just had sexx..., knd of freaking outt..read ples= ) Options

[DixieDaCutie]

heyy. so yall can say whatever u want about how having sex in high school is too young or w/e, but a lotta ppl do it. aNYWeys... tonight i had sex 4 the 1st tym wit this guy.. n we didn use a condom or anyting. wow dis is hard 4 me 2 write lol. anyweys i kNOW that wat we did waz completely dumb, yall dont needa tell me dat. but is there n e chance dat im pregnant or no?? n wat did yall feel wen u lost ur virgnity?? cus im feelin soo mny diff thngz ryt now lol

[Intercourselyts]

Uhm yea theres a chance you could be pregnant.

You can be pregnant if:

• your partner ejaculates near your vagina
• you are having sex and your partner pulls out before ejaculating
• you or your partner have semen on your hands and touch your vagina
• your partner ejaculates outside your vagina and then enters your vagina

If it has happened atleast 72 hours ago, and you really think theres some chance of it, then you can go get the morning after pill. But after 72 hours it won't exactly work as much as it would originally.

If you would like to know some symptoms then I can list some if needed.

I've never lost my virginity, so I wouldn't exactly know the feelings that come along with it.

Next time though Deary, please be safer. Think ahead and if your not ready to become a parent then there isn't any point in having sex without being safe.

[*salcha4u*]

heyy. so yall can say whatever u want about how having sex in high school is too young or w/e, but a lotta ppl do it.

Great attitude.

[SarahxJoy]

Hopefully all those kiddies doing it use protection.
Unless they all did what YOU did (or in this case, didn't do), then there'd be even more youngins running around, now wouldn't there?

[Intercourselyts]

^Shes got great grammar too! =X

[tropicalchic]

Go on the morning after pill straight away!!!!!

You may have to go to your doctor (its over the conter in Australia) and take it as soon as possible. Even though the chances of it working lower after 72 hours, there is still a chance it could work.

I've been on it. For me the symptoms weren't so bad, I was a bit queezy during the day but I felt fine the next morning.

I found my feeling a little strange when I lost my virginity. I had only been going out with the guy for a month and I really didn't know him that well at that stage. (However we are still together now and going strong, so I don't regret doing it with him). It was also kind of a relief, if you know what I mean. Like that part of my life was over...... I can't really explain it.

[Intercourselyts]

Remember the effectiveness of the morning after pill is only 75%. Therefore this means that if ten women had unprotected sex and took emergency contraception, two to three of the ten women would still get pregnant.

[SarahxJoy]

Maybe she should call up nine of her other friends, and have them have unprotected sex. Then they could all go on the morning after pill, and she can hope that two or three of her friends get pregnant.

[Intercourselyts]

^hah, thats amusing. To bad it probably won't work out that way.

[*a painefull euphoria*]

heyy. so yall can say whatever u want about how having sex in high school is too young or w/e, but a lotta ppl do it. aNYWeys... tonight i had sex 4 the 1st tym wit this guy.. n we didn use a condom or anyting. wow dis is hard 4 me 2 write lol. anyweys i kNOW that wat we did waz completely dumb, yall dont needa tell me dat. but is there n e chance dat im pregnant or no?? n wat did yall feel wen u lost ur virgnity?? cus im feelin soo mny diff thngz ryt now lol

first of all dollface.
loving the gramar.
secondly.
did you literaly just put your clothes back on and ran to a computer to tell us this??
lmao

as to how i felt when i lost my virginity.

it felt good..it brought me and my amor closer. yeah.
i didnt feel any different.it was like another visit to my bfs house plus got some goodies .heh

[AngelinaTaylor]

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA,

wait, I'm not done..

HAHAHAHAHAHHA.........

"I didn't use a condom, is there a chance I might be pregnat?"

You've got to be KIDDING me. HAHAHAHHA. Um, yes? Dummy. You should be keeping your legs closed.

