How do you approach for a girl? Options

[JerzDevil]

This is a question asked from many guys. And no, I'm not telling myself in 3rd person. If he likes a girl and has a crush on her, how should he approach her to have a good, loving relationship? Should he start out being friends with her or what? Talk to her? Greet? What are your thoughts?

[*krnxswat*]

You ask the stupidest questions.

[MzFeathers]

well i know ur lookin for guy guidance but looky here girls like when you be yourself no matter how silly it sounds and polite

[PandaKnight14]

You ask the stupidest questions.

You give the stupidest replies.

[MzFeathers]

lol yall are silly

[JerzDevil]

You guys give the stupidest advices .. smh wow .. guess most of you guys are "unexperienced" especially seon ho .. what a fool

[pedophile]

Talk to her. Duhh.
Oh, & don't be a douche.

[*krnxswat*]

You give the stupidest replies.

Not really.

guess most of you guys are "unexperienced" especially seon ho .. what a fool

How comical coming from a 10 year old
Please, for createBlog's sake, change your stupid signature; you just might scare the newcomers away.

[*WHIMSICAL 0NE*]

-rollseyes- Anyways, you should talk to her. Maybe ask her out. Duh.

[Stefanny]

Just approach her...?
Talk, mingle...
stuff like that'll get you pretty far...

[JerzDevil]

Not really.
How comical coming from a 10 year old
Please, for createBlog's sake, change your stupid signature; you just might scare the newcomers away.

Someone tell this person to get his brain checked or something .. he's thinks i'm 10 years old!!

Seon Ho, I'm 15 years old. What are you like in college right? But your still a Virgin. Don't worry, time will come for you soon.

[miiichellley]

Please, for createBlog's sake, change your stupid signature; you just might scare the newcomers away.

Hahaha.

Use a pickup line. Just kidding.
Start with a casual, friendly approach. Well, depending if you're already friends..then just ask to like hang out or whatever, as friends.

[unconfirmed_exis...]

note: I'm not an expert on the topic nor a guy.
So I don't blame you if you decide
to just skip over what I have to say.

But personally I would advise..

A attempt at a casual conversation between the two.
It should help determine whether or not
the two would make a good match.
If things just go awkwardly maybe it's good
to get to know each other for a bit to settle things down a bit.
But if they click, hey maybe there's no need
to be close friends before hooking up.

I mean you don't just get a good
relationship by starting off as friends or a greeting.
It depends solely on the people involved.
I mean do you think a pepper and an
ant would have a good relationship?!
Some people just go well together
and some don't work out. So it all depends..

Oh gosh I hope I make sense.

[*mipadi*]

I like to answer questions based on experiences fresh in my own mind, so here's a little story. I was interested in a nice young woman a few months back. We'd known each other for about a year and a half, and hung out on a pretty regular basis (just as friends). So I became interested. So one night, I went down to the newspaper where she worked as an editor, told her I had some important business to discuss, and asked her to dinner. Naturally she said yes.

Okay, so what's the point? Well, the best approach is just to ask. Don't worry about some elaborate plan: becoming friends, becoming better friends, or whatever. And don't think too much about the future: Don't worry about making it permanent. Just do it. Ask her out to dinner, a movie, to a local museum (if she's into that sort of thing), a local sporting event (again, if she's into that), or whatever. But just ask.

As for making it more permanent... I don't know. Ask someone who's better at commitments. I'm a professional first-dater, but I know nothing about long-term relationships.

[JerzDevil]

Yeah but it takes confidence to ask a girl to take her out to wherever. Plus, this girl I'm feeling isn't in my school. She goes to my korean school mhm so I see her only on a weekend. I never even talked to her yet, but you know when people first meet me, they think i'm a "shy" person .. but once they get to know me and start hanging out for a bit, people would think i'm very loud, kind, and active. Why would I ask someone to a dinner if I'm only 15? I ain't ready for that yet .. but movies? Yeah that's possible if the time is right. But yeah you cant just go front of her and say "I like you" .. that's f**king retarded. So I'm trying to find a easy way to get along with her .. But you know it isn't that easy. I don't know what she cares about. Looks? Personality? Fashion? Not to stereotype .. but yeah she's asian (obviously) .. so I hope she cares about the personality/kindness more .. dont hate

[AimeeLynn]

Hey don't let him bother you...

Anyways, This works for me and doesn't seem that you want her so bad lol. This process will take a little time so be patient. First, smile at her in the hallways. When she starts smiling back, start saying "Hey".Then when she starts to say "Hi" back, when you guys are alone start to start a convo with her about maybe your class or hobbies etc. When you feel confortable to talk to her in AIM or something like that, ask her her sn. Sooner than you relize you are really good friends with her.

Hope I helped a little.

[JerzDevil]

I don't know if she's single or taken though =/

[*KCreateBlog*]

Go up to her and say

"I don't know your name but excuse me miss I saw you from across the rooooooooooooom, and I gotta admit that you got my attention , you're making me wanna say yooooooooooooo"

[angelrevelation]

Different approaches work with different people.. like for all things in life, really.

Usually you can't just go up to a girl and ask her out immediately, especially since you're only 15 (i guess it works when you're 20-ish). since she's in your class, start asking her random questions when you pass by, like "did you find the homework hard?" or something... then when you become more familiar with each other, like when she expects you two to talk every class day, move onto "how was your weekend?". you don't really have to become friends necessarily, just friendly.

Be yourself, and don't look like you're trying too hard. good luck

[*krnxswat*]

Someone tell this person to get his brain checked or something .. he's thinks i'm 10 years old!!

Seon Ho, I'm 15 years old. What are you like in college right? But your still a Virgin. Don't worry, time will come for you soon.

You sure don't talk like a 15 year old!
So what if I'm a virgin? It's something I'm proud of; I don't believe it premarital sex.
But I'm sure it's no problem not getting laid for you, even if you don't believe in premarital sex or not.

Don't worry, time will come for you soon........ (probably not).

[showstopper!]

Talk to her, get to know her more, then ask her out.

[lanbexx]

you becomre friends and pursue her. if she seems interested in you ie willing to talk to you over other guy friends and/or hang out with you unless she has a REAL reason, they you nut up and just find a moment when you 2 are alone, and ask her out. or else you dont have the confidence to keep her in a relationship if you dont have the balls to personally ask.

[AimeeLynn]

I don't know if she's single or taken though =/

Well, you become friends she will obviously talk about her boyfriend.

[*kryogenix*]

How to approach a girl

1. Put on clothes and shoes
2. Alternate moving your right and left foot forward
3. Repeat step 2 until you are at a sufficient distance to initiate verbal communication
4. ???
5. Profit!!!

[JerzDevil]

You sure don't talk like a 15 year old!
So what if I'm a virgin? It's something I'm proud of; I don't believe it premarital sex.
But I'm sure it's no problem not getting laid for you, even if you don't believe in premarital sex or not.

Don't worry, time will come for you soon........ (probably not).

How can I "talk" if this is the Internet, you idiot? So all 15 year olds have to act on the internet like how they act in real life? Wow just .. remain silent from now on.