how should i tell her., i like her? Options

[pinoyboy93]

hmm. so yea. my best friend just broke up with her bf that she didnt really care about that much and everything has died down. i have all my classes with her and sit next to her in everyone of them. i like her. well. i love her. but i dont know how to tell her. im scared things might get awkward or some shittt like that. how should i tell her how i feel. helppp

[*mipadi*]

The key here is to feel comfortable doing it. If you feel comfortable and confident in telling her how you feel, it'll just happen, and it'll just happen right. But if you don't feel comfortable, don't even bother right now, because you'll just f**k it up anyway.

[Cujiine]

Well if you don't feel comfortable around her... I don't see how you can love her... but umm just kinda sneak little hints into your convos.. that's how I got my guy

[_sarcastic_]

The key here is to feel comfortable doing it. If you feel comfortable and confident in telling her how you feel, it'll just happen, and it'll just happen right. But if you don't feel comfortable, don't even bother right now, because you'll just f**k it up anyway.

i agree

bring it up casually in a conversation or sth

[pinacoolada]

when you tell her, just say it casually as opposed to overdramatically. And don't act desperate or anything like that..act confident.

[itsnever4ever]

yea just go for it, and if she doesn't like you, then it probably will get awkward, you have to decide what's worth more

[MyEverLastingHop...]

Well, give her time if she just broke up with her boyfriend, even if she wasn't crazy about him, she still might have gotten stressed when she broke it off.

Be a good friend to her, let her know you care. Don't rush into things too fast, or you might scare her. But yeah, be casual. If she doesnt share your feelings, theres always hope that she will come around.

& You don't want to lose her as a friend, even if she isn't dating you.
Remember, she was your friend first.

[*krnxswat*]

It's not love, you f**king moron.

[OhMyAnniee]

Wait a few days. Then bring it up in a conversation (mentioned by the other responses).

[MyEverLastingHop...]

Like another member said, it might not be love.
I am, I don't know your whole situation, so it really isn't my place to judge what is and isn't considered love, because love depends on what people do consider love. & it's an emotion, you can't judge people's emotions.

Maybe, you have liked her for a very long time, but be careful. Don't build her in your mind as someone perfect and without flaws, because I'm sad to say, everyone has flaws. If you do think of her as an idol, if you two do go out and she does anything wrong, it will shatter your beautiful image as her being perfect.

Just remember to try to think about things with a level head.

[*My Cinderella.*]

The key here is to feel comfortable doing it. If you feel comfortable and confident in telling her how you feel, it'll just happen, and it'll just happen right. But if you don't feel comfortable, don't even bother right now, because you'll just f**k it up anyway.

I couldn't have said it any better myself. Don't rush yourself into telling her if you're not redy to. When you're good and ready and have the confidence too, then tell her. Weigh your options first. What will you have to lose if you do tell her?

[gr00vyswordsman]

Ok soooo maybe this is more for proposals,,,..buuuut their nice and fluffy to read ^_^ youll have sparks of ideas of how to tell her. arrange to meet her at a beautiful part, or have a good artist paint a portait with her in it maybe!adding something really special in the portrait, and she'll really like that! hehehe

[rAwritsgWeg]

Mmmm. First get comfortable and the just tell her. You can't be nervous about it. If she gets weirded out, then you know she isn't for you. Mmm. Just tell her the way you feel, no girl(at least I'd expect so) would laugh you or anything, so just stay calm and tell her

^_^

Tell Me How it goes

[technicolour]

Look at her straight in the eye and say "Baby, you and I. Dinner. Friday Night. "

Show confidence. Confidence is very sexy.

[voguelove]

so, youre best friends with her?

that'll be easy! i think you should just tell her straight out. and confront her about your feelings. she'll understand. ;]

[iROCKYOURSOCKS]

Look at her straight in the eye and say "Baby, you and I. Dinner. Friday Night. "

Show confidence. Confidence is very sexy.

and that is the best way to do it


but for the love of cheese-its DONT tell her that you like her over AIM, EMAIL, TEXT MESSAGE or over the PHONE. tell her in person it will actually show her that you care enough to tell her in person and hopefully she will realize how brave you are because it takes courage to go up to her and tell her how you feel about her.

personally i just think that you are just used to being around her so much that is why you like her . love is a complicated thing and you just seem to me that you are just in "love" with her because you have all these classes with her and you sit by her. Read what you said again do you really think its love just because you have the same classes and sit with each other? eeehh it really doesnt convince me.