[*Duchess of Dork*]

^

Yeah, not to beat a dead horse, but seriously can you at least try to type coherently?

Also, this is elementary birds and the bees sh*t, sweetheart. If you don't know whether or not there's a chance of pregnancy with unprotected sex then you REALLY shouldn't be having sex.

[*xcaitlinx*]

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA,

wait, I'm not done..

HAHAHAHAHAHHA.........

"I didn't use a condom, is there a chance I might be pregnat?"

You've got to be KIDDING me. HAHAHAHHA. Um, yes? Dummy. You should be keeping your legs closed.

..but a lot of people do it.


hahah..i'm sorry, "but a lot of people do it" is not a good rationale for your actions at all. i mean seriously, virginity is a very important thing to cherish and i hate hearing about people who don't give a damn. of course you may be pregnant, and if you're the age your profile says you are then you should know that already. and if you didn't, then there's no way in hell that you are mature OR responsible enough to be having sex.

[*a painefull euphoria*]

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHA,

wait, I'm not done..

HAHAHAHAHAHHA.........

"I didn't use a condom, is there a chance I might be pregnat?"

You've got to be KIDDING me. HAHAHAHHA. Um, yes? Dummy. You should be keeping your legs closed.

^lmao

going on with what she was saying its people like you who make dumb choices,that turn into you having dumb children that turn into having more dumb people in the world.
besides people like you who do dumb shit like that strain the american economy with your dependence of welfare and any other aid program that you shouldent even be alowed to recive for being so stupid.

you cant even type in a language thats understandable.

yeah i know your not knocked up but keep that shit up and you will be.

[marzipan]

^lmao

going on with what she was saying its people like you who make dumb choices,that turn into you having dumb children that turn into having more dumb people in the world.
besides people like you who do dumb shit like that strain the american economy with your dependence of welfare and any other aid program that you shouldent even be alowed to recive for being so stupid.

you cant even type in a language thats understandable.

yeah i know your not knocked up but keep that shit up and you will be.

Sadly, that's true. You're stupid if you don't take something like this seriously. And throw your virginity away and say "wELl eVerYone elze doEs iT" or whatever.

[AngelinaTaylor]

^lmao

going on with what she was saying its people like you who make dumb choices,that turn into you having dumb children that turn into having more dumb people in the world.
besides people like you who do dumb shit like that strain the american economy with your dependence of welfare and any other aid program that you shouldent even be alowed to recive for being so stupid.

you cant even type in a language thats understandable.

yeah i know your not knocked up but keep that shit up and you will be.

HAHAHA I love you.

[Stefanny]

There's an emergency kit that can be provided to people 18+
You have to be 18+ to get it, but if you ask your parents, I'm sure that they could get it for you. Unless, of course, you don't want them to know.
Anyways, that kit has pills in them just in case you have sex without any protection. It lowers your chances of being pregnant by around 70-80%

But, if you don't do anything now, them most likely...You'll get pregnant

Sorry, it's the way of life.

[xhidethedetails]

Its common sense whenever you have unprotected sex there's a chance you could get pregnant.

[DixieDaCutie]

ok im typing with proper grammer. does that make you guys happy? anyways.. to whoever said did i just put my clothes on and run to the computer..umm NO. i had been home for like an hour or so and i freaked out and thought id come here because i don't know you guys. i KNOW that what i did was dumb and i should have made a better choice. and i didn't do it "because everyone else does it." i don't know why i did it, but i made my own decision to. anyways.. thanks everyone and i really fuqing hope im not pregnant. and is there any way to get the pill without letting my parents know that i had sex??

[marzipan]

*sigh* If you don't want to get yourself into even MORE trouble, I'd tell your parents. What if you are pregnant, and your parents find out much later down the road?

[*x1227x*]

Hopefully all those kiddies doing it use protection.
Unless they all did what YOU did (or in this case, didn't do), then there'd be even more youngins running around, now wouldn't there?

