**k makes you so f**king dumb!? anurism!?
yea, ive seen and met her. we all live in oklahoma. and no, i havent skipped my childhood, im just not a dumbass like the rest of people my age. im not sure if this is wat you meant, but its not that ive skipped my childhood, i think way to far ahead. im already getting ready for college.

first off you are hella rude!!

well lets see how about you wait until you have gone through puperty and finished elementary school and she waits until she stops shopping at limited too and the kiddy store or aka "Toys 'R' Us.

kid enjoy your childhood your still a CHILD so is the girl she probably hasnt gotten her freaking monthly friend yet . Both of you havnt even finished puperty yet. OR ELEMENTARY school for that matter...........


AND STOP TALKING ABOUT LAP DANCING SANTA. the question is how do your parents let a 12 year old and 11 year old talk about lap dancing and french kissing?

[*My Cinderella.*]

Let's face it guys, kids these days are going through the things we're going through right now.

Like I said, I think you should just forget about your feelings for this girl. (The talking about sexual stuff is only going to make you try to get to know her more.) Just let her and her boyfriend be.

[minioligo]

ohhh my godddd, i just joking about that! jesus, what the f**k makes you so f**king dumb!? anurism!?
yea, ive seen and met her. we all live in oklahoma. and no, i havent skipped my childhood, im just not a dumbass like the rest of people my age. im not sure if this is wat you meant, but its not that ive skipped my childhood, i think way to far ahead. im already getting ready for college.

I think what people are trying to say is that you should stop thinking way too far ahead. Thinking about college is nice I guess, but still. Talking about lapdances with Santa and french kissing doesn't exactly mean you're smarter than the rest of the people your age [or that you're ready for college ]. Instead of reading all the responses regarding your age and your maturity, why don't you read the posts that actually help your situation? Arguing and bashing the people that are giving you negative responses won't make your problems any better. [Though, I can't say I don't agree with them. I still say leave your best friend and his girlfriend alone and go outside and play. ]

[xmoon_lightx]

Well first off yu shouldnt be meesing around with yur best friends gf. thats just messed up ._.and second getting a gf at such young age isnt such a good idea.

[*Uronacid*]

FUKK THAT IT'S AN UNWRITTEN RULE:
Do NOT like your best friend's girl, or you might not have a best friend anymore!

[gr00vyswordsman]

like uronacid said above!

[*Uronacid*]

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[Chanfleh]

Why isn't she playing with barbies?
The chica's future whore material.
Anyways.
You're 12. Leave the chick alone, and don't screw up your friendship with your bestfriend. Young relationships barely last anything anyways.

[gr00vyswordsman]

Why isn't she playing with barbies?

most of the time young people shouldnt mess around with eachother...or even date. BUT it all depends on where you live (country wise), If you were raised with good morals and have the brain of 20 year old at only 12 years old... and so on. I have a reeealy good arguement and ill post later this evening

[gr00vyswordsman]

What does mother nature say? She says that girls are ready to have babies by age 10, which is when menarche occurs. The reason for this is a little strange though, because many girls at that time have an underdeveloped bone structure to withstand childbirth, but that's beside the point.

Remember that in years gone by, all societies around the world used to marry girls off at the age of 12, maybe even 10. Did most of them fall pregnant? Yes. Were any of the husbands/fathers considered paedophiles? ... don't think so. Then suddenly, Western society decides to make a law saying that people below a certain age are considered children, and it's wrong to sleep with said people. They pass this law, then suddenly turn around and point the finger at other societies who have not followed suit and label them barbaric, inhumane, blah blah blah.
Incidentally, how the law defines an adult differs completely from how medical sources define adults.

[cHoCoLaTe_cHiP_c...]

ohhh my godddd, i just joking about that! jesus, what the f**k makes you so f**king dumb!? anurism!?

okay. just calm down. u really shouldnt be messing around with someone elses gf, especially ur best friend's. ur going to cause a ton of drama....

[gr00vyswordsman]

That's really disgusting.

Wait until your testicles have fully grown before you start talking about lapdances and making out.

Dude, READ THE POST above you. Your comments are just personal statements, so stop being immature robbi...post something Factual. The girl posted for advice not for bashing and defiling.

[gr00vyswordsman]

[font=Palatino Linotype]
So don't assume anything about me, I don't even know why I bother explaining myself to you.

But if you want me to give advice, I will.

Your right, i did make a small assumption of you. I didn't really mean to. me <~~~apologizing
^____^

[Mireh]

she's your best friends girlfriend.

whatever happened to dicks before chicks? dudes before boobs?

[gr00vyswordsman]

she's your best friends girlfriend.

whatever happened to dicks before chicks? dudes before boobs?

loooooooool

[mouse_3k]

lol unless u wanna lose ur best friend u should back off. and besides ur 12...dont deal wit girls till ur at least 14...

no, i have met andrew in life maybe about five times. we both live in oklahoma.
i dont think any guy my age could resist the face of this girl.....except for the people with OSD.

umm...ok..any guy ur age would be playin Xbox or somethin..not dealin wit tht. she aint tht pretty ne wayz, she aint worth ur best friend and your lil heart (Cuz if she leaves someone for you, shes bound to leave u for someone else)

[alysaphobia]

no, i have met andrew in life maybe about five times. we both live in oklahoma.
i dont think any guy my age could resist the face of this girl.http://img104.imageshack.us/img104/3081/sunp000nvr0.jpg....except for the people with OSD.

you mean OCD?
and sorry... but don't you not really know her? don't you not really even know her boyfriend that well, since you met him online and met him about 5 times in the past 3 months? just because you talk to someone on the phone/myspace doesn't mean you know them...
besides that, it's just wrong to take your best friend's boyfriend. if you do that... you'll not only lose a girlfriend when you guys eventually break up, you'll have lost a friend too. and that'd suck. :/
sorry to say this, but you're only 12. have fun now while relationships don't cause so much drama and hurt.

[gr00vyswordsman]

i like what &/degradanca says