^ agreed.

there COULD be a chance. you should have used protection. tsk tsk tsk.

[LOWinSKANK]

maybe it is a little stupid to have sex in high school, but what is more dumb is to not use any form of birth control. you should know better. in fact, you probably do. so you made a big mistake, and yes there is a chance that you are pregnant. i`m not sure how long you have to wait before taking a pregnancy test, but there`s a lot of things you should be thinking about right now, and talking to the guy about.

you shouldn`t even be online asking US about this shit, which is making you look REALLY unintelligent, you should be sitting in a doctors office. not only could you be pregnant you could be diseased as well.

way to go. seriously.

[marzipan]

you shouldn`t even be online asking US about this shit, which is making you look REALLY unintelligent, you should be sitting in a doctors office. not only could you be pregnant you could be diseased as well.

way to go. seriously.

That's true.
We're not sex specialists (from what I know...), so a doctor's office would be the best place for you to be now. Not online in a forum.

[mznikki]

uh go to a drug store and the morning after pill by yourself or a clinic. depending how old you are they will keep your information classified so that way your parents don't know, but if you are pregnant either way you sould tell them. also you would know if you were pregnant if you missed your period whenever that may be.

[Comptine]

honestly, i don't know why people come to this forum for help. HELP! I STABBED MYSELF IN THE STOMACH! WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?! honestly, most of else aren't doctors and we just rely on common sense in life. if you really are worried about getting pregnant, i say go get Plan B as soon as possible. you're wasting time here on this forum, reading the same posts over and over again.

you were born in 1990, so i assume you're like 17. in some states, that's enough to get it without a prescription. but most, you got to go to a doctor.

GO TO PLANNED PARENTHOOD RIGHT NOW. everything is confidential. just go. and don't waste time.

if you can type in proper grammar, why the hell would you choose to type like you did in the first post? that just makes everyone think you're stupid and not mature enough to have sex.

[DixieDaCutie]

i can type in proper grammer, its just easier to not sometimes. ghhg i don't knoww why i went here.. i just freaked out cus i knew i had made a huge mistake. im willing to work anything out but i dont want my parents involved... but im going to try and get the pill or w/e else. n yea i know you guys arent doctors, its just easier 2 talk 2 people you don't know sometimes

[*KCreateBlog*]

I don't understand why everyone is bashing her.

Did I miss something really important?

[marzipan]

^ Read the thread, KC. =P

[aznxdreamer]

if you cant figure out whether or not having unprotected sex could possibly lead to pregnancy then you shouldnt be having sex.

when i first did it i was worried too but fortunately for us, we used a condom and im not pregnate so HAH!

[*KCreateBlog*]

^ Read the thread, KC.

I did read the thread, even if she did make the mistake of having unprotected sex, and is oblvious about whether you can get pregnant the first time , how does bashing her help?

Of course me personally, I wouldn't make a thread like this to begin with.

[marzipan]

^ Yeah, I agree.

[asung88]

excuse my french, but get a f**king morning after pill already! Its not that hard to diffuse the problem. Well right now.

[cassjamminx]

i can type in proper grammer, its just easier to not sometimes. ghhg i don't knoww why i went here.. i just freaked out cus i knew i had made a huge mistake. im willing to work anything out but i dont want my parents involved... but im going to try and get the pill or w/e else. n yea i know you guys arent doctors, its just easier 2 talk 2 people you don't know sometimes

well you can get Plan B, which isn't the morning after pill, it's just an emergency contraceptive. it prevents you from becoming pregnant after having unprotected sex or if it ripped or whatever. but you have to take it within i think 72 hours of the intercourse.

if not, then you should get the morning after pill, but that obviously only works if you're actually pregnant. get tested. you can buy them, i know they sell them at the dollar store by my house, haha.

[*sofakinglazy*]

No, although the guy that banged you might be....

[LOWinSKANK]

you were born in 1990, so i assume you're like 17. in some states, that's enough to get it without a prescription. but most, you got to go to a doctor.

i think that`d make her 16, no? i think it does depend on state laws and such.


also, did you and the boy even DISCUSS consequences and/or use of protection? or was it more like "oh well who cares about all the almost preventable things that might [and probably will] happen!?"
if you couldn`t even talk to him about it you shouldn`t be having sex with him.

use this experience in the future when you have to choose between being smart or stupid &hope you learn something..

[cassjamminx]

^ true.

i totally disregarded your age. but yes, if you are 16 or 17, you can't get any of those things i mentioned without a prescription so go to a clinic or to your doctor.

[GREASEbaby]

you were probably wasted..
that's my guess.

so maybe you weren't able to make good decisions.
just do something about it NOW.
go get a pill, go to planned parenthood, TELL YOUR PARENTS.

[Comptine]

well you can get Plan B, which isn't the morning after pill, it's just an emergency contraceptive. it prevents you from becoming pregnant after having unprotected sex or if it ripped or whatever. but you have to take it within i think 72 hours of the intercourse.

if not, then you should get the morning after pill, but that obviously only works if you're actually pregnant. get tested. you can buy them, i know they sell them at the dollar store by my house, haha.

if she was already pregnant, then the morning after pill would be an abortion pill. The Morning After Pill is an emergency contraceptive. Plan B and Morning After Pill are the same thing except different 'brands'. It prevents the fertilized embroyo from attaching successfully to the uterus.

Going to Planned Parenthood. It's is a godsend place. It's confidential and costs next to nothing.

[cassjamminx]

if she was already pregnant, then the morning after pill would be an abortion pill. The Morning After Pill is an emergency contraceptive. Plan B and Morning After Pill are the same thing except different 'brands'. It prevents the fertilized embroyo from attaching successfully to the uterus.

Going to Planned Parenthood. It's is a godsend place. It's confidential and costs next to nothing.

the morning after pill is the abortion pill, but Plan B isn't.

"Plan B® is not RU-486 (the abortion pill); it will not work if you are already pregnant."
(http://www.go2planb.com/ForConsumers/Index.aspx)

and i've heard that planned parent hood is free, but i saw this on their website...

EC Range of Costs
Plan B $10 — $45
one pack of combination pills $20 — $50
two packs of progestin-only pills $50 — $70
visit with health care provider $35 — $150
pregnancy test $10 — $20
Range of Total Cost $10 — $240

maybe those are the prices if you got it elsewhere? but elsewhere is free.. except over the counter of course. oh well.

[femmefatale4160]

First off, go to planned parenthood. Ask them what to do. If in a few weeks you still think that you may be pregnant, tell your parents. And don't EVER have unprotected sex again. Unless of course you're prepared for the consequences.

[AngelinaTaylor]

I did read the thread, even if she did make the mistake of having unprotected sex, and is oblvious about whether you can get pregnant the first time , how does bashing her help?

Maybe it will at least knock some sense into her empty head and make her feel stupid. Which, I think, she is.

I don't think she'd want to make the same mistake after this :)

[lalalaLANUH]

Alrighty, time to stop picking on the girl who was asking for our help and understanding now methinks.

[ima_fake_]

umm wow. some of u are being total asssholes to her. she came here to talk to people she doesnt kno so that shes not asking her friends who might flip out on her.

my advice considering i have alot of friends who get pregnant alll the time. go to a clinic and get the morning after pill. u dont have to tell ur parents.

be safe and get it. but theres always the chance ur not pregnant.

u dont always get pregnant when u have unprotected sex and u DONT ALWAYS GET DISEASES GUYS.

and grammar? what the hell does that have to do about ANYTHING?

[coconutter]

what does you ranting after the topic is pretty much been resolved have to do with ANYTHING?

[ima_fake_]

ummm im not ranting ok? im writing my opinon. if it doesnt matter to you why would u fcking read it? maybe it matters to someone else.

[AngelinaTaylor]

umm wow. some of u are being total asssholes to her. she came here to talk to people she doesnt kno so that shes not asking her friends who might flip out on her.

my advice considering i have alot of friends who get pregnant alll the time. go to a clinic and get the morning after pill. u dont have to tell ur parents.

be safe and get it. but theres always the chance ur not pregnant.

u dont always get pregnant when u have unprotected sex and u DONT ALWAYS GET DISEASES GUYS.

and grammar? what the hell does that have to do about ANYTHING?

1. Sure, pass on that you DON'T ALWAYS get pregnat/get STDs while having unprotected sex. That's a great thing to pass on to teenagers! Kudos.

2. The worse you type, the more idiotic you seem. That's all :)

[ima_fake_]

1. Sure, pass on that you DON'T ALWAYS get pregnat/get STDs while having unprotected sex. That's a great thing to pass on to teenagers! Kudos.

2. The worse you type, the more idiotic you seem. That's all :)

ok im not trying to pass on something bad im just trying to make her feel better and let her kno that it doesnt ALWAYS happen but at the same time it can. just a little reasurance that she may be ok. lol

and about the typing i understand but it has nothing to do with the topic. lol

[AngelinaTaylor]

ok im not trying to pass on something bad im just trying to make her feel better and let her kno that it doesnt ALWAYS happen but at the same time it can. just a little reasurance that she may be ok. lol

and about the typing i understand but it has nothing to do with the topic. lol

Haha, we always go off-topic :D

By making her feel better you're not necessarily helping her. Just so you know :)

[rainie8847]

wouldn't ur bf be smart enough to put on a condom?! O__o

[*WHIMSICAL 0NE*]

...And to think you could've spent the time learning more about the English language.

Anyways, I agree with the actual information on the thread. Go talk to someone at PP. They, by law, cannot give out your information. Hopefully you will NEVER make a mistake like that again.

I don't think that people were necessarily "bashing" her. But I think that the way she typed made her seem immature which just added to her stupidity of having unprotected sex. I hope it felt good, never let it happen again until you're doing it to actually have babies.

[cassjamminx]

wouldn't ur bf be smart enough to put on a condom?! O__o

haha. true. maybe.. they didn't have one?

none the less= get tested, go to a clinic, and get what you need to get done.

[*a painefull euphoria*]

ok im typing with proper grammer. does that make you guys happy? anyways.. to whoever said did i just put my clothes on and run to the computer..umm NO. i had been home for like an hour or so and i freaked out and thought id come here because i don't know you guys. i KNOW that what i did was dumb and i should have made a better choice. and i didn't do it "because everyone else does it." i don't know why i did it, but i made my own decision to. anyways.. thanks everyone and i really fuqing hope im not pregnant. and is there any way to get the pill without letting my parents know that i had sex??

dont "umm" me missy.

ok i retract me saying that you just put your clothes back on and ran to a computer.
im sorry.
you put your clothes on,then waited an hour or so to run to a computer to tell us.. lmao

sorry i cant help it.


maybe in your babbling there was a misunderstanding as to you saying that you did beacuse everyone else does it.but clearly what i took it as along with everyone else here we read it saying that you had sex young beacuse "everyone else does"

and depending on state there are ways to see if you are infact pregnant.

umm wow. some of u are being total asssholes to her. she came here to talk to people she doesnt kno so that shes not asking her friends who might flip out on her.

a-hole is my middle name.[actualy its christine.]
no, but for serious not everyone is gonna always have the "aww well do this______"aproach with out any type of criticism. especialy when the original thread post was

heyy. so yall can say whatever u want about how having sex in high school is too young or w/e, but a lotta ppl do it. aNYWeys... tonight i had sex 4 the 1st tym wit this guy.. n we didn use a condom or anyting. wow dis is hard 4 me 2 write lol. anyweys i kNOW that wat we did waz completely dumb, yall dont needa tell me dat. but is there n e chance dat im pregnant or no?? n wat did yall feel wen u lost ur virgnity?? cus im feelin soo mny diff thngz ryt now lol

no offence but did you really think people would be nice about giving advice to this??

my advice considering i have alot of friends who get pregnant alll the time. go to a clinic and get the morning after pill. u dont have to tell ur parents.

^wtf thats just as a moronic idea practive what you preach about giving good advice. that just says "dont listen to me".

sorry but thats how i see it
love me or hate me thats your f**king problem

[Comptine]

the morning after pill is the abortion pill, but Plan B isn't.

"Plan B® is not RU-486 (the abortion pill); it will not work if you are already pregnant."
(http://www.go2planb.com/ForConsumers/Index.aspx)

and i've heard that planned parent hood is free, but i saw this on their website...

EC Range of Costs
Plan B $10 — $45
one pack of combination pills $20 — $50
two packs of progestin-only pills $50 — $70
visit with health care provider $35 — $150
pregnancy test $10 — $20
Range of Total Cost $10 — $240

maybe those are the prices if you got it elsewhere? but elsewhere is free.. except over the counter of course. oh well.

Morning after pill is emergency contraception. It cannot be classified as an abortion pill. It prevents pregnancies before they can completely happen or end the process of fertilization/implantation.

Morning After Pill. It's important to make this distinction because abortion pills carry a completely different set of rules. Morning After Pill/Plan B must be taken within 3-5 days. Each day decreases the effect. The abortion pill requires multiple visits, much more expensive, has higher side effects and must be taken within 8 weeks.

umm wow. some of u are being total asssholes to her. she came here to talk to people she doesnt kno so that shes not asking her friends who might flip out on her.

my advice considering i have alot of friends who get pregnant alll the time. go to a clinic and get the morning after pill. u dont have to tell ur parents.

be safe and get it. but theres always the chance ur not pregnant.

u dont always get pregnant when u have unprotected sex and u DONT ALWAYS GET DISEASES GUYS.

and grammar? what the hell does that have to do about ANYTHING?

you have friends who get pregnant all the time? and they just use the morning after pill... like birth control?

maybe that's why we're reprimanding her. cause i'm assuming, you 'assure' your friends they are okay. they get pregnant all the time? with a name like ima_fake, i guess i shouldn't believe you.

you need to be a better friend and smack the stupid out of them. they are irresponsible and you are too for letting them carry on.

and well, grammar makes sure you don't look even more stupid in front of other people.

[cassjamminx]

[font=Arial][size=1]
Morning after pill is emergency contraception. It cannot be classified as an abortion pill. It prevents pregnancies before they can completely happen or end the process of fertilization/implantation.

jesus i should complain to those who taught me other wise lol.

[DixieDaCutie]

heyy just an update for you guys {yea note that my grammer is fine in this 1 too..=0o wow} i talked to my sister and her boyfriend and they drove me to planned parenthood today. i got the emergency contraception pills and they told me to just take both of them now..but yea it was within 72 hours and the people there are soo fukking nice. i might get birth control 2 just in case it ever happens again but yea thanks 2 everyone that was tryna help . yall can close this topic now =))

[tokyo-rose]

heyy just an update for you guys {yea note that my grammer is fine in this 1 too..=0o wow} i talked to my sister and her boyfriend and they drove me to planned parenthood today. i got the emergency contraception pills and they told me to just take both of them now..but yea it was within 72 hours and the people there are soo fukking nice. i might get birth control 2 just in case it ever happens again but yea thanks 2 everyone that was tryna help . yall can close this topic now =))

It's good you got help after all then. I hope you'll be more careful from now on so that "just in case it ever happens again," doesn't happen again.

[ldyxluvable]

i cant believe your in highschool and you dont know those facts it common sense

[smoke]

Roger